Girlfriend asked if I would be mad if she went to a wedding as someone elses date

[JoshSP1985]

some background info:
-have been dating for 2 months
-at first she didnt want to be exclusive but i managed to convince her
-she always makes comments shes glad i convinced her to become exclusive and i helped her settle down
-she has an extremely large social group that ive not met yet
-no red flags have come up in the 2 months we have been together

LMFAO at "no red flags" Bro you listed like 2-3 red flags in your own cliffs. my god

[Turbomunkey]

Shes going to a wedding but not taking you has her date? RIP, in peace

[kopikum]

the fact that you had to convince your girl to be your girlfriend tells me everything I need to know about you, your situation and the future of your relationship

[Soonerjohn]

So your gf is going on a date with another man?

Seems perfectly normal.......if you are a cuck.

[BillHendricks]

BRB , my GF is on a date with Dan..

Isnt that the point of dating so you aren't dating other people? She is literally going on a date with some other fella while your cucked.

[DetectStabler]

How would her changing her date "ruin" the wedding? Ask her that. Also, ask her what she'd say if the roles are reversed. No matter the answer, she can't be trusted now. Drop her, srs.

[Thillygooth]

"she looked at me and laughed"

lmao

In on roll bread.

[Misctify]

I don't understand how you going "changes their plans". Lol.

[dhawkeye1980]

I don't understand how you going "changes their plans". Lol.

im sure OP is real worried about changing the plans of the fake wedding that his fake gf is going to with her fake FWB Dan

[gsxtreme1987]

Lol Cucks gon cuck.

Bro she ain't even your GF.
She "agreed" to be exclusive so she can still have your D and Dan's D.

Gittin played son.

[ragingcrayon]

I would be more concerned with what she is doing afterwards. Is there a hotel party? Who is she staying with? Is she going home? Can you come to the afterparty?

If she is going home after the wedding or invites you to hotel, all good... if not... No way Juan

[RayBoccini]

some background info:

-at first she didnt want to be exclusive but i managed to convince her
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-no red flags

[stonesfan129]

Of course I would be mad if my gf went as someone else's date. Tell her to take you or don't come back.

[Twon91]

Had to beg her to settle down "okay.jpg"


If that isn't a red flag idk what is.

[Xgamer791]

Her even deciding to do this with another man is considered cheating in my eyes, I say let her go and cheat on her, when she gets back tell her you went out with another woman and that you hope she doesn't mind, if it comes up later that she cheated than you can bring up what you did when she was riding Dan's dick cow girl style and eating his ass hole while she strokes off his cock.

[PaulFry]

You can't control your woman.... but what you can do is control your behavior. If she wants to go out with a guy, you tell her "Thats fine, I'll just go out with ...." or "Yeah no problem, I'll just get a hooker that night"

My ex went to "drinks" with a "friend" without telling me after one year of dating. When i found out, I decided to keep dating her but treat her like chit. We ended up dating for 5 years, and during that time, I had sex with around 120 different women and riddled the bitch with STD's. Now I hate women and have devoted my life to hurting women and infecting them with STD's.

[GreenWave1]

5 pages. MysteryLifter succeeds.

[nn586]

i cant take any mysterylifter thread serious

[Procta]

[PastaMaster55]

End it.

[Maxheadvroom]

What would change in the wedding if she brought you instead of Dan? Absolutely nothing. It doesn't even make sense. It's full potato logic. But it isn't logic-and she knows that. It is just her making an excuse. The fact that she even has the guts to make an excuse like that shows how little respect she has for you. Or she just thinks you are stupid.

The bottom line is this girl has VERY low interest in you. Do you really think if she was dating Brad Pitt that she would be going with Dan? Or Brad? Get out now. I have been there, done this. Heartbreak every time. Get out.

[MiscInformed]

It's cute that you think she hasn't been in contact with Dan for the past two months. Her reaction when you asked her about that betrayed the lie she told you.

Dan's getting laid at that wedding. Most likely with your girl.

[Maxheadvroom]

You can't control your woman.... but what you can do is control your behavior. If she wants to go out with a guy, you tell her "Thats fine, I'll just go out with ...." or "Yeah no problem, I'll just get a hooker that night"

My ex went to "drinks" with a "friend" without telling me after one year of dating. When i found out, I decided to keep dating her but treat her like chit. We ended up dating for 5 years, and during that time, I had sex with around 120 different women and riddled the bitch with STD's. Now I hate women and have devoted my life to hurting women and infecting them with STD's.

Strong.

[Anthony.b]

Every girl I've ever gone to ANY wedding with..... the night ended with us in bed.

[Xgamer791]

You can't control your woman.... but what you can do is control your behavior. If she wants to go out with a guy, you tell her "Thats fine, I'll just go out with ...." or "Yeah no problem, I'll just get a hooker that night"

My ex went to "drinks" with a "friend" without telling me after one year of dating. When i found out, I decided to keep dating her but treat her like chit. We ended up dating for 5 years, and during that time, I had sex with around 120 different women and riddled the bitch with STD's. Now I hate women and have devoted my life to hurting women and infecting them with STD's.

Repped

[zeusftw]

After the wedding with Dan, she will finally say yes to going out for a drink with him, after flirting with her the last 2 months she was dating OP.

At first she will be apprehensive and nervous but after a few vodka lime sodas, she'll begin to giggle at his jokes and wonder what he looks like without his shirt on.

They'll go for a walk after they leave the bar and make out against a brick wall when nobody is around. Brendon will ask if she wants to come back to his for a drink. "Ok, but only one drink and then I must go home" she replies coyly.

They will sit in comfortable silence, holding hands in the cab on the way back to his. He'll be a gentleman and open the taxi door for her to get out. As she walks into his apartment, she will notice how tasteful it is, and how different it is to your fratboy style place. No Xbox, no dirty plates on the coffee table, no musky smell.

He won't even get a chance to begin making her that drink. She's already pressed up against him, biting his bottom lip gently. She can feel his abs through his expensive cotton shirt.

He picks her up and sits her on the kitchen bench, startling her with the ease at which he did it. OP was never that strong. She's forgotten everything that lead her to this point, the breakup, the tears, the lonliness. All she can think about now is how badly she wants to be fukked be him.

...

The following morning she wakes up in his bed, the 1000 thread count Egyptian cotton bedsheets soft on her skin. He's already gone to work in his office downtown. She didn't realise investment bankers started so early. She rolls over and sees a note left on the pillow. The cursive handwriting is neat and elegant. It says:


I had a great time last night, let's do it again soon.
-Dan

She'll roll over and smile, having not felt like this in years. The pain she felt in recent weeks is now a distant memory. As she stretches out in the king sized bed and looks out at the trees that line Dan's leafy street, she'll think: OP truly was a *******.

[RyanT7]

Sorry to break it to you OP, but the truth is, hes cawk is probably buried miles down their throat by the time you get off the misc.

semi srs

not srs


Nah, I honestly think it's fine brah. The reason she gave seemed pretty legitimate, but you are the only person who can judge if she is trustworthy or not.

Worst case is that she ends up on a cfnnm dancingbear video

[YIAMSOMEBODY]

She should go. If the invitations were already made, there's no reason why she shouldn't keep the promise to go.

It's nothing more than a simple wedding.

[AllMatty]

some background info:
-have been dating for 2 months
-at first she didnt want to be exclusive but i managed to convince her
-she always makes comments shes glad i convinced her to become exclusive and i helped her settle down
-she has an extremely large social group that ive not met yet
-no red flags have come up in the 2 months we have been together

These two items are contradictory.

Look OP, it's not a big deal to ask her friend if she can bring her current BF to the wedding instead of whoever was on the invitation when they were sent ages ago. She's just using that as an excuse because she doesn't want you there for whatever reason...maybe it's because Dan or maybe it's another guy she has an eye on and Dan is her orbiter. If you agree to this it will also let her know she can pretty much get away with chit like this and walk all over you.

This girl sounds like a huge red flag to me. I would let her know that she's acting weird and that you're just going to chill with some friends that day then. Then go hang out with some female friends and have them post pics on ******** tagging you having a good time - since that's now within the bounds of the relationship.

[ralphplsgo12]