Children are children. They are growing up and their bodies go through a rollercoaster of emotional and physical changes. Parents and schoolteachers do not want to deal with it. Parents don't want to physically correct their kids and schoolteachers CANT because of lawsuits.
If I was your father I would attend class with you. Sit down next to you and watch you. Make sure your paying attention in class and treat you like a baby. I GUARANTEE your ADD would be cured. You would make damn sure that paying attention was your main priorty in life just to prevent the mass redicule of your peers from ever happening again.
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08-29-2007, 06:27 AM #91Vidi Et Scio
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08-29-2007, 06:59 AM #92
Read my other edited post further down the page. I had helpers sit with me in class, worse then having your father in class, had mother as a teacher there, neither helped one eyota. I hear about all these crap about people being designated as ADD after one sitting or whatever, I went through a battery of tests, and even had a rage during one. I assure you, that if ADD doesn't exist, then I have something else.
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08-29-2007, 07:01 AM #93
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08-29-2007, 07:43 AM #94
if you dont have ADD you would never understand what we go through everyday, i can concentrate on things like for however long i need, but if im not interested i loose concentration every few seconds, i can hardly get a sectence off without day dreaming.
i cant do anything with math at all, ive been getting D's in math class for as long as i can remember
ADD has nothing to do with kids acting up or being bad , you all seem to keep thinking this, ATTENTION DEFICIT DISORDER, means you cant concentrate
i might be having problems because ive had like 8 concussions from skiing but idk
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08-29-2007, 07:48 AM #95
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08-29-2007, 07:50 AM #96
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08-29-2007, 08:14 AM #99
Yes, I am going to tell you that you don't have ADD. You just typed a half page thesis on why you can't focus and can't do your homework. But in doing so, you proved that you can focus and can do work - it's just hard to do the work that you don't want to do. Guess what? It's hard for the rest of us as well.
If your dad had parented (and maybe even used those INNAPROPRIATE disciplinary methods on your lazy ass) properly instead of medicating you to the hilt and handing you an excuse not to do your best, then you would be a much better man today. I feel sorry for you because the extraordinarily poor job your parents did has mentally handicapped you - possibly for life.
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08-29-2007, 08:15 AM #100
the drug war we should be fighting is against the drug companies and doctors who prescribe this crap
heres an example of drug pushing
my wife' chest hurt
she went to the doc to make sure its not her heart
her sternum/ breast cavity was inflamed due to bench press
so he gave her anti-inflammatories and 60 MUSCLE RELAXERS!?!?!?
the doc told her to take three relaxers a day
i took 1 and it knocked me out
she didnt even have any muscle problems, why did they give her 60?
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08-29-2007, 08:16 AM #101
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08-29-2007, 08:21 AM #102
Drug reps visit my wifes work a few times a week. The buy lunch for the whole staff. Pass out free pens, note pads, pictures, clocks etc etc ALL with there DRUG name on it. The doc gets some free samples.
I've went to docs before and just straight up asked for xyz meds and got them. Of course i had a need. But I was able to use the PDR and pick out which acne meds I wanted to try. Also requested some topical pain relief pads instead of narcotics. Crazy thing was the docs didn't even really care or ask why. just wanted to see what the normal daily dose was so they could write the script. Then off to the next patient. Saves him time and you get the drugs you want.
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08-29-2007, 08:37 AM #103
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Until this current school year, I was a special ed teacher.
I can tell you that from my perspective, ADD/ADHD is waaaay over diagnosed and overmedicated. ADD/ADHD diagnoses (if you can all them that) are growing so fast that it i almost overwhelming the SPED system. Virtually all of the referrals for eval come from teachers who want placid automatons they can program, not real live children. Any classroom discipline problem that takes a bit of thought to solve is called ADD. Parents are not that much better. There are proved behavior mod strategies that work with "overactive" kids that teach them how to channel it into appropriate times and places. They work for most of them.
There are some who have an actual brain chemistry imbalance and need the drugs (Personally, I believe there is an environmental trigger in these cases). I've seen the drugs to miracles in some children who really need them. But that number is few."You will give the people an ideal to strive towards. They'll race behind you. They will stumble; they will fall. But, in time, they will join you in the sun. In time, you will help them accomplish wonders." Jor-El
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08-29-2007, 08:45 AM #104
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08-29-2007, 10:06 AM #105
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Psychiatry is RAPE!!!
In my early twenties I was locked in a mental hospital FOR SMOKING WEED!
They told me I had bipolar, bio-shizo, borderline personality and FUKING SCHIZOPHRENIA!!!
I was locked in a little room for 52 days. I was injected daily.
I gained 55 pounds.
They take away your rights.
It was a living hell.
FUK PSYCHIATRISTS! WIPE THEM OFF THE FACE OF THE EARTH!!!!
I HAVE SEEN SO MANY PEOPLE'S LIVES RUINED BY THESE DRUGS!!!
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08-29-2007, 10:12 AM #106
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08-29-2007, 10:30 AM #107
youre no different than any one else. i got through college with the same problem. but the difference is that i had the disipline to sit down for hours a day and read a book. i would FORCE my self to do it even though i couldnt help but be distracted. i had to take a break every 15-45 minutes in order to reward myself for any hard work i put in.
and as for your "rage", that would be your parents fault for caving into your tantrums because thats how you got your way.
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08-29-2007, 10:44 AM #108
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08-29-2007, 11:06 AM #110
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We gotta bunch of Scientologists here.
If you do not have the disorder, you cannot possibly fathom what it is like to have the disorder. For the record, ADD isn't the proper name now, the DSM-IV classifies all ADHD into three different categories.
I was diagnosed in college after seeing my doctor although I should have been diagnosed in high school.
It is just plain ignorance that people think its a made up disease. Did you know there is no scientific test for schizophrenia? Does that mean it is fake as well?
ADHD has been around forever, despite gaining notoreity recently. I will agree that it is overdiagnosed, but that doesn't mean there are not people who do have it.
Here is an example of one SCIENTIFIC difference between a ADHD brain and non-ADHD brain:
Per Wikipedia:
In 493 BC, physician-scientist Hippocrates described a condition that seems to be compatible with what we now know as ADHD. He described patients who had "quickened responses to sensory experience, but also less tenaciousness because the soul moves on quickly to the next impression". Hippocrates attributed this condition to an "overbalance of fire over water”.
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08-29-2007, 11:07 AM #111
Did they officially diagnose you or was it some school counselor or general practitioner?
You probably didn't have ADD.
There are other rotes to treat add, not just maledictions.
i.e.: Behavior Therapy, Coping Skills, Tutoring...
LOL at you generalizing peoplee with add as stupid lazy, asshat.
People who have ADD have a lack of impulse control so it is usually harder for them to control procrastination ect. They usually need to do something very stimulating to get tasks completed.
It will not make you bipolar, it can cause mania or psychotic episodes. It is easily addictive and not controlled well enough by PDo's these days.
If that were true you would be a millionare.Last edited by raidz; 08-29-2007 at 11:09 AM.
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08-29-2007, 11:12 AM #112
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08-29-2007, 11:14 AM #113
Thats a pretty general observation to making. I don't believe add can make a civilization fall. Give me example of how ADD is a copout if you don't mind.
Reps on reload, I have a suspicion most of the posters in here are going on emotion rather than scientific facts.
Maybe the Doctors were partly Accurate......
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08-29-2007, 11:15 AM #114
Ever consider that maybe since you had been on drugs that your body developed an addiction to them and now that you have gotten off the drugs your body can't function normally. It's just an easy way out for the parents. Honestly how could you tell at Grade 1? Every 6 year old is wild and spontaneous. How often do you see a 6 year old doing something diligently with extreme focus regularly?
I wasn't around then but years ago when someone couldn't concentrate it was basically because they were ****ing stupid, plain and simple. Some people are smart, some aren't. Doesn't mean they need drugs.
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08-29-2007, 11:19 AM #115
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08-29-2007, 11:23 AM #116
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I got by in high school with a B average w/o studying at all just based on my intelligence. What prompted me to consider getting diagnosed was looking back at my report cards and for each class, every year, the same comments kept coming up (they had default comments to choose from):
1) Bright student
2) Talks too much/Doesn't pay attention
My economics teacher caught me daydreaming in every class and referred to it as [insert my last name]-land. I've never had big discipline problems outside your normal kid behavior. I am very impulsive however and I forgetful of daily activities. In addition to my medication, I have to make a schedule of everything I am going to do on a certain day otherwise I'll forget half the stuff.
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08-29-2007, 12:49 PM #117
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There's a direct causal, genetic link - that of a previous diagnosis of Schizophrenia on the father's side as well as significant diagnostic criteria on CT-SCAN / MRI. Both the prefrontal cortex (the front of the brain where immediate processing occurs) and limbic system (sits atop the brain stem and is primarily responsible for emotional reactions) are directly affected.
Schizophrenia is diagnosed by way of subjective report, much like ADD / ADHD.
Scan done while patient on meds. or off meds.? Illicit drugs involved? Alcohol? What, exactly, are we looking at here?
As for the first part of your post here, sure - while ADD is a valid diagnosis, there is actually no specific diagnostic criteria to definitively say, "Yes. Your child has it." It is diagnosed, rather, as a rule out - a patient without schizophrenia, without Bipolar Disorder, etc. - can be diagnosed with ADD. To blithely spout that someone has ADD just because he or she can't concentrate and is out of control is both inappropriate and inaccurate. Why?
The evaluation process for a clear diagnosis needs to occur over time and with more than one visit. This type of involvement doesn't happen, by and large. And that, unfortunately, is the reason it is largely overdiagnosed.
That said, medication has been created to perform a certain function and it performs that function quite well - as evidenced by people in this thread who are not diagnosed and yet have still taken them and found to benefit their studying or whatever. Just because someone responds to a medication does not mean one has gained justification to support a diagnosis.
Most people are diagnosed out of convenience. To believe otherwise is to be both unread and uninformed."How many times can I say I'm not sorry? And how many ways can I show I don't care?" - Type O Negative
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