Maybe you guys can help me to settle an ongoing argument with my girlfriend.
She loves RnB and her ex never had a problem with her grinding with guy friends or strangers in clubs. She's surprised that I mind since, in her words, its 'just dancing'.
All I see is some guy rubbing his crotch on my girl. Needless to say I'm not impressed.
So would you guys mind your girlfriend dancing provocatively with other people? Is it 'just dancing' or is it as sexual as it looks? Am I just being over-protective?
Answers on a postcard, please, or just vote in the poll.
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08-19-2004, 05:37 AM #1
Girlfriend grinding with other guys
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I couldnt care less...
but then again, I cheat on my GF like crazy...
Oh well...I may be an *******, but at least im not a hypocritical *******Brim
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I asked a quesiton similar to this a few months back, about a guy buying your girl a drink in a bar. Needless to say i dumped the girl thought brought that question about. I guess I have a bit of a jealous streak but I can't stand watching my girl grind like that with other guys. It is incredibly disrespectful. Dancing is one thing...but grinding is prequel to sex...and I don't care what anyone says. The only person my girl should be grinding on is me....
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08-19-2004, 06:33 AM #11
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08-19-2004, 06:36 AM #13
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08-19-2004, 06:44 AM #14Originally posted by nawal
I'm not sure whether or not to be happy that the argument is going my way.
Its not that I don't trust her. If she says its just a dance to her then I'll accept that. I just have a sneaking suspicion that its more than 'just a dance' to the guys who have their hands all over her.
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08-19-2004, 06:45 AM #15Originally posted by nawal
I'm not sure whether or not to be happy that the argument is going my way.
Its not that I don't trust her. If she says its just a dance to her then I'll accept that. I just have a sneaking suspicion that its more than 'just a dance' to the guys who have their hands all over her.
And for the other guy so what she got a free beer. It just means you don't have to buy her one. Make a game out of it. Get her to get as many free beers for the two of you.
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08-19-2004, 07:00 AM #16
It probably makes her hot as hell.
When you two go home at the end of a night
of dancing... does she seem to be more fun than
usual?
I would roll with it and use it to your advantage.
Get out on the floor and get your hands and crotch
all over some hot chicks! Then go home a **** the holy
hell out of your girl !!
If she's gonna cheat... she'll find a way no matter
what rules you apply.Sandbag
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08-19-2004, 07:03 AM #17
I wouldn't take that crap.
She wouldnt see the door knocking her unconscious on her way out"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. He will be lonely often and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself" - Nietzsche
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08-19-2004, 07:28 AM #18Originally posted by beowulf
I asked a quesiton similar to this a few months back, about a guy buying your girl a drink in a bar. Needless to say i dumped the girl thought brought that question about. I guess I have a bit of a jealous streak but I can't stand watching my girl grind like that with other guys. It is incredibly disrespectful. Dancing is one thing...but grinding is prequel to sex...and I don't care what anyone says. The only person my girl should be grinding on is me....
Lol, every time we go out to a bar I send my wife up to get us our drinks. Quite frequently some desperate jackass at the bar will pay for both our drinks.
As for the grinding... it would depend. Her grinding on a total stranger in a strange area--no problem, because the guy is no threat. But a friend, in our area...not good. You don't want to allow things to develop into more in your home area.
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08-19-2004, 08:59 AM #19
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08-19-2004, 09:14 AM #20
if you're not happy with her doing it she shouldn't do it. it's that simple.
whether she thinks nothing of it or not doesn't matter, it's that you don't like it that matters. if it doesn't mean that much to her then she'll have no problem with not doing it.
the dancing it's self isn't that disrespectful, but the fact that she refuses to compromize with you is disrespectful.
if she won't stop because you're uncomfortable with her actions, dump her before it gets worse.
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08-19-2004, 09:46 AM #21
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08-19-2004, 10:07 AM #22
well, girls like dancing in that way.
tell her that u don't like her dancing like that with another guys.
my girlfriend did that too n i got so piss off but after i told her that what the problem is, she stop it n only dance like that with me.Last edited by whazzzup; 08-19-2004 at 10:14 AM.
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08-19-2004, 10:10 AM #23
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08-19-2004, 10:13 AM #24Originally posted by ratmonkey
if you're not happy with her doing it she shouldn't do it. it's that simple.
whether she thinks nothing of it or not doesn't matter, it's that you don't like it that matters. if it doesn't mean that much to her then she'll have no problem with not doing it.
the dancing it's self isn't that disrespectful, but the fact that she refuses to compromize with you is disrespectful.
if she won't stop because you're uncomfortable with her actions, dump her before it gets worse.Last edited by K'Ching; 08-19-2004 at 10:17 AM.
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08-29-2004, 12:06 PM #25
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08-29-2004, 01:17 PM #26
Well I have never liked a girl this much so I could never end things over something like this. She is not deriving anything sexual from dancing so it seems unfair for me to impose my interpretation of events on her.
I can't force her into anything at the end of the day.. she has to make her own choices.
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08-29-2004, 01:23 PM #27Originally posted by nawal
She is not deriving anything sexual from dancing so it seems unfair for me to impose my interpretation of events on her.
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Rap your one of a kind bro, you will be missed.
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08-29-2004, 02:06 PM #28
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