Leave girlfriend over credit card debt?

[turdburglar9021]

The debt seems important to you, so stick with it. I think joining the military is more significant though. You'll be moving around a lot which can be rough on marriage. Better to walk away now, focus 100% on military life, then accept her back later if you want, or find someone that can accept the lifestyle.

[nvrstopworking]

She just bought 2 German shepherds for $1,200 and is feeding them this super expensive food like $50 every 2 weeks? And she wants a baby within 2 years

I hope you're trolling.

[keanhe]

What kind of roll bread is this kunt

[gainmusclefast]

I hope you're trolling.

Nope and was putting them in puppy training for 3 classes

[Serenadium]

She has like 70k+ in student loans which she is never going to pay off. So if you include her car, credit cards and school it's like 120k+ in debt

ok u are trolling now.

[gainmusclefast]

And just bought me and her apple watches like 2 months ago. She took it back when I told her I was done. This has been the only time she ever really bought me anything besides birthday/Christmas. She has racked all the debt up on buying her stuff.

[HMFIC_BROWSIN]

She has like 70k+ in student loans which she is never going to pay off. So if you include her car, credit cards and school it's like 120k+ in debt

Lmao.

Troll detected.

[gainmusclefast]

Lmao.

Troll detected.

I am dead serious

[mgftp]

I am dead serious

You must be the ugliest guy with the smallest dik to even consider a relationship with this train wreck of a woman. SrS

[zknarc]

The really issue with debt sloots rack up is that the chit they buy is basically worthless after buying (shoes, clothes, bags, holidays, cosmetics) so recovering is all but impossible. Guys buy cars, watches, PCs and electronics which can at least be sold.

[nvrstopworking]

And just bought me and her apple watches like 2 months ago. She took it back when I told her I was done. This has been the only time she ever really bought me anything besides birthday/Christmas. She has racked all the debt up on buying her stuff.

Not sure why this is even a debate on your part. I don't care if the bish is some 10/10 supermodel... it's not worth it. If you married her (and god forbid had a kid with her) you'd be selling yourself into financial slavery for the rest of your life.

[Comstarr]

My ex had $120k in student loan debt after everything was said and done, she graduated, worked her ass off to find a job, and has been working in HR since 2012.
She's managing paying off her student debt, living by herself, car payment, insurance, phone bill, ETC. - all by herself.
Apart from the student debt she had, and her car payment, that was it.
All on a $50k/year HR job.

So your (ex)gf is just downright irresponsible as fukk and a complete ****ing child. Tell her she has to grow the **** up because the real world is going to chew her up and spit her out real ****ing quick if she doesn't get her act together.

[gainmusclefast]

You must be the ugliest guy with the smallest dik to even consider a relationship with this train wreck of a woman. SrS

Lol not at all. Just dumb I guess

[mgftp]

Lol not at all. Just dumb I guess

Is that dumb even possible?

Consider a relationship with a woman who would make your entire life a financial hell rather then just choose another from one of the 1 million women out there who wouldn't?

[ivtimesir]

So I made a thread about this before when she had around 20k debt. We were together 2 and a half years. She always asked me to get married and I would tell her not until you get that debt under control.

Now she has ramped it up to 32k. I finally broke up with her. She is begging me to take her back and says she is gonna fix it and get a second job on the side(she is an accountant and makes 50k a year).

I am also planning to join the Airforce at the end of the year. So the only way I could take her with me is if we get married. Which I am afraid to do because of her debt.

As of right now we aren't together and I am staying at my parents until I leave for the Airforce. Should I stay single? Thanks!

Other reasons to stay/go:
She is definitely bi polar
She is Crazy
She is madly in love with me
Head game is weak sauce
Is very lazy

She's going to murder/suicide you if you leave her. Take solace in the fact that money is insignificant when you're facing death....

[WhirlwindTobias]

Should I break up with her?
Yes
I dunno I kind of love her
Okay maybe you can make it work
Oh yeah she buys material things all the time
Yeah okay, definitely finish it
Recently she bought this
Yep, finish it
Oh and she has more loans
Uh bro...

Are you even listening to us? You have to be trolling by now.

[zknarc]

This cannot be real tea. Plans for marriage and kids when she cannot even control her spending despite serious warnings. The bish is sinking fast, don't let her take you down with her.

[digital022]

She wants YOU to support the lifestyle she wants to live but can't afford.

Do you want to put yourself in that position?

Clearly you don't.

Right now she's just making BS claims to try to get you to marry her. If you go through with it, tour is fukkn over boyo.

[chilloppy]

I am dead serious

Then leaver her.

There are only two options:
a) You are trolling, fuk you.
b) You are serious. If you are seriously considering staying with her, you are at least as retarded as she is and no matter what we say you won't listen. I'd rather be with a drug addict than with someone like her srs
Run. It is not your fault, she has heavy mental problems and should go into therapy.

[gainmusclefast]

We are broke up and I am living at my parents.

She just keeps sending me text that I am giving up on her and not working with her through her flaws. But I told her over a year ago I wouldn't marry her unless she got her debt under control and it's grown by mike 10k since then.

At one point her mom gave her 15k and she paid off a lot of her debt and still got it up to 32k

[WhirlwindTobias]

We are broke up and I am living at my parents.

She just keeps sending me text that I am giving up on her and not working with her through her flaws. But I told her over a year ago I wouldn't marry her unless she got her debt under control and it's grown by mike 10k since then.

At one point her mom gave her 15k and she paid off a lot of her debt and still got it up to 32k

Flaws? More like a lump of coal.

Speaking of which tell her to rack up more debt by buying a diamond and seeing ACTUAL flaws.

[wisdommaster1]

she just honestly seems really irresponsible, you're basically asking for a life of drama/chaos if you marry her. not to mention the debt problem isn't going to go away...

[zknarc]

She is actually living with her mom and still has this crazy debt. She just buys everything. 10+ Michael Kors purses. Like 30+ Victoria secret matching gym outfits. A 3k mac computer still sitting in the box 6 months later.

This bish is totally mental, like drug addict levels.

[tokelift]

She has like 70k+ in student loans which she is never going to pay off. So if you include her car, credit cards and school it's like 120k+ in debt

Bail bail bail!!

[gainmusclefast]

My credit is in the 760s
I have about 15k saved up
I owe nothing on my credit cards I pay them off every month

[Tomohokk]

IDK brah, you love her?

[Tuga88]

How the fuk does your debt go from 20k to 32k while you're making 50k a year? Your GF has no financial control....she is not responsible. You can't have a future with someone like that.....she told you before she was going to sort it out and instead increased her debt by 12k. Her word means nothing now, she is just saying anything to keep you around.

[zknarc]

[HMFIC_BROWSIN]

My credit is in the 760s
I have about 15k saved up
I owe nothing on my credit cards I pay them off every month

Perfect!!! Leave her permanently. GO NC. Seriously.

[Retoaded]

Is that dumb even possible?

Consider a relationship with a woman who would make your entire life a financial hell rather then just choose another from one of the 1 million women out there who wouldn't?

^^Listen to this *******. He has 400k rep power so he must always be giving good advice it is. like a wile laminal it is.