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06-21-2015, 02:34 PM #91
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06-21-2015, 03:13 PM #92
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06-21-2015, 03:27 PM #95
Not a troll. Dead srs. She makes me angry and upset so easily. If I message her and she acts cold or doesn't reply, I get upset. When she says will talk later but then doesn't talk later I get upset.
I think I just don't understand women. I take everything literally. I think my mind is clouded due to my feelings for her.
I just don't want to lose her from my life. I will be depressed. I blocked her for 1 day and she blew up my phone and I unblocked her coz I couldn't handle it. I didn't move from my bed when I blocked it. It was like my whole world came to a standstill.
She's not even my gf, but I act and treat her like it. I cannot stay angry at her for long. I a weak for her. I can't control myself.
Have you never felt so strongly about a girl? I'm sure you have.
It's killing me man. All I want is to be with her, and I know she has a bf and I try to accept that but it just hurts like hell. Inside, I am hoping she breaks up with him then I will pour my heart out to her or something..
What can I do?
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06-21-2015, 03:33 PM #96
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06-21-2015, 04:18 PM #97
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06-22-2015, 04:00 AM #103
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OP, I've been in this EXACT situation. Kinda going through it now with girl I'm kinda dating, she often doesn't text me or show interest which screws with my head.
Your situation is worse though, and far more heart breaking, I know the feels.
Honestly bro, sitting in your room doing nothing is THE WORST thing you can do. Your thoughts and over thinking is honestly all it is, you're not dying, your body isn't rotting, you're not losing money or going to jail, people around you aren't dying.
What you need to do is, be around people and keep active.
Put yourself in fun positions, at first you'll still feel **** and not want to do these things but just get yourself outside and do ****. Call up a couple of bros and go smoke some weed and get a huge feed and watch a movie, go for a night out, just make sure you're with friends and keep active and busy.
OH and STAY OFF YOUR PHONE AND OFF THE GIRL'S ******** PROFILE.
I'm pretty depressed atm myself, but today I made a point to be busy asf and constantly doing things in a hurry and getting sheet done, even though I can still feel that anxiety and sadness deep down I've been too distracted to dwell on it and I honestly feel better than I would if I was sitting in my room all day.
Your mind is your own prison.
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06-22-2015, 05:51 AM #104
I tried talking to her yday, she wasn't talking properly, acting uninterested and she said will talk later but then she didn't. Then today I message her and ask "still not talking?" And then she calls me childish and says we talked yday, we don't need to talk everyday, when I don't talk, be quiet, shut up, etc.
Right in the feels. The sh*t thing is I can't stay mad at her for long. I'm hurt right now but I will forget it very soon and go right back to her. :/
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06-22-2015, 08:38 AM #105
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06-22-2015, 11:00 AM #112
She said:
"U always say that I should think about you. No friendship is like that. U can ask ur gf to think about u its normal. But not ur friend. U just mix things. U should be strong but u act like u r weak. I can change my mind. U shouldn't care. Its like u see me more than friend and I really don't like it."
She said "U r acting like I am ur gf", "U make me crazy", "U always force me", "U insist for everything" etc
I said to her.
"I understand the problem. I always say yes to you for everything. And u always say no to me for everything"
She replied "I can't believe it. Omg"
I said "what do you think is the problem then?"
She didn't reply.
We were talking last night on whatsapp. Then she fell asleep. So I messaged her this morning.
And she says "I want to stay alone today and not use whatsapp"
Then I got a bit agitated and messaged her saying "oh thought you wanted to stay alone today?"
She wasn't happy with that. She said "U shouldn't do that" Then she said "Don't be childish"
And then she said "I don't have to talk to u everyday"
Anyway then later she messaged me herself randomly and then she said this:
"I don't have to talk to u everyday. U r bored I can understand its coz u dont have a gf. But I cant talk everyday and u can't ask why am I on whatsapp. I'm not ur gf man"
She made me feel sh*t today.
Randomly she said:
"U should find a gf so u will whatsapp her every min and not me. Then I wil relax."
I said "I whatsapp u every minute? (Surprise face)
She says "hahah. Find someone please. (Laughing)
I messaged her and she said "we cant talk 24 hours man. u act like i live far away"
The she says "we will talk on friday"
I wrote "friday?"
She says "Lol not monday tuesday wed thursday, but friday"
I said why what happened?
She said "Im just tired, nothing wrong with u man"
Then I asked about cinema, she wrote:
"For now im saying ok. if its no i will tell u before friday ok. But for now I want"
I said ok and then I said why did u say don't talk all week? (She never said anything like that to me before)
She said "no man, it's not about u. I'm tired. Just leave me alone plz."
Then I said "If something happened, talk to me. I am here for you.
She says "Don't do this. I will be angry"
Then I told her my grandma is in the hospital, she's very ill and I'm very upset because of it.
And she says "I worry about her aswell, just pray, don't be sad, if something happens, u just tell me, im here"
I said ok thanks
And I sent 1 more message saying I am worried about her, and that I care about her, and that please talk to me about it and I will leave her alone after that.
She ignored it.
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06-22-2015, 11:03 AM #113
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06-22-2015, 11:06 AM #114
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Dude if someone doesn't give a **** about you, why would you want to be with them?
I think you should go full retard and link her this thread. Or just tell her everything you said here. Get it all off your chest. You stand no chance anyway and at least you will have said your peace.
Then when she stops talking to you, you can take the pain and move on. It will hurt like a bitch, but when it subsides you will be stronger.
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06-22-2015, 11:09 AM #115
Are you a virgin OP? Because only back when I was a virgin I get a crush on girls which I never did anything physically with...
Oh wait, you said you never even kissed a girl...
You're putting too much pressure on her, I think it's a huge turnoff for her that you like her so much before you've even done anything with her but it's too late now anyway.
You dun goofed OP, ignore her and move on.
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06-22-2015, 11:17 AM #116
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06-22-2015, 11:18 AM #117
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06-22-2015, 11:32 AM #118
She is perfect man. I already wrote everything I like about her. When I am with her in person together, I feel happy, we get on really well, she makes me happy. But on whatsapp she turns into a bit of a b*tch sometimes.
If I tell her, she won't change her mind.
Why do you have to play games with women to get them. Why can't you just tell them straight I like you, be my gf or something like that.
I seriously don't know anything about women and dating clearly.
Where do I even start?
I get jealous when she talks to other guys
I get angry when she doesn't reply to my messages or if she acts cold or distant
I get annoyed when I do everything for her but she doesn't do the same for me
I get sad when she says hurtful things.
I am weak for her.
I don't have any other female friends to be honest. She is the only one. I like the attention I get from her. I want women to talk to me, give me attention, make me feel special, etc. I don't know how to explain it.
I'm not a bad guy at all. I just really like her. And I keep fantasising about her and her body etc. It's killing me man
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06-22-2015, 11:51 AM #119
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06-22-2015, 12:00 PM #120
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