Never in my life have I ever heard a girl even be open to the possibility that they did something wrong. If it ever seems like something was their fault it was because reason x and y MADE them do it.
I'm not saying I am without flaws, but I can accept responsibility when I screw up, why can girls not do this?
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01-11-2011, 04:16 PM #1
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Why do girls never take responsibility for anything?
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01-11-2011, 04:59 PM #6
My ex told me after an argument once that she would argue with me even though she knew she was wrong just so she wouldn't have to admit fault. Very childish behavior. This seems to be how a lot of woman act. Even my mother acted like this when i was growing up. It's a very frustrating and confusing thing to deal with.
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01-11-2011, 05:00 PM #7
[incoming "chauvinistic" and VERY general truth]
theres a reason why its called "being a MAN" when u take responsibility for your actions.
we are the natural born leaders of both genders, which means we make the major decisions - and thus if we make mistakes, we are held accountable, not the woman. this is evident..anywhere from caveman times to today. look at the marriages that have lasted over 40+ years. the man is the major decision maker.
i do dislike the overall "victim" mentality, as we are talking about girls who will make themselves feel sorry and others feel sorry for them when they dont deserve it. this is different from taking responsibility.
on the other hand
i do not blame women for rarely taking responsibility. if nething, i prefer this. this is because they are raised to be led by men. we are the ones that will make the big decisions and lead them thru life.
(side point= im not talking about being controlling. a good leader takes everything into account and doesnt make selfish decisions)
so bottom line; its innate why men will step up and and take responsibility for their actions, and not women.
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edit: just to add, with the new oncoming praise of girls being raised by SINGLE mothers and the introduction of cougar status being awesome, we will see a huge decline in the FATHER influence in womens lives. this will hugely detract from proper growth, and thus cause big issues to come.. every boy and girl needs a strong male influence growing up...
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01-11-2011, 05:48 PM #9
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WTF kind of women are you guys hanging out with? Oh....the OP said
GIRLS. Exactly.
There's a difference between a woman and a girl.
Just like between MEN, and boys.
The superiority I see from the boys (mostly) in these forums is astonishing.
Especially since 90% of you can't spell or put a coherent sentence together.
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01-11-2011, 05:48 PM #10
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It's the way of the world, brah.
This is also why men never "win" arguments with women. We almost always win, but never actually "win." Ya dig?
Men are taught how to take responsibility for themselves. Women are taught to be cute and play hard to get.Kick a nice dog often enough and eventually you have a mean dog on your hands.
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01-11-2011, 05:52 PM #11
Great post overall.
In regard to your edit--The 'Nat Geo' channel aired a show the other night called Elephant Rage. Scientists went on the say how similar humans and elephants are in regard to brain, and how we think. The show focused on why young male elephants need adult males in their lives, and how this system goes awry when adult males are culled, leaving young males without the necessary male influence.
But as you've stated, adult male role models are necessary for both males and females. And we're losing that increasingly, even in schools.“Any idiot can face a crisis, it is this day-to-day living that wears you out.” Anton Chekhov
"10% of life, is what happens to you--90% is how you respond to it."
"I know that I know nothing"--Socrates
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01-11-2011, 05:54 PM #12
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THIS, however, is right on.
And too many "parents" are more concerned with being their kids' BFF than a PARENT.
I've got a 13 year old daughter and a 12 year old son and the way my daughters friends seem to run wild without supervision is very troubling.
I am my childrens' mother first and foremost, not their friend. And if my son treats/speaks of women the way I see most men here do, I will have FAILED miserably at my job.
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01-11-2011, 06:00 PM #13
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This Is such bull****. Perhaps my opinion is because I am 38 and not 21.
I was raised to do things for myself, and take responsibility for my actions. I was trusted until I gave a reason not to trust me, and I respected that and took it very seriously.
If I want something, I go after it.
I don't wait for a man to do anything for me.
Ive been married 14 years and without me my husband probably would have died in a ditch long ago.
Lol
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because they have vaginas and not balls
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Yeah cuz my kids are seeing that dumbass.
Do you see my boobs? No.
(REAL, btw...no fake tits here) its my freaking BACK, hips and legs basically.
Maybe when you grow up a little and get some actual life experience beyond drinking, hanging out in bars and driving around in your '87 Honda civic, we can chat.
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01-11-2011, 06:20 PM #21
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Ok guys. Fair enough.
But hey, when you have kids, no more drinking or partying or gym...
The fun ends.
Just because you have a family doesn't mean you can't enjoy adult
Parts of your life.
My children are proud to have a mom that is healthy and happy. And a mom and dad that love each other, not fight like cats and dogs.
I don't drink or do drugs.
That picture is something they'll never see. I'm not walking around my house like that.
So many parents are either drunk half the time, or too busy to be parents and just throw money at them and shoo them away.
If my crime is taking care of my body
And preferring a photo like that of myself over a bathroom mirror pic.... Oh well.
Judge away tho.
It's your right.
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01-11-2011, 06:21 PM #22
Ahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!
Never fails. Every time there is a thread like this some dumb bitch comes in here and uses her own bull**** claims that she isn't like "that" as evidence that OP is wrong in his assertions about women.
Bitch, u r married with 2 kids, and all up on ur high horse, as u have a an avy of u in the nude on a male dominated bb board... I'm willing 2 bet ur husband is unaware of that photo. U prob online while he at work ghetting off to the attention u get from young hard males.
But its prob not your fault. If he gave u the attention u needed, u wouldn't be whoring your body on bb.com.
What a ****ing joke. Inb4 ur daughter sexts pics of her a cups @ 13. But don't worry. Not her fault either. She learned the behavior from mommy.
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Thank you for being responsible and raising your kids right. I have argued the whole "don't try to be your kid's best friend thing," for years. I have only seen women do this, and they let their kids do whatever they want, whenever they want. End result? Disaster of kids every single time. And of course, they never blame their parenting skills. It is the fault of society, karma, global warming, George Bush, etc...
Seriously, it was very refreshing to see someone that actually gets it!
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