Would any averagely fit guys go with an overweight girl?

[sarahs2015]

Just a random thread ... I was wondering if any averagely fit guys go with an overweight girl?

I'm pretty over weight (posted photos somewhere on this forum), and never have any luck with guys it seems...!

[Simon656]

Why would a fit guy date a glutton? Why would you aim for a fit guy if you're not even fit yourself?

[ShawnLane7]

what in the hell is an averagely fit guy?


Either you're average or you're fit, what the hell kind of term is averagely fit?

[callan91]

probably because there are soo many white knights that thing obese is "curvy" and women seem to think they "deserve" a hot guy or "deserve" a rich guy... all they "deserve" is diabetes as they keep spooning mouthfuls of icecream, chips and pie into their "deserving"bodies

[mandm001]

whats with the influx of chicks, new years resolution? I've seen overweight girls with guys, who cares, as long as you are working out. No one is gonna be like eh jeff check out the whale with that bob parker looking ******* over der dafuq is their deal we should fight them

[FLChamp]

Don't take this the wrong way, but a real man wouldn't. If he would, count on only getting the after hours, nighttime special.

[Smob3]

a real man

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[JValkyrie]

I'm going to go against the grain and say that yes you could find someone with an average body. When you start getting into athletic types, then they start looking for like-minded people. If you are overweight its likely you either don't have the willpower or the understanding of how to become like them. (Fit in body, fit in mind etc).

[BetaThanU]

If you aren't overly tubby, and have a good face you can get pumped and dumped by fit guys.


But it sounds like you're trying to bat out of your league

[vsportsguy]

If you want a fit guy, get fit yourself... Your weight is a choice you have made.

[aintevenmad]

If they have low self esteem, maybe. The average fit guy wants an even hotter girl. Ain't nobody tryna date down

[iBRAHimoBRAH]

I'm into BBWs. Where you from?

[BritishBear]

The more guys that are into fat barn hogs, the less competiton for slim women.

But then again, sadly, in countries with devastating obesity levels, less slim chicks to fill the rounds and more lonely males is the result.

I just wish that smehting would happen, that all WK will stop giving these fatties attention and maybe they would lose weight and we would have a more attractive race of people. less lonely males, less mental health, less money spent on healthcare etc.

Phucking fat chicks and their WK's ruin it for everybody.

[disgorge89]

I don't want to sound harsh, but you are not overweight. You are obese. I would date an overweight woman no problem, but that means like 5'5 160-170, not 200+.

[ace377]

Define over weight?

Girls can be of low weight and not be attractive although they have a pretty face. There's tons of girls out there 125-145 with pot bellies, cellulite etc... I would not date them.

You would not believe how many girls in college are 125-145 and look like slobs although they have a pretty face. Almost all of them have a pot belly or something else weird.

I dated a 7-8/10 in college for a very long time, 135-140 5'4" she was cute, nothing wrong, but she did have a stomach. It wasn't a problem, but it was noticeable. Parents asked me if she was preggers once.

Glad I'm single. Maybe I can date again when I'm 30 and find someone who won't blow up after getting married as my ex would have.

That's the key.

Find someone with a good face, and who won't balloon up once married or pops out a couple kids. So many of these privileged White House moms blow up and are married to fit good looking men who we all know are miserable banging a whale.

[BritishBear]

I'd rather be alone forever to my end days than be with a whale. And I'm a bit chubby guy myself (22%). But even at 13% I was uglt to women. A guess being a slim man doesn't improve your attractiveness like it does being a slim woman.

I don;t care if others in life think i'm a loser for having no GF or wife. I will not hook up with a fatty out of desperation just to please others and get on their good books that i have a woman. I have no respect for men that want slim women and yet settle for fatties. They look at skinny girl porn no doubt, and their love life must be sh*t having to do the deed with a whale. I bet they close their eyes and think of Megan Fox from behind, when infact its a 300lbs barn pig. Gross.

[Baconlifter]

If a slim/fit man gets with a fat girl he either has self esteem issues or a fetish. So yes it is possible but the man you find will be a lower tier man.

OP the real question you're asking sounds like it is, "can I still attract a man if i decide to stop losing weight and give up?" the answer is yes but don't give up. Losing weight is not easy or quick. Real men will be turned off by your weight and we both know that you're turned off by your own weight as well. So keep going and you'll be happier and finding that fit man that you want.

[RU4A69]

Just a random thread ... I was wondering if any averagely fit guys go with an overweight girl?

I'm pretty over weight (posted photos somewhere on this forum), and never have any luck with guys it seems...!

It's all about the hairsthetics. I've seen some heavy girls who dress nice, and have long well-kept hair and I'm always thinking of dusting off my harpoon-haven't gone whaling since my teens though. Srsly, carry yourself well, keep your hair LONG this is key. Full length skirts/scarves/dresses/long hair/no tattoos/no kids == hnngghhh

[SriBrah]

Answer is yes, I'm fit, good looking, GF is obese. Her personality is a 10, although i sometimes have a hard time getting it up "down there" because of it. its all about the chemistry IMO, as long as both people are happy, it can work

[Kev1972]

Most guys will go home with anything when drunk and after 2AM. Hit the bars cutie!

[2bee1cee]

probably because there are soo many white knights that thing obese is "curvy" and women seem to think they "deserve" a hot guy or "deserve" a rich guy... all they "deserve" is diabetes as they keep spooning mouthfuls of icecream, chips and pie into their "deserving"bodies

NO. what we "deserve" is respect and be treated as people, not a body and loved as a person not an object.

Yes there are guys out there. I haven't come across many but they are out there. Just yesterday I was telling my friend about an old man I was serving when I was a sales assistance. Every week or 2 he would buy chocolate for his wife and one day he said "I like my women big, I buy her chocolate to keep her that way. We have been married 45 years" respect and love is what got them that far. A friend of mine, she wants to lose weight but her husband hates skiny girls and says there's nothing to hold onto and wants her to stay big. Everyone's different and If you are a nice person you will attract a nice girl.

My advice guys, find a nice "whale" with a good personality who will workout with u and is willing to shed all the weight just to be a gem in your eyes. You will reap both rewards of helping a person lose the weight (no girl wants to be fat) and finding a soul mate. BUT know, if YOU are ugly inside, no matter how fit you are both whale and beauty queen will run for their lives.

[2bee1cee]

Answer is yes, I'm fit, good looking, GF is obese. Her personality is a 10, although i sometimes have a hard time getting it up "down there" because of it. its all about the chemistry IMO, as long as both people are happy, it can work

Normally when I read posts I say "Idiot, idiot, idiot" today I say "respect". Why not help her get fit. Personally I think the whole idea of working out together is a little erotic (at home, not gym), why make it all tears, why not add some fun.

[kanis999]

Well there's no telling. Every man is different.

If by 'average' you mean a guy who doesn't even lift, then I think he is well matched with an overweight girl. If he lifts, doesn't have *huge* muscles per say but has an average amount of bodybuilding type development with low bodyfat, then I think he would be better paired with a lean girl.

On bb.com our concept of 'average' is skewed'. I consider 'average' to be someone who has built up their 20 lbs of noob gains from weightlifting and gotten below ~14% bodyfat. But for the rest of America, average means you don't lift weights at all, and are about 18% bodyfat.

[Kaikara]

Chubby chaser checking in.

Edit: Looked at pics. You're not huge. Just about right. I'd put it in you.

[ace377]

Well there's no telling. Every man is different.

If by 'average' you mean a guy who doesn't even lift, then I think he is well matched with an overweight girl. If he lifts, doesn't have *huge* muscles per say but has an average amount of bodybuilding type development with low bodyfat, then I think he would be better paired with a lean girl.

On bb.com our concept of 'average' is skewed'. I consider 'average' to be someone who has built up their 20 lbs of noob gains from weightlifting and gotten below ~14% bodyfat. But for the rest of America, average means you don't lift weights at all, and are about 18% bodyfat.

I disagree that a guy that doesn't even lift is well matched with a whale. I see what you're saying about exercise, but genetics do come into play. A guy who is small-ish but not tiny shouldn't be with a whale. A whale can lose weight, and a small-ish guy can gain muscle, but one is much harder than the other.

Facial asthetics, personality, confidence all come into play for the small man. If that's all there, no reason he can't date a hot or average girl.

Whales belong with whales. Anything else is just weird, it's pretty much looked at as inter racial dating.

[Kulvich]

Damn. Some of these responses are brutal.

[Simon656]

NO. what we "deserve" is respect and be treated as people, not a body and loved as a person not an object.

Yes there are guys out there. I haven't come across many but they are out there. Just yesterday I was telling my friend about an old man I was serving when I was a sales assistance. Every week or 2 he would buy chocolate for his wife and one day he said "I like my women big, I buy her chocolate to keep her that way. We have been married 45 years" respect and love is what got them that far. A friend of mine, she wants to lose weight but her husband hates skiny girls and says there's nothing to hold onto and wants her to stay big. Everyone's different and If you are a nice person you will attract a nice girl.

My advice guys, find a nice "whale" with a good personality who will workout with u and is willing to shed all the weight just to be a gem in your eyes. You will reap both rewards of helping a person lose the weight (no girl wants to be fat) and finding a soul mate. BUT know, if YOU are ugly inside, no matter how fit you are both whale and beauty queen will run for their lives.

Stats: 5'4" 174 lbs

[zzduality]

plot twist: OP is a fat whale

anyways

everyone has there prefrences, but the most majority of men would probably not date an obese whale theres a limit, most guys would accep chunky but obese? why we got to feel pitty for you if you cant control your damn mouth from eating everything in sight.

same **** for women, would you date an obese man?

these type of answers so retarded.

[BritishBear]

NO. what we "deserve" is respect and be treated as people, not a body and loved as a person not an object.

Go's both ways. Women treat fat men and v.short men as disposable losers deserving nothing but ridicule, and tall handsome men as trophies. Its a two way street... and I'd say its harder for men as a very short guy can;t do anything like diet to rectify his 'unattractiveness'.

[2bee1cee]

Yup 174 and proud. Been with the same guy since I was 16 back when I was 130lbs and had to chase guys off with a stick. I stuck with the same guy caz even after I put on all this weight giving birth to his kids he still loves me and doesn't care how big I am. Now that I WANT to lose the weight he's helping and supporting me anyway he can. A guy like that "deserves" a decent fit girl who only looks good for him and dress up only for him and by god I will lose this weight and be fit as hell for him.