Vasectomy - From a Misc'rs POV

[Boston03G35]

Purpose of this thread is just gonna be my perspective of this procedure and for others to get an outlook as to what it's like.

I have an appointment next Wednesday (1/23) at 11:45am at Boston Medical Center.

I have been thinking about this for a few years now, ever since my 2nd child was born. Now seems as though it's as good of a time as any, I do not want any more children.

I will post my thoughts the day leading up to the procedure, and before I leave to go to the hospital...As well as what happened and how I feel afterwards...and the days/weeks after

feel free to post any questions about this. Also, lets try to keep this infomative for others who may be thinking about this in the future...

Anyone who has actually HAD the procedure, feel free to add your thoughts/experience...

[vegeta9000]

rather have my balls giving me test.

bad move imo. but wateverz

[AmericanManiac]

Cancel the appointment and dont do it...keep your manhood and have it for the rest of your life.

[user23960508710783]

Did anyone else cringe when they read this?

Aren't you worried about pain? It's a sensitive area.

[Boston03G35]

rather have my balls giving me test.

injectable test > bodily produced test

Aren't you worried about pain? It's a sensitive area.

I was more worried about the tattoos on my back than I am this. It's an 11 minute procedure and I have the best Urologist/Reproductive Surgeon in Massachusetts performing it.

[user23960508710783]

injectable test > bodily produced test



I was more worried about the tattoos on my back than I am this. It's an 11 minute procedure and I have the best Urologist/Reproductive Surgeon in Massachusetts performing it.

Is your wife putting pressure on you to do this? Is she mad at you?

[yanksbgood]

Make sure to freeze a few for later on, just in case. However I think you're making a huge mistake. Cancel before its too late.

[Boston03G35]

Is your wife putting pressure on you to do this? Is she mad at you?

No, I am not married anymore. I am not being pressured into this at all, I have wanted it for a while and finally found the right doctor I feel comfortable with.

This may sound dumb, but I am not all that responsible when it has come to sex in the past, and I dont want another child, period. I want to retire with dough and enjoy my life, n ot some broke ass slave working till im 70 because i have rugrats to support. My youngest will be 18 in 15.5 years, I will be 43 and done with kids from a child support standpoint.

[ExtremeEnigma]

are u guys dumb? it doesnt affect your test. all it does it prevent sperm from getting into your semen. you can still get a hard on, ejaculate, etc just without sperm. it's simply birth control. lol @ thinking it makes you somehow less of a man.

if you already have 2 kids and are sure you don't want any more, then go for it as long as you're comfortable with surgery and everything.

[Dragger]

Go for it and good luck.

And ignore anyone here trying to change your mind, it's not their decision or their life.

[Boston03G35]

are u guys dumb? it doesnt affect your test. all it does it prevent sperm from getting into your semen. you can still get a hard on, ejaculate, etc just without sperm. it's simply birth control. lol @ thinking it makes you somehow less of a man.

I was gonna say this, but looking at them post was so much more fun...Am I the only individual in the world who's vas supply my body with testosterone??

ignore anyone here trying to change your mind, it's not their decision or their life.

I plan on it, this will be done, no bitching out or having anyone change my mind.

Thanks man..

[The BeatMaker]

Make sure to freeze a few for later on, just in case. However I think you're making a huge mistake. Cancel before its too late.

good advice, OP I know u dont want any more kids but u should still consider doing this, u never know where you'll be in life....5/10/20 years from now.

[Boston03G35]

good advice, OP I know u dont want any more kids but u should still consider doing this, u never know where you'll be in life....5/10/20 years from now.

thanks man, but adoption is the only option I will ever consider later on in life. I have a girlfriend who feels the same way. If this relationship doesnt work out for whatever reason, the next woman will have to want the same things in life as me or there will be no relationship. I am real open about this, this was talked about in great lengths with my girl and she agree's 100%

I am real firm on this aspect of my life...it wont change.

[Knight2007]

I still say freeze a few for the future... you never know bro. What will the harm be to freeze some for POSSIBLE future needs? If anything, and you end up not using them, you can sell them for $$$$$$.

So yea.

[Dragger]

I plan on doing the same, ever since my 2nd was born.

I'm coming up on 30, I have my family. If something were to happen there is no "replacing" my loved ones with new ones.

It's not like lossing the TV remote and picking up another on the way home from work.

[The BeatMaker]

thanks man, but adoption is the only option I will ever consider later on in life. I have a girlfriend who feels the same way. If this relationship doesnt work out for whatever reason, the next woman will have to want the same things in life as me or there will be no relationship. I am real open about this, this was talked about in great lengths with my girl and she agree's 100%

I am real firm on this aspect of my life...it wont change.

k, i respect that.

One question tho, do u have brothers/close mates/extended family ur real close to? if u do, u might want to consider their needs.... I know it sounds far fetched but if a family member suddenly needed some sperm for whatever reason you could be there for them.

I still think freezing some wouldn't hurt. They aren't neccessarily for you.

[Boston03G35]

do u have brothers/close mates/extended family ur real close to? if u do, u might want to consider their needs.... I know it sounds far fetched but if a family member suddenly needed some sperm for whatever reason you could be there for them.

No I don't have anyone like that. Good question though

[The BeatMaker]

No I don't have anyone like that. Good question though

alright, good luck with the procedure then. Keep us posted.

[Boston03G35]

alright, good luck with the procedure then. Keep us posted.

I plan too thanks..

hope the gay porn is ****in removed soon, this **** is ridiculous....can't we get some stright porn trolls?

[Beklet]

Cancel the appointment and dont do it...keep your manhood and have it for the rest of your life.

WTF? He's having his tubes cut not his cock cut off.....

If this relationship doesnt work out for whatever reason, the next woman will have to want the same things in life as me or there will be no relationship. I am real open about this, this was talked about in great lengths with my girl and she agree's 100%

I am real firm on this aspect of my life...it wont change.

Good on ya! Stick firm, don't let anyone try to bully you - from all the 'what happens if you meet the 'right' girl?' (the correct answer is 'the right girl doesn't want kids' ) to the 'No girl will ever want you if you can't give her kids' bull****, if it's what you truly want, go for it, it'll be worth it in the end to be free of the anxiety of possibly getting someone pregnant

[Boston03G35]

thanks Beklet...

[Riceboi]

Dumb question but after the operation when you cum, white stuff still comes out right, but there is no sperm in it? (serious)

[Boston03G35]

Dumb question but after the operation when you cum, white stuff still comes out right, but there is no sperm in it? (serious)

not a dumb question at all. The anwser is yes. There is still semen, just no sperm in the semenal fluid.

There were a lot of wierd questions that went through my mind and girls asked me.


Does the constistancy change?
Does it look different after you nut?
Does it taste different with no sperm?
Will there be as much volume wise?

etc...

[Fuelish]

are u guys dumb? it doesnt affect your test. all it does it prevent sperm from getting into your semen. you can still get a hard on, ejaculate, etc just without sperm. it's simply birth control. lol @ thinking it makes you somehow less of a man.

if you already have 2 kids and are sure you don't want any more, then go for it as long as you're comfortable with surgery and everything.

^^^^^^Ditto that^^^^^^ I got a V several years ago after the birth of our second kid.......was an excellent thing Pain was minimal, no complications, don't have to worry about birth control anymore.......and the VERY BEST part - insurance paid 50% of the bill, and the other 50% was waived "as a professional courtesy" (which was odd as niether my wife nor I worked for that doctor or med group.....but I wasn't going to complain ) So it was 100% gratis

[user23960508710783]

WTF? He's having his tubes cut not his cock cut off.....



Good on ya! Stick firm, don't let anyone try to bully you - from all the 'what happens if you meet the 'right' girl?' (the correct answer is 'the right girl doesn't want kids' ) to the 'No girl will ever want you if you can't give her kids' bull****, if it's what you truly want, go for it, it'll be worth it in the end to be free of the anxiety of possibly getting someone pregnant

I wish all women thought like you do.

[bill257]

Can you easily get it reversed if you do ever change your mind?

[shivsean]

Somewhat Related Funny story

I knew a guy that was in a hunting accident and somehow his insides got screwed up to the point of the surgens having to redirect the path of his seminal output into his stomach. So basically he jizzed into his own stomach when he blew.

The discussion came up when I asked him if he wore protection during sex and he said he did not need to (for pregnancy at least). I said oh you got a vas? He said no and explained the story.

Still freaks me out to think he was indirectly injesting his own load...

David, let it roll...

[shivsean]

Can you easily get it reversed if you do ever change your mind?

Some doctors claim to be able to but the general consensus is NO.

[dazzlepecs]

dont get them cut, have them tied so it can be reversed

[regular_guy]

I had mine done 2 years ago when I was 27 after my wife and I had our second child. You have nothing to worry about with pain--they gave me a ******, hydrocodone, and used a local anasthetic. For a week afterwards though my balls swole to the size of grapefruit, but I was actually running 2 days after getting cut, having sex 5 days after, and completely normal within a week. The biggest mistake people make is having unprotected sex right after the surgery that results in pregnancy. It's gonna take 4-6 weeks before you're actually sterile, and you have to take a "sample" to the doctor to get it checked.

As far as all other questions regarding the after effects...
There's no difference in consistency, look, volume, texture, and my wife has told me--taste. You stated that you were careless in the past with sex-- this will probably make you a lot more reckless because you know that you can't procreate. Any more questions--feel free to ask.