Does your gf/wife deny you sex often or at all?

[Tellme718]

I broke up with my ex about a year ago. We lived together for a out a year before that in our own place. Before that we dated for about two years. At the very beginning of us dating she never said no to me. Even at 3am and with a rock hard boner she'd part those legs like Moses did the red sea. But then slowly she sarted denying me here and there. Saying things like I have a headache, not in the mood, tired, full stomach etc. Long story short I still mess with her and even now I get denied on the regular. She thinks its funny that she clearly doesn't like to ****, at least with me.

I for sure wont ever get into a comitted relationship with her again although she swears we will.

My question is since this was my first and only LTR Im wondering if they are all like that and how did you guys ever deal with or dealing with similiar situations?

[UACdarknova]

lol no she's got as big of if not a bigger sex drive than me. srs.

brb finish fuking and want a snack and a nap
brb she wants more

It's not unrealistic for somebody to once in a while not be totally down for it but if you're regularly getting denied sex then that's kind of a bad sign. It's definitely not normal.

[hellfighter17]

Maybe he wants you to give him a blowjob!

[joegomez5150]

Thats why you must have a few in the bullpen when you need a new pitcher in the game

[Negligence]

She will say no from time to time, but will give me a bj or let me bust a nut on dat ass instead. Been married 6+ years

[KnockoutXX]

OP is treading around one of the darkest truths of women of all.....at least for monogomy-minded men.



every relationship even marriage has an expiration date with women. Women do not pair bond for life. We are not yellow canaries. With some girls it may be 3 months with some it may be 15 years but at some point they will withdraw completely sexually from their partner, even growing an aversion to having sex with him.

At that point they will either cheat, or if she's more mature and has a family, understand this situation and put aside her sexual desires for the good of the family and remain in a sexless marriage. It's pretty clear which route more and more women are choosing to take these days.

[1slo5oh]

No they are not all like that bro...but some chicks just plain and simple don't fkn want it and wont give it up very often. Ive never experienced this "never wants it" feels but I have bros that have. And they have all ended up ending the relationship or cheating...Plain and simple if she isn't giving it up im going to find it somewhere...sex isn't everything but its enough that I wont be denied all the fkn time..

[WorldWarZ]

No, if she did, she'd no longer be my gf. Semi-srs.

[SkinnyBeast24]

gotta keep things interesting.

lots of give and take

[wnc817]

No, lol.

[CanardLaque]

No, she's never denied me.

However I've denied her a few times.

[Peasantfighter]

i sometimes used to say no to my ex if id had a long day at work and was exhausted. This was after being with her 2 years though, the same routine kinda gets old.

[Firefightn24]

Women do not pair bond for life.

Oh misc cracks me up sometimes. So many philosophers and experts in here. Truly amazing.

[Tweedurr]

She's usually the one doing the raping. Even if I'm tired I don't mind.

[KnockoutXX]

Oh misc cracks me up sometimes. So many philosophers and experts in here. Truly amazing.

what makes you feel the need to use sarcasm?

[vvvaaa]

I deny my gf sex 10 times more than she denies me. She only denies sex if there's a good reason. Like...she feels ill or is in menstrual pains. I deny way more often

[Tellme718]

I've gotten to the point where I get incredibly angry when she does because who doesn't get tired of rejection? People say but wash the diahes more often, clean the house, wax the walls, shine the stove blah blah blah....da hell I gotta do all that for.

I have other friends that dont have that issue at all. Gf lets him pipe all the time never says no. And Im here negotiating.

[alg0801]

relationships go in phases with everything...
Sometimes I want to sit on my computer and play CS:GO all day and don't really consider spending a lot of time with my wife. Other times I just really want to chill and watch movies with her and put some of my hobbies on the back burner temporarily.

Sometimes we phuck like rabbits 2 or 3 times per day...other times we do it once every 2-3 days or so. Sometimes we're both just tired and chit from work and don't really think about it at all. Just want to relax.

Also sometimes you just want to stay at home, save money, and do phuck all. Other times we're going out often and planning vacations.

What's important though, is that it's about more than just the sex. My wife is my best friend. We can just kick it or do whatever together and have no complaints.

[ocelo7]

Once and awhile, "not in the mood" "tired." Just need to get her in the mood

[Kezzyukbrah]

Been with my girl for 9 years now and she has never said no. At least three times a week I pound her

[EnderG60]

Current GF only denies when she is super tired and wants to sleep, and even then if Im willing to flick her bean for 10 min she will give in.

Only time I ask and dont get it is if I just want a quickie and dont feel like putting in the effort to warm her up.

Cant complain. If I really want it, I get it. Anytime, anywhere.

[4merBeta]

Sounds like she lost respect for you brah. On to the next!

[SkinnyBeast24]

I've gotten to the point where I get incredibly angry when she does because who doesn't get tired of rejection? People say but wash the diahes more often, clean the house, wax the walls, shine the stove blah blah blah....da hell I gotta do all that for.

I have other friends that dont have that issue at all. Gf lets him pipe all the time never says no. And Im here negotiating.

if ur putting real effort in the relationship consistently and she is still denying you......nexttttt

however, if u aren't then I can see y u getting denied.

I try to plan **** on weekends instead of ****ing dinner/movie and keep things interesting and it's game on once we get back from said event....however if I get lazy and just wanna watch sports all weekend and then try...she usually says no thx jeff

so yaaa

[wnc817]

I've gotten to the point where I get incredibly angry when she does because who doesn't get tired of rejection? People say but wash the diahes more often, clean the house, wax the walls, shine the stove blah blah blah....da hell I gotta do all that for.

I have other friends that dont have that issue at all. Gf lets him pipe all the time never says no. And Im here negotiating.

Try turning the tables. Don't initiate anything, and start turning her down every time. If that doesn't work, just find someone else.

[ImDangerous]

I'm pretty flexible so i just do it whenever i know she wants it

if i need it and she doesn't want to, i'll force her (or someone else) to

[UACdarknova]

I've gotten to the point where I get incredibly angry when she does because who doesn't get tired of rejection? People say but wash the diahes more often, clean the house, wax the walls, shine the stove blah blah blah....da hell I gotta do all that for.

I have other friends that dont have that issue at all. Gf lets him pipe all the time never says no. And Im here negotiating.

Dude you're 25. If you're not happy then get out. You're young. Why would you settle at 25 for something that's frustrating you this much? Have you spoken to her about this and told her the way you feel? If you try that and it still doesn't change then just move on to another girl. There's so many girls out there man and lots of decent ones that love getting dick on the regular. There's no reason to stay with some chick that treats sex like a lottery.

[BorrachoDamor]

Never

[UACdarknova]

I'm pretty flexible so i just do it whenever i know she wants it

if i need it and she doesn't want to, i'll force her (or someone else) to

Very strong username to post content ratio.

[mrmr200]

No, she's never denied me.

However I've denied her a few times.

misc we have ******* right here

[eatmycrackers]

Question: If your partner constantly denies you of sex, time and again, making it clear you are in a "sexless relationship", is it wrong to find sex elsewhere? In essence what your partner is doing is forcing you to cheat, right? By denying every single time, it's clear you have the urges and they are saying "sorry not gonna get it here, try next door". By doing this is she forcing one to cheat?