My father just died last Thursday, was a wreck when I found out. I've been basically in shock until today where we actually had the services and I had to see him and bury him..
One of the hardest things to do in my life, I can be okay one minute but a complete wreck the other. Any advice with experience from this? It's still just so unreal to me right now...
Cliffs of Dad:
-Mom said he was fine that night around 9:30, was just tired because he didn't sleep much the night before and to bring turkey sandwiches tomorrow because he would be hungry.
-Nurse went in to check on him at 4:30 a.m. he was fine. (he was in a nursing home/rehab center, long story)
-Nurse went back at 5:00 a.m. to give him medicine and he was unresponsive.
-Mom called me to tell me they couldn't do anything for him and he passed away at 6:00 a.m. (im away at school)
-I have so many mixed feelings, this is so unexpected, I was just going to go up and see him next Tuesday
-I wish I could tell him so many things and it's just too late, he won't get to see the things in my life. Me graduating, getting married, grandchildren or anything and it kills me. He's always been there for me.
-Just seeing him at the services killed me, in complete shock that I will never see or hear him again, and the last time I seen him keeps replaying in my head. I was leaving from visiting in the nursing home and he started crying when I had to leave and said he loves me and he's going to do his best to get better so he can come see me at school.
Just a wreck right now misc..
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04-30-2012, 07:30 PM #1Registered User
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Misc.. Father just died :(
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04-30-2012, 07:30 PM #2Lord of Winterfell
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The last line killed me.. sorry to hear man R.I.P
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04-30-2012, 07:31 PM #3Registered User
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Wow. So sorry for your loss brah, no one deserves to lose one of their parents this young.ϟ☁ϟ DESI CREW - IND-PAK-BANG ϟ☁ϟ
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04-30-2012, 07:31 PM #4
Sorry to hear man. RIP.
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04-30-2012, 07:32 PM #5
that's rough, hope u feel better brah
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04-30-2012, 07:32 PM #6
**** man...I'm not religious but I'll keep you in my thoughts for what it's worth. Atleast you were lucky enough to have a good relationship with him right?
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04-30-2012, 07:32 PM #7Registered User
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Sorry for your loss OP
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04-30-2012, 07:33 PM #8Eating Machine
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sorry to hear that man,
try to help your mom as much as you can during these times, it not easy for her either.If you are not willing to risk the unusual, you will have to settle for the ordinary
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04-30-2012, 07:33 PM #9Banned
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I'm sorry for your loss. It's a pain even time doesn't fully heal.
Keep hold of the memories, keep something of his with you. I carry a momento of my fathers in my wallet to remember the good times.
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04-30-2012, 07:35 PM #10Registered User
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I would be devastated.
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04-30-2012, 07:35 PM #11Registered User
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Sorry to hear mate.
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04-30-2012, 07:36 PM #12Registered User
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Im so sorry for your loss OP. I cant even fathom the thought of losing my dad. Stay strong man, the misc is her if you need us.
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04-30-2012, 07:36 PM #13IWasToldThatICouldFly
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Damn op, that's a shame i'm very sorry to hear that. Just know he knew you loved him greatly no matter what, and he went peacefully knowing that. My condolences RIP.
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04-30-2012, 07:36 PM #14Registered User
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I am sorry for your loss man. I haven't lost anyone that close to me yet so it is hard for me to give you advice. My dad had both his parents pass away 10 day apart from each other and the biggest thing I found out from that is being around your family at this time is the best thing to do. With time it will become a little easier to deal with but obviously losing someone that close is always going to hurt.
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04-30-2012, 07:37 PM #15Registered User
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Sorry to hear OP. I've been down that road too many times
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04-30-2012, 07:37 PM #16Gurkha Genetics
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Man Im so bad at this. Sorry to read that OP. Almost teared. Haven't seen my parents in 5 years.
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04-30-2012, 07:37 PM #17Registered User
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I'm sorry to hear that OP. Think of the good times and stay strong bro
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04-30-2012, 07:37 PM #18Registered User
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So sorry for your loss brah, stay safe.
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04-30-2012, 07:38 PM #19
sorry for your loss OP.
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04-30-2012, 07:38 PM #20Registered User
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stay strong brother and do him proud...
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04-30-2012, 07:38 PM #21IGF1-Akt-mTor1/2 Brah
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Really sorry for you man. My condolences.
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04-30-2012, 07:39 PM #22Mutual Rapist
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Damn dude, sad to hear. I fear the death of family and loved ones more so than my own. Just remember everything he's done for you and taught you.
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04-30-2012, 07:40 PM #23only 6lbs of pressure
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take care of your mum. sorry for the loss.
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04-30-2012, 07:40 PM #24
Sorry for your loss
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04-30-2012, 07:40 PM #25Banned
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Sorry for your loss bro!
I have been wanting to do good for myself before I call my dad and try to visit him for the first time in a few years but I'm having second guesses now. Life is short maybe I just just hope he's glad to see me and quit being a ******* and call him up.
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04-30-2012, 07:40 PM #26Registered User
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Very sorry for your loss man.
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04-30-2012, 07:40 PM #27Registered User
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Sorry for your loss man. Keep head up.
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04-30-2012, 07:40 PM #28Registered User
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sorry for your loss.
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04-30-2012, 07:40 PM #29Inquisitive brah
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damn man, I'm sorry, my thoughts go out to you and your family
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04-30-2012, 07:41 PM #30MB in MasturBation
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Very sorry for your loss.
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