Did I screw my best friend over?

[Rdubbb]

So you started a thread to only respond to people that you agree with - says alot about you brah...you did something wrong and are pretending you did it for the right reasons.

You said she asked you a straight up question and you didn't want to lie well, what if she said 'have you ever masturbated thinking about me?" would you have given her an answer then?

[Bigbuster1]

Essentially this was my thought process. This chick came into my home, asked me a straight up question, and I didn't want to lie. I didn't go into any details, just one word answers and then I had her out the door.

edit: misc I could care less if none of y'all wanted to be my friend. Doubt we'd make good friends anyways if you're the ones leading multiple chicks on. Not saying smashing more than one chick at a time is bad, but, if you're lying to their face about anything then that kinda makes you a P.O.S. We console enough FA's on here about getting lead on and getting played and we ALWAYS call sloots sloots, shouldn't that apply back to you?

Yeah OP was a little bit of a bitch but everyone's in here talking about "bro code" like OP is in high school or still in frat boy mode.

OP is 10 YEARS OUT OF HIGH SCHOOL! These guys are near 30. Should be thinking about starting your own business, buying a house, having kids... not this BS

OP your friend is scumbag and no doubt a loser. Get some new friends.

[CorgiBrah]

snitch

[samsbolton]

I can't believe you told my side squeeze that you pos.
I told you I would hook you up with that tranny skank ho at the club you are always goosing, now you'll have to go back to fapping to your dwarf homo felching porn you fukking *******

[Pr0No0B]

wow bro just wow























































by bro I mean never my bro, *******

[MarinoMike]

So you started a thread to only respond to people that you agree with - says alot about you brah...you did something wrong and are pretending you did it for the right reasons.

You said she asked you a straight up question and you didn't want to lie well, what if she said 'have you ever masturbated thinking about me?" would you have given her an answer then?

I find it a little much to go through and individually respond to 25 posts calling me a ******* and jealous.

That being said I now wish I would have used that one guys advice "You need to take this up with him and leave me out of it". That would have been the best outcome. I wasn't mad at the guy when any of this went down either.

[Ittoryu]

You're a ******* friend. Bros before hoes, no exceptions you kunt.

[MarinoMike]

OKAY - so should I bring this up with him? Or what.

[sumusikoo]

This is why I avoid having "close" friends, we can hang out and sht but none of my good friends will ever know about my "personal-personal" life.

*******s like OP clearly were born with a vagina or you didn't have a proper father to teach you right.


Your father failed at teaching you that Bros are always before hoes.

[pengh]

Bro code. All your other "bros" are gonna find out about this as well. You done goofed

[Scrizzle]

- Doesn't want to lie
- Knows where friend is with other female
- "Hey OP so where is he?"
- "Don't know. LOL!"

Fukc out of here with your noble intentions. You're a bitch and a liar. Just can't commit to fully recognising your own *******ry. Gave yourself an out so you don't feel like a complete traitor. "Well I didn't rat him out completely...."

You're two faced as fukc. Pick a side. Biggest lie in here is when you called him your best friend.

[TheFuarkingBoss]

Lol at being a man and lying to women. I'd lie for a bro about petty chit but come on the guys a little bitch who needs to man up. Probably thinks he's an alpha chad lol

[wisdommaster1]

this is why you dont have roommates after college

[MarinoMike]

- Doesn't want to lie
- Knows where friend is with other female
- "Hey OP so where is he?"
- "Don't know. LOL!"

Fukc out of here with your noble intentions. You're a bitch and a liar. Just can't commit to fully recognising your own *******ry. Gave yourself an out so you don't feel like a complete traitor. "Well I didn't rat him out completely...."

You're two faced as fukc. Pick a side. Biggest lie in here is when you called him your best friend.

Let us all at least recognize the irony of "Pay people to be my friend crew"....

[Titansfan08]

Lol OP clearly jelly and has wanted to bang the chick who friendzoned him, Son...

[MarinoMike]

This is why I avoid having "close" friends, we can hang out and sht but none of my good friends will ever know about my "personal-personal" life.

*******s like OP clearly were born with a vagina or you didn't have a proper father to teach you right.


Your father failed at teaching you that Bros are always before hoes.

My father taught me to keep myself accountable to a high set of standards. What about yours?

[Scrizzle]

Let us all at least recognize the irony of "Pay people to be my friend crew"....

Yeah. Lost all my money on fake ass friends like you.

[US_Ranger]

I find it a little much to go through and individually respond to 25 posts calling me a ******* and jealous.

That being said I now wish I would have used that one guys advice "You need to take this up with him and leave me out of it". That would have been the best outcome. I wasn't mad at the guy when any of this went down either.

You got caught off guard, it happens.

A lot of the dudes in here getting mad at you are non quality guys themselves so it's no wonder they condone cheating and leading people on, being a general piece of ****. That's standard misc for you though.

Definitely the best option would have been the "take it up with him" response. She would have gotten the hint.

Sounds like your "friend" is a complete d-bag though.

[Critter5592]

I would have stopped her 5 seconds in and said I wasn't getting involved. It's a stupid situation but she is a **** for putting you in the middle of it. Also your friend knew the job was dangerous when he took it. He is the one playing around with multiple girls, that's how **** goes.

[dfprodz]

OP's angus is getting destroyed ITT

I agree with the people here, should have just said that it was none of your business and that she should deal with that drama with him, not a 3rd party

That way you would have let your friend know and THEN tell him you don't like to lie etc...

It's over boyo

[dustiestuniform]

OP you are 25. This is some stoopid chit to be worried about. Sounds like some high school chit.

[luckynrslevin]

Essentially this was my thought process. This chick came into my home, asked me a straight up question, and I didn't want to lie. I didn't go into any details, just one word answers and then I had her out the door.

edit: misc I could care less if none of y'all wanted to be my friend. Doubt we'd make good friends anyways if you're the ones leading multiple chicks on. Not saying smashing more than one chick at a time is bad, but, if you're lying to their face about anything then that kinda makes you a P.O.S. We console enough FA's on here about getting lead on and getting played and we ALWAYS call sloots sloots, shouldn't that apply back to you?

I hate people like you srs

you call him your best friend but just said he's a P.O.S, if you really thought he was not doing the right thing you should have told him that instead of being a passive bitch and taking the chance to **** him over when he is not around. I hope he ditches your snitch ass

[MarinoMike]

OP you are 25. This is some stoopid chit to be worried about. Sounds like some high school chit.

Could potentially be down the best bro of my life though. Which is not optimal for me.

[Scrizzle]

My father taught me to keep myself accountable to a high set of standards. What about yours?

- High set of standards
- Hangs out with morally questionable people
- Considers them his best friends
- But I'm better than them

Just annoyed at your hypocrisy and pride. If he's such a piece of shiet why is he your best friend? I hope you can see your high horse bullshiet. Don't give a fukc about that girl drama BS. He trusted you as his friend and you threw him under the bus.

[US_Ranger]

Could potentially be down the best bro of my life though. Which is not optimal for me.

Your best bro is someone that lies to people regularly? Hmmmm.....

If the guy is a dbag for doing it like you said, why is he your best bro?

[luckynrslevin]

You got caught off guard, it happens.

A lot of the dudes in here getting mad at you are non quality guys themselves so it's no wonder they condone cheating and leading people on, being a general piece of ****. That's standard misc for you though.

Definitely the best option would have been the "take it up with him" response. She would have gotten the hint.

Sounds like your "friend" is a complete d-bag though.

you don't get it either do you? it's not about what his "best friend" did. It's about not speaking up to your "best friend" about it if you thought this was wrong and then fuk him over when you get the chance like some passive aggressive bitch. And then justifying it by putting yourself on a moral high ground

- High set of standards
- Hangs out with morally questionable people
- Considers them his best friends
- But I'm better than them

Just annoyed at your hypocrisy and pride. If he's such a piece of shiet why is he your best friend? I hope you can see your high horse bullshiet. Don't give a fukc about that girl drama BS. He trusted you as his friend and you threw him under the bus.

and this

[theRealGriNC]

My father taught me to keep myself accountable to a high set of standards. What about yours?

At the end of the day you don't know the details of everything about their relationships regardless of what you think it is your friends decision and the girls lives not yours.

Point is there is no reason to interject yourself into the situation. It also seems fishy to say you wouldn't lie to her when you just said you have before. If it was bothering you then you needed to say something to your friend.

Calling your friends out for their **** is one thing...ratting him out is another.

You clearly have convinced yourself mentally you are 100 percent right though

Edit: you'd be better suited to be friends with females honestly lol

[US_Ranger]

you don't get it either do you? it's not about what his "best friend" did. It's about not speaking up to your "best friend" about it if you thought this was wrong and then fuk him over when you get the chance like some passive aggressive bitch. And then justifying it by putting yourself on a moral high ground

Nah. OP sucks too. His "best friend" is a guy that is a dbag. OP takes the moral high ground but calls the guy his best friend? Yeah ok.

The only people who lost in this situation are the two girls who got fcked over. OP and his friend both suck but for different reasons.

[Rdubbb]

Could potentially be down the best bro of my life though. Which is not optimal for me.

good lawd get out the violins..poor you

tbf you've probably done him a favour, now he can count you out of his inner bro circle

the answer is yes, you did screw him over...the girls really aren't important in this, it's the lack of loyalty you've shown that has outed you

you'll learn a lesson from this I'm sure

[Bownage666]

lose-lose situation. Everyone involved is basically a low T insecure beta *******.