[They have no problems speaking with womenz srs. I see so many examples of skinny non-lifting ******* guys just walking up and chatting the ladies up like it's no problem. They can keep a conversation going for a bit of time, throwing in jokes and ****, introducing themselves and getting numbers, I don't know how to do that with women. Can someone here take me under their wing and teach me these ways so I too can stop being foreveralone? I'm getting fuarking mad jelly because non-lifting *******s can easily get tai with all their confidence and personality and ****.]
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09-13-2012, 12:47 PM #1
I don't know how other guys do it.
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09-13-2012, 12:56 PM #12
It's simply the fact that you care that holds you back.
The skinny nonlifting *******s you see doing this do it blindly. It's not like they go "Watch me show the masses a display of alpha characteristics led by success" before they go chat with a lady. They also don't analyze things like "what if i turn red what if i sweat what if she rejects me what if i look stupid".
Cliffs: stop thinking too hard.
Sources: Me, a child who had to stand behind mommy in public to obtaining the gift of gab.
Procedure: Make the decision to become more social. Talking to girls you don't know too hard? Try starting conversations with males you DON'T know first - as they are way less receptive and interested simply because your not a girl. Keep being sociable everywhere you go until it starts to feel easy. The problem isn't an inability to talk to girls -- its an inability to be social, and your stacking fear of rejection/embarrassment on top of it. Start small and work your way up, and when you do take the plunge to talk to girls.. start with girls your not attracted to so the outcome does not matter.. and work your way up.
You'll feel better at life.I know a little bit about everything, but I don't know a lot about anything. -SeriousMiscWizard
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OP, No Contact is for you to get over her, not for her to come running back to hurt you again.
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09-13-2012, 12:57 PM #13
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09-13-2012, 01:06 PM #15
Lol nah bro, I can talk with the bros no problem, the other day I met this cool economics major, had a good conversation about how there are too many beggars at McDonalds. You see a dude is generally chill and there is nothing to be afraid of. Girls... They have like a virtual force field with laser eyes on their faces, just a few hours ago I was waiting for class to start and this I catch this glance of some chick that mutters something to me and I get scared away like duckling when you try to chase them.
Doesn't mean I can't talk to girls though, I just can state facts and argue but I can't engage myself in a personal conversation without freezing up like youtube video when the internet lags.
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09-13-2012, 01:10 PM #16
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09-13-2012, 01:21 PM #22
Op take what I said and apply it however necessary to yourself.
Your worried about your looks -- Shave the beard / mustache, get rid of the eyebrow bush, get a nice hair cut, get a tan, get nicer clothes.. If you think these things are ****gy -- thats part of your problem
Secondly, they are girls dude.. They aren't going to rip your head off with some mystical power from the great abyss. You have no problem talking to guys but chances are great that you could get a royal beat down from a guy, or just shot.
-Girl is not going to beat you up
-Girl is not going to shoot you
***Girls need to feel good*** AND SO:
-They stare at you -- you cower -- that makes them feel good, hence why they do it. Don't cower.
-You talking to them makes them FEEL GOOD; if they respond in a cold manner, they are a cold human being, fart in her face and go about your business.I know a little bit about everything, but I don't know a lot about anything. -SeriousMiscWizard
YesItsAllWomen Crew
OP, No Contact is for you to get over her, not for her to come running back to hurt you again.
Serious Crew
NotSerious Crew
SemiSerious Crew
FknSrs Crew
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09-13-2012, 01:21 PM #23
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09-13-2012, 01:25 PM #28
Hmmm, ive never seen it done before, but cosmetic surgery has come a long way.
First, you must get your skull shaped more Nordid-like.
Second, Nose bridge straigtened a bit.
Third, Blue contacts.
Fourth, Dye hair blonde.
Fifth, change name to something more ubermensch.Westcoast Crew.
Positive Crew.
Racist against manlets.
Anglo-Saxon masterrace.
Celtic masterrace.
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