29 year old virgin, gonna pay for it, anything I should know?

[fishnbrah]

Don't get me wrong, I'd take a hot hooker over the type quality I can get off tinder if the price was right.

[Luc1fer]

Don't get me wrong, I'd take a hot hooker over the type quality I can get off tinder if the price was right.

And don't get me wrong, I'd rather get the sex from a decent looking Tinder girl. I'm talking about the scenario where you just want to get the monkey off your back, and are otherwise having trouble getting it.

[patbanya]

OP, you never know. It seemed to work for this guy. Reddit Thread

Went to Mexico to buy barbiturates for a humane and peaceful death.

Decided that if I was gonna die anyway I might as well **** a prostitute before it was all over. After that a cab driver offered to sell me *******. One thing lead to another, and I got a room above a whore house equipped with a heart shaped bed, a stripper pole, and a hot tub.

Spent a full week snorting coke off tits, popping pain meds, drinking tequila, eating handfuls of Viagra to fight the whiskey/coke dick, and had three FFM threesomes.

Somewhere in the midst of my coke-fueled orgy, I decided life wasn't so bad after all.

[jay283]

Ok op if you are going to get a hooker get a pornstar. Just saying. That or get a $700 hooker. The difference when you go higher is incredible. Also talk to her first a bit to find out her personality.

[Brozef]

OP, you never know. It seemed to work for this guy. Reddit Thread

Multiple bannable mentions in that quote. Just an FYI breh

[bobdolesoutcash]

patbayna. you natty?

[patbanya]

Multiple bannable mentions in that quote. Just an FYI breh

My bad. I rarely post outside of the IFBB section. By the looks of things, that doesn't even exist anymore.

patbayna. you natty?

Yes. Enjoy the reps. You're no longer red.

[Redundanteater]

Did the same thing at 26 years old and I regret it everyday . Don’t do it OP

The 10 mins are not worth it . I wish I worked on my social skills instead of taking the easy way . I’ve still yet to be able to touch a girl for free though

In case no one else mentioned it - ALL men pay women for sex, in one way or another. That cost can be tremendous (think brutal divorce, net worth cut in half, decades of child support/alimony etc.) or very modest (attention, flirting, banter, a bit of your time - which itself should be valuable). But believe me, you're paying for it!

Granted, cash in hand is a whole other level. For some guys who are already financially and socially successful, going the commercial route can be a viable means to an end. In this case, you're paying them to leave (not bother you, tell your wife/gf/etc).

For a guy who legit can't get laid due to social issues, I would suggest it's an option of last resort (but still an option). I heard a couple generations ago, it was normal for young guys (late teens) to see a pro for their first time. It wasn't even hugely stigmatized or anything at that time. However present society is very much against prostitution as it removes the power of the pussy (or at least serve to drive down the price).

[fishnbrah]

Girls can be super difficult.

It's one reason why many of them are prostitutes. Many "regular" girls are prostitutes in that they only go with guys who can benefit them in some way, rather than out of love.

So, a man who is a nice and quiet person will have a lot of trouble finding a girl as many girls do not like men for their inner personality qualities, but rather what function they can serve for them. In a Shakespeare play called Othello this one character is talking about this girl he wants and the guy he's talking to tell him to "fill his purse" meaning make a lot of money if he wants the girl. Thus, girls were whores, still are, and it's not about what many guys think.

That's because mothers tend to not exploit their kids as they do the men who impregnate them. So, boys get raised by "nice moms" and then boys think potential mates will be nice like their mom. That is not true.

There are nice girls, but they are few and usually are either very smart or had unique experiences that made them value affectionate relationships.

My point here is that you may be approaching things incorrectly and not meeting the right girls. You have to observe and evaluate people who come into your life.

Also, I DOUBT you're autistic or any of that because you want to be with a woman. Likely, you just don't get how or live in some weird location that makes it too hard.

some of this hit me in the feels

[tential]

some of this hit me in the feels

Really?
I have reread that post 10 times and burst out laughing within the first 2 sentences so hard I can't stop and it hurts....

[AMDuser]

OP: what do your family members say about you not having a GF? Do they find it odd. I know that mine are beginning to find it odd and i'm 23.

At this point they've pretty much stopped asking me.

Whenever they do bring up females, I usually shut the conversation down pretty quickly because I don't want to explain it.

[TheAdlerian]

some of this hit me in the feels

Sorry bro, but it's true.

Here's an even sadder situation, along with some horrible irony.

I work with women who have had terrible trauma, to the point it's made them crazy.

Many of these girls STRONGLY want a real relationship, to get married, to have a traditional life, and so on. A girl told me the other day that she doesn't care if I'm her therapist, she had to say she would love a guy like me and would love to have a baby.

No career woman I've ever met wanted kids. They wanted to live like a man.

However, these traumatized girls, none have had any relationship role models, so they're typically not capable of actually maintaining what they say they long for.

[billclintonnn]

Dude don’t do it I lost my virginity last year at 24 to my current girlfriend and literally my life didn’t change. I love having sexors with my girlfriend, but I still feel the same.

Sex isn’t like this miracle thing.

[Ashfrolicious]

Dressing well is key to getting laid. The right set of jackets or right suit, shoes, shirts really make a difference.

Warney!!

Absolute legend, being able to bag a MILF HBB that is Hurley.

[Bluestar92]

Quit putting the ***** on a pedestal

[Maxamanius]

Lost mine to an escort and honestly it was the best thing to happen to me going forward, got the confidence I needed and first time awkwardness out of the way so when I smashed the next girl from Tinder I had some sort of experience

[hotsaucebrah]

I don't get how you can go that long without getting laid unless you are a total shut-in or have zero social circle. Especially the people on here who are in good shape, decent looking, full head of hair, decent job, etc.

[2RDEYE]

just fuking do it bro. i paid for 300 dollars for dat **** cause i cant get none. im asian and look like i'm 15 but actually 25, plus i live with family and have a ****ty warehouse job. paid for it, and would do it over and over again. but even the escort was like "you're too young!" *actually 25 feelsbadman*

Dude don’t do it I lost my virginity last year at 24 to my current girlfriend and literally my life didn’t change. I love having sexors with my girlfriend, but I still feel the same.

Sex isn’t like this miracle thing.

for FA virgins its worth it. the feeling of being an FA virgin in your midtwenties and over is terrible.

[JayDubbs932]

If it's gonna boost your confidence and get that weight off your shoulders, just do it.

[jay283]

Or you can message say 50 (slutty) chicks on Tinder. When they reply ask them out. Then go with the flow.

[Jadedfadedisbae]

I don't get it, OP is a grown man by all definitions of the word. Not just necessarily in a legal way, but a very human way. If a grown man (probably like 28 and up in today's age?) wants to experience some pussy he should be able to. He already missed out on the whole teenaged love thing anyway so what's wrong with letting him get some pussy? Stop discouraging him before he wakes up one day at 40 without pussy.

[INSANEREACH]

I used to be an escort and I don't recommend op's first time being an escort. most of these women hate sex etc. most of the make the guys feel like **** just by how they react or behave.

Not in my experience, theres a reason so many married men visit escorts.... These escorts want them to come back for more money so treat them much better than their wives do. Get the impression some people here think visiting escorts is the preserve of virgins and dirty old men. Again, some of you need to get out more. There are famous hollyweird actors who get escorts , there are successful married and single businessmen in their thirties who visit escorts The best escorts could well do well on stage in a drama class. I have visited a few escorts myself in my time ,during the times I was single. To be honest the sex was better ,only one girlfriend have I dated who came up to that standard. Dressed well, smelled amazing, up for anal sex, took them out for dinner first and great conversation as well. Looks wise they were ,nines and tens. I never used escort agencies, always went for the expensive independent girls, tended to go for the mid twenties late twenties age range because in my experience you want an older woman for anal fun, younger women cannot handle it as well . There is nothing more sexy than talking about politics with a woman taking,her back to a hotel room and ****ing her up the ass. And in the morning you go your seperate ways. Being real ,she was completely out of my league ,never could I have a relationship with someone like that, unless I earnt squillions more money ,yet I still fuked her up the ass, and had her without needing to be in a relationship with her. I got what her boyfriend and husband probably have to buy her all sorts of **** over months to get.

[shreddedloser]

As someone who has ****ed countless hookers since I started back in my early 20s and lost my v card to one, I don't feel like it has had any impact on my current relationship. Most of my close friends know what I have done and none of them care. I feel like the whole first time thing isn't as big of a deal for us guys as it is for chicks.. I can hardly remember it and I don't regret it one bit. Bing single I assume you have a fair bit of coin saved. My advise is to find an older lady that can look after you. Don't worry about catching anything as you have a much higher chance of that with a random sloot. worst thing that can possibly happen is its a **** experience and your $300 down and no one needs to know.

[BetaAsPhuck]

^^^lulz brah, that doesnt count as "research"

Summary of a study...

"While past research has linked early sexual activity to health problems, a new study suggests that waiting too long to start having sex carries risks of its own.

Those who lose their virginity at a later age -- around 21 to 23 years of age -- tend to be more likely to experience sexual dysfunction problems later, say researchers at Columbia University and the New York State Psychiatric Institute's HIV Center for Clinical and Behavioral Studies."

https://abcnews.go.com/Health/Sex/st...3932047&page=1

[BetaAsPhuck]

you can get some really realstici sex dolls that you can have sex with unlimtied times for about 250$ anyways

Not for $250.

[johnnydeep1]

Summary of a study...

"While past research has linked early sexual activity to health problems, a new study suggests that waiting too long to start having sex carries risks of its own.

Those who lose their virginity at a later age -- around 21 to 23 years of age -- tend to be more likely to experience sexual dysfunction problems later, say researchers at Columbia University and the New York State Psychiatric Institute's HIV Center for Clinical and Behavioral Studies."

Good to see that there are other virgins around my age (23)

From the look of things, it seemed like I was the only one.

[johnnydeep1]

READ more of the study that you cited

"While past research has linked early sexual activity to health problems, a new study suggests that waiting too long to start having sex carries risks of its own.

Those who lose their virginity at a later age -- around 21 to 23 years of age -- tend to be more likely to experience sexual dysfunction problems later, say researchers at Columbia University and the New York State Psychiatric Institute's HIV Center for Clinical and Behavioral Studies."
Rather, they note in the study, there may be factors common to both the delay of sexual activity and the onset of sexual dysfunction -- for example, they write, "[M]en with sexual problems may avoid sexual interactions and consequently start later."
"

Correlation =/= causation

[SoutheastBeast1]

Did the same thing at 26 years old and I regret it everyday . Don’t do it OP

The 10 mins are not worth it . I wish I worked on my social skills instead of taking the easy way . I’ve still yet to be able to touch a girl for free though

Pretty much this

This really won't solve sh*t for you OP other then no longer being a virgin. You still won't get pussy, only now you'll actually know what you're missing possibly making it even worse.

LOL at come out more confident after. You won't be more confident in getting girls interested in you because this one was never interested in you in the first place. You'd be better off f*cking a girl well below your league that you aren't attracted to if you're looking for confidence. She will at least be into you and even if you aren't attracted to her the fact she genuinely is will make you feel good about yourself.

[BetaAsPhuck]

READ more of the study that you cited

Correlation =/= causation

Here is the original post, that began the reply chain. Note the bold and underlined....

What age did you first have sex?

I believe there's research that shows a correlation between sexual dysfunction and delayed sexual experience. This certainly holds true of my own experiences and a handful of friends who popped their cherries late.

Noone ITT has claimed causation.

[johnnydeep1]

Honestly shocked at how many people remained virgins into their mid/late 20s. I didn’t realize it was that common.

I believe its still less than 10%