Guys..just some advice.

[DMBsAmricanBaby]

Don't try so hard when trying to get a girl you like. Seriously.. some guys come off so desperate it's not even funny. I've had a few guys try so hard that they came off as being the perfect specimen, I just can't trust that so I'm automatically turned off by them. I was just thinking this and thought I'd share it with you..it's probably common sense to alot of you but I figured I'd save those who didn't know.. so guys, if you like a girl, act sweet but make sure to be alpha too.. coming off too smooth is a turn off, it just screams "I DESPERATELY WANT SEX WITH YOU!" more than anything.. and besides, guys aren't supposed to be mush pots 24/7!

[DaCougarMech]

it's hard to draw the line between sweet and alpha

[microsize]

Common knowledge - I hope :/

[peng]

There's so much advice and info going around regarding women that I don't know wtf to do anymore. Chloroform is going to become more and more popular.

[Slashed]

Should make some of these threads a sticky really. Cos later on there will still be people asking the same questions, and getting the same answers.

[1quick1]

So very true. Fortunetly 95% of men (wussies) will never understand this.

Probably why you see 100 wussie threads started daily in the relationship forum.

[gogz]

lol

[Fendi]

Don't try so hard when trying to get a girl you like. Seriously.. some guys come off so desperate it's not even funny. I've had a few guys try so hard that they came off as being the perfect specimen, I just can't trust that so I'm automatically turned off by them. I was just thinking this and thought I'd share it with you..it's probably common sense to alot of you but I figured I'd save those who didn't know.. so guys, if you like a girl, act sweet but make sure to be alpha too.. coming off too smooth is a turn off, it just screams "I DESPERATELY WANT SEX WITH YOU!" more than anything.. and besides, guys aren't supposed to be mush pots 24/7!

Also, don't text them often, let them do the chasing.

[Nasty$al]

I agree with the thread starter. There is ALOT of game to be stepped up on these boards...

[SpoofRocket]

Don't try so hard when trying to get a girl you like. Seriously.. some guys come off so desperate it's not even funny. I've had a few guys try so hard that they came off as being the perfect specimen, I just can't trust that so I'm automatically turned off by them. I was just thinking this and thought I'd share it with you..it's probably common sense to alot of you but I figured I'd save those who didn't know.. so guys, if you like a girl, act sweet but make sure to be alpha too.. coming off too smooth is a turn off, it just screams "I DESPERATELY WANT SEX WITH YOU!" more than anything.. and besides, guys aren't supposed to be mush pots 24/7!

I think I will just be myself. Thanks for the info...

p.s. - GREAT ASS! - reps for a job well done... thank your mother.

[mode6]

Girls,

Just learn your damn place... make sure my sandwich is served hot and my beer is cold

[hunter1492]

Don't try so hard when trying to get a girl you like. Seriously.. some guys come off so desperate it's not even funny. I've had a few guys try so hard that they came off as being the perfect specimen, I just can't trust that so I'm automatically turned off by them. I was just thinking this and thought I'd share it with you..it's probably common sense to alot of you but I figured I'd save those who didn't know.. so guys, if you like a girl, act sweet but make sure to be alpha too.. coming off too smooth is a turn off, it just screams "I DESPERATELY WANT SEX WITH YOU!" more than anything.. and besides, guys aren't supposed to be mush pots 24/7!

I'm sure you have had numerous propositions after your big win in the hot bodyspace poll win. (even I voted for you)

[King of the Misc]

I DESPERATELY WANT SEX WITH YOU!













































































































(serious)

[gogz]

I DESPERATELY WANT SEX WITH YOU!




(serious)

wow strong desperation

[King of the Misc]

Shouldv'e got that seriosu tag..

[SycG]

wow strong desperation

Ya he didn't even try to be sweet. He just came out and said it.

[King of the Misc]

Relax it was a joke.

[Fendi]

wow strong desperation

I sense desperation in your reply?

[5x10]

way to tell the e-nerds to pick up their game

[SpoofRocket]

Relax it was a joke.

No it wasnt. I would play the homo role for her.

[wasabe]

In my opinion, I think the guys on this site should have little problems meeting and getting girls. I agree with the thread starter. We, as body builders, need not try very hard. We are among the fittest people in the planet. Personally, I think the best approach is to make eye contact with girls we find attractive. If you get a positive vibe, say hello and take it from there. Don't waste time with girls who don't give you a positive vibe.

[2 HUGE]

In my opinion, I think the guys on this site should have little problems meeting and getting girls. I agree with the thread starter. We, as body builders, need not try very hard. We are among the fittest people in the planet. Personally, I think the best approach is to make eye contact with girls we find attractive. If you get a positive vibe, say hello and take it from there. Don't waste time with girls who don't give you a positive vibe.

I agree with part of that... Its easier to find girls that are attracted to muscle. Half of them out there could care less about whether the guy is a bodybuilder, powerlifter, model, or w/e as long as he looks decent. There are some girls that are attracted to muscles and some that could care less about it

Ive been told that I dont look good with muscles (serious ), and that muscles are 'ugly and gross' by some girls. I just lol'd

[Ex-Terminator]

Don't try so hard when trying to get a girl you like. Seriously.. some guys come off so desperate it's not even funny. I've had a few guys try so hard that they came off as being the perfect specimen, I just can't trust that so I'm automatically turned off by them. I was just thinking this and thought I'd share it with you..it's probably common sense to alot of you but I figured I'd save those who didn't know.. so guys, if you like a girl, act sweet but make sure to be alpha too.. coming off too smooth is a turn off, it just screams "I DESPERATELY WANT SEX WITH YOU!" more than anything.. and besides, guys aren't supposed to be mush pots 24/7!

Yes, this is one of the basic tenets of PUA technique. If a guy chases after a girl and tries to please her, that "devalues" him in her eyes. Women generally are attracted to a man who acts like he's better than her.

[neowings]

Don't try so hard when trying to get a girl you like. Seriously.. some guys come off so desperate it's not even funny. I've had a few guys try so hard that they came off as being the perfect specimen, I just can't trust that so I'm automatically turned off by them. I was just thinking this and thought I'd share it with you..it's probably common sense to alot of you but I figured I'd save those who didn't know.. so guys, if you like a girl, act sweet but make sure to be alpha too.. coming off too smooth is a turn off, it just screams "I DESPERATELY WANT SEX WITH YOU!" more than anything.. and besides, guys aren't supposed to be mush pots 24/7!

Examples from your experience??

[DMBsAmricanBaby]

there was a few guys who did this and also my exes did this and they ended up just using me, so it only leaves me to believe that guys who are overly nice just want a piece and it's really not sincere...I know some guys aren't like this, but I can't help but to feel this way. I enjoy a guy who's a sweetheart but sometimes you just have to question if it's real :/

[UsernameTaken]

Should make some of these threads a sticky really. Cos later on there will still be people asking the same questions, and getting the same answers.

That could be said about 99% of the threads in this sub-forum.

[PTpaul]

imo you can be "sweet" and get girls, but just don't pour it on too much or too early. And do it on YOUR time, not whenever they ask for it. If you do it too early it just appears to them that you're trying to pretend to be that way to get laid. You just gotta have the mindset that you are doing the choosing, not just hoping to be chosen.

[Thy_Kingdom]

there was a few guys who did this and also my exes did this and they ended up just using me, so it only leaves me to believe that guys who are overly nice just want a piece and it's really not sincere...I know some guys aren't like this, but I can't help but to feel this way. I enjoy a guy who's a sweetheart but sometimes you just have to question if it's real :/

Wtf?

ALL.GUYS.WANT.A.PIECE.

[UsernameTaken]

Wtf?

ALL.GUYS.WANT.A.PIECE.

I owe many people reps on recharge, but if you remind me, I'll rep you too.

[DMBsAmricanBaby]

imo you can be "sweet" and get girls, but just don't pour it on too much or too early. And do it on YOUR time, not whenever they ask for it. If you do it too early it just appears to them that you're trying to pretend to be that way to get laid. You just gotta have the mindset that you are doing the choosing, not just hoping to be chosen.

EXACTLY!!

repped..