GF was invited to ex BF's birthday party - won't let me go with her

[jawbruh]

Yesterday my gf of 7 months was invited to her ex bf's birthday party that is happening tomorrow.

I am completely fine with that because I understand it is not easy or human to erase 3 year relationship from the surface in one snap of fingers. Before we became official, they had been together for 3 years (she's the loyal type) and they still remain in touch, but only as friends.

I am not insecure about her past and her ex's, because they have literally nothing on me. I consider myself to be quite a catch, all things considered.

When she told me about it yesterday, I asked her about the venue and the dress code because some of my clothes are still in the dry cleaning. She seemed to be surprised and kind of caught off guard as if she didn't expect me to go with her. Then she suggested that it would be better if she went alone or with her best friend if I don't trust her, which is not the case at all.

I'm wondering whether I should just let her go by herself to show that I trust her, or will it set a bad precedent for her future outings?

[Tony_S]

your relationship is a joke

[Lexira]

An ex is an ex. Why the hell is she still in contact with him. Play it the other way around, you are going to your ex-gf party alone, how would she respond??? RED FLAGS ALL OVER BOYO

[SasquatchHunter]

I hope you are trolling. If not it's probably best you let her EX furk you too.

[cjmadscientist]

so what you're saying is, your ex-girlfriend was invited to a party

[2n2u]

LOL @ suggesting going alone to her ex's party.

[QuickNutkus]

The cope is strong with this one

Edit I missed the disclaimer shame on me.

[204Inches]

Game over

[Love-Feet]

They still love each other, and youre a *******

[WinningBrah]

Lmao misc is generally too paranoid about this type of stuff but this is totally phucked up. If she's truly just friends with the ex she should want to show off her new BF and let you meet the circle of friends. Prepare to get cucked op

[GrandmaFer]

Op how does it feel knowing your girlfriend has absolutely no respect for you

[bigbroski4u]

Typical misc cuck thread. Nothing new to read here. Miscers and cuckoldry go hand in hand.

[YeezusBrah]

Lol you either go with her or tell her she can't go at all. That's disrespectful to your relationship if she thinks she can pull some shenanigans like that.

[Jabroni89]

Yesterday my gf of 7 months was invited to her ex bf's birthday party that is happening tomorrow.

I am completely fine with that because I understand it is not easy or human to erase 3 year relationship from the surface in one snap of fingers. Before we became official, they had been together for 3 years (she's the loyal type) and they still remain in touch, but only as friends.

I am not insecure about her past and her ex's, because they have literally nothing on me. I consider myself to be quite a catch, all things considered.

When she told me about it yesterday, I asked her about the venue and the dress code because some of my clothes are still in the dry cleaning. She seemed to be surprised and kind of caught off guard as if she didn't expect me to go with her. Then she suggested that it would be better if she went alone or with her best friend if I don't trust her, which is not the case at all.

I'm wondering whether I should just let her go by herself to show that I trust her, or will it set a bad precedent for her future outings?

[Zackad]

If her ex was really just a friend, and didn't have any ulterior motives, he'd insist or at least offer for her to bring you. So either he did and your gf just doesn't wanna tell you, or want you there (bad sign) or he didn't and they got some bad news for you bruh.

You guys have been together 7 months. if it was 3 months of less, or her ex is deeply involved with her family, it might be acceptable. IMO you should either

[SenorMcBrah]

Lmao misc is generally too paranoid about this type of stuff but this is totally phucked up. If she's truly just friends with the ex she should want to show off her new BF and let you meet the circle of friends. Prepare to get cucked op

^This. If it wasn't an issue you would have been invited as well and everything would be OK. The fact that she doesn't seem to want you to come along indicates that she still has something for her ex (whether her ex still has a thing for her may or may not be true).

[straightflexing]

7 months with you is nothing to her 3 years with her ex, consider yourself cucked...

[2n2u]

I've got some bad news op, having a girlfriend that speaks with the ex, and going to his bd party alone LMAO
By gf, you mean ex-gf right?
Strong disrespect for you

[PurpleAngus]

Wear the flower chucks op !

[nail clipper]

[Kansas123]

I must be the only person on the misc with an average IQ. If a girl wants to go to her ex boyfriends party without you it means instant break up. Because if you say no you can't go then she'd start doing stuff without telling you.

[LethalGunz34]

Get ready for her to be gang banged by everyone at the party.

[dabbmw2002]

[NiceCleanWeinr]

cucks, when will they learn?

[bigmane123]

op is a cuck lol cuckooo pops

[adang92]

im being nice here..open your eyes man

[PeteJonesHTX]

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[Nelly87]

has to be a troll thread cool story bro.

If not, you mean your ex girlfriend. If she is dragging her feels along into your relationship, she is not ready for a new one. She needs to be able to let him go and clear him from her priorities. Flip the script, would she be okay with your going to hang out with your ex on her bday without her? I mean, some people are fine with this chit behavior and wonder why they can't keep a long stable relationship and/or their partners cheat on them.

*Edit -

BRB - lol he used to plow my sugar walls and I told him I loved him.
BRB - don't worry babe, nothing is going to happen, we're done. (Yet I can't stop talking to him and have to hang out and see him.)
BRB - we need to talk, it's not working out

[theRealGriNC]

I don't know what else to do besides neg

[SaltyDog920]

Lmao misc is generally too paranoid about this type of stuff but this is totally phucked up. If she's truly just friends with the ex she should want to show off her new BF and let you meet the circle of friends. Prepare to get cucked op

What this guy said. Misc is too paranoid but you're delusional if you think this is standard behavior.