Feel embarrassed and beta af right now, not sure how to behave in this type of situation so hopefully you brahs can give me a few pointers for next time I'm in a situation like this..
So I went to hang out with this girl I'm dating and she had all her friends at her apartment, they were having like a really mild party. This one guy that shows up is very cocky and annoying. First thing he said when he walked in was "Who's this guy" and everyone just looked at me and I didn't say anything (What am I supposed to say) then the party goes on and he's just very obnoxious then ends up taking the hat off my head. This guy is bigger and taller than me so I can't really fight the dude so I just kinda stood there like I didn't care but I looked stupid af not doing anything about it. He then throws my hat down the hallway. Girl I'm dating told him to stop and then he went outside to smoke with his friends. I walk down the hallway to grab my beanie and just thinking I'm pathetic at this point, not sure what the fuk to do in this kind of situation?
Cliffs
-Girl I'm dating had a mild party at her apartment
-This obnoxious guy shows up with his buddies
-He harasses me and takes off my hat throws it down hallway
-Guy is bigger and taller than OP with a crew of friends with him
-OP looks like a weak beta that didn't do anything about it
-Guy leaves to smoke
-OP walked down hallway to grab hat off ground
-OP does not know what to do in this kind of situation.
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01-31-2018, 07:46 PM #1
Hanged out with girl I'm dating and her guy friend took my hat off at a party. Help
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01-31-2018, 08:11 PM #10
As soon as he said, "Who's this guy" and you didn't say something back ... you just opened yourself up to being his bitch. It was clearly a male bitch test. Should of at least said, "Who are you" in a you're the douchebag tone.
Groups of people that allow douches like that are the worst. Clearly the guy is the alpha of the group and every male is beta including you for not calling the guy out on his *******ry. The group will continue to be gay because nobody has the balls to alienate the douchebag."There's a fine line between salvation and drinking poison in the jungle." -Gym Jones
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01-31-2018, 08:18 PM #16
What the **** did you just ****ing say about me, you little bitch? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class in the Navy Seals, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret raids on Al-Quaeda, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am trained in gorilla warfare and I’m the top sniper in the entire US armed forces. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will wipe you the **** out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on this Earth, mark my ****ing words. You think you can get away with saying that **** to me over the Internet? Think again, ****er. As we speak I am contacting my secret network of spies across the USA and your IP is being traced right now so you better prepare for the storm, maggot. The storm that wipes out the pathetic little thing you call your life. You’re ****ing dead, kid. I can be anywhere, anytime, and I can kill you in over seven hundred ways, and that’s just with my bare hands. Not only am I extensively trained in unarmed combat, but I have access to the entire arsenal of the United States Marine Corps and I will use it to its full extent to wipe your miserable ass off the face of the continent, you little ****. If only you could have known what unholy retribution your little “clever” comment was about to bring down upon you, maybe you would have held your ****ing tongue. But you couldn’t, you didn’t, and now you’re paying the price, you goddamn idiot. I will **** fury all over you and you will drown in it. You’re ****ing dead, kiddo.
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when he says "who are you" what he really means is "who are you."
this is where you say who you are OP.
the trick here is to say who your name so he knows who you are. try using the following words "my name is *******, hows it going." avoid offering to suck his dickSniff hard as fuk when guys pass by to smell their balls crew
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01-31-2018, 08:53 PM #25
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01-31-2018, 08:54 PM #26
I've had **** like this happen to me and I've acted beta before. It takes practice, took a good 40 times of harassment from other kids and my friends to handle it. When **** like this happens, you have several options.
1. Act cool, act like you don't give a **** if it's their bullying is a minor insult, and say something like "sure."
2. Get mad, violent, and push/kick/shove them in a way without actually inflicting real damage, as a warning. It's unlikely they'll fight back, even if they are taller. (I've done this so many times and it always works.)
3. Threaten you'll do something violent to them like shoving your foot in their mouth.
4. Come up with a clever insult to make them mad. When he threw your hat, you should have said, "Damn, someone's insecure."
These are my go to options. Usually people harass because they're jealous.
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