How would you react if a girl approached you at the gym?

[lawsfallmute]

Have kind of been considering it but at the same time I don't want to look like a thirsty sloot. Just legitimately want to meet more people who lift.

inb4 female negs

[Andresthetic1]

no biggie, i've had couple girls approach me asking for advice and shiet, just help them out and keep on training, and talk to them every now and then if i see them asking whatsup and ****.

[cashinout]

tell them i don't workout for women, i lift for me, and to leave me the phuck alone while i pump iron

[Thegainswarden]

It really depends on what you want? No/little reaction to make her wonder why you are not being a thirsty sloot. Just be polite, smile, and don't be a *******.
You can work your way up to a small conversations, exchange numbers, and so on.GL

[BrightonBomber]

Considering I have a home gym I'd be like "Get outta my house you crazy sloot"

But if I was in a commercial gym then I'd first be flattered that anyone thinks I look like I know what I'm doing and then just give what advice I can and encourage them just like anyone else.

[StrayanBrah]

Ask for some uggs and an ipad.

[mrzeusone]

Smile and ignore. I am at the gym for a specific reason and being social is not it.

In the sauna afterwards is a different question.

[lawsfallmute]

tell them i don't workout for women, i lift for me, and to leave me the phuck alone while i pump iron

[avodo]

Talk to them like a normal human being? Lol it's no big deal, gym is a social place and I've met a lot of female friends there... and ended up sleeping with some of them.

[tekkenbruh]

I explained it the other thread

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...post1375671733

By the way, since you're from Guatemala, how's you football team? They are playing Mexico today and I want to place a huge bet on Mexico but it comes with -2.5 handicap. Advice?

[pantiespending]

Am usually like.......


Want Fukc?


Na most typically girls act awkward and come like make passes around me and chit.... Mire from a distance or while on treadmills.... So I typically disregard and don't try all that hard.....


If a woman came at me direct? Or if she wanted lifting advice or some chit.... Id help her out and then try to Fukc her.....

But as far as working overly hard to acquire/chase Sloots in gym? Na.... I am there to lift...

This I haven't been in over a month... Maybe close to two...

[DolphinPilot]

never thought a girl was a desperate sloot for having the gumption to talk to me.

always thought she was a pathetic sloot if she just sits and stares and does nothing due to chit social skills.

[Daydreamergirl]

I always wondered this too. Like - are guise gonna think you look desperate? And if I'm only in it for a friendship , or someone to ask lifting related questions - then I wood look for someone who seems to know Wot he's doing. I think that as long as a girl talks and acts normal it wood be ok. And if the guy acts sorta weirded out by the it , I wood just move on to someone else. It wood be like an awfukbye moment of peace

[heynah]

A few have approached me, and by approached I mean they did the retarded woman thing and tried to strike up some idiotic convo.

I was quite flattered, especially since they were joocy

never thought a girl was a desperate sloot for having the gumption to talk to me.

always thought she was a pathetic sloot if she just sits and stares and does nothing due to chit social skills.

women...when will they learn?

[collapsibletank]

Girl approaches
Spaghetti
Sweats
Look for nearest fire exit

[CatabolicBrah]

I always wondered this too. Like - are guise gonna think you look desperate? And if I'm only in it for a friendship , or someone to ask lifting related questions - then I wood look for someone who seems to know Wot he's doing. I think that as long as a girl talks and acts normal it wood be ok. And if the guy acts sorta weirded out by the it , I wood just move on to someone else. It wood be like an awfukbye moment of peace

Wood you be so kind to use would rather than wood?

[pantiespending]

never thought a girl was a desperate sloot for having the gumption to talk to me.

always thought she was a pathetic sloot if she just sits and stares and does nothing due to chit social skills.

Sooo much this..............

Pathetic to stare and not talk......

Never view as thirsty sloot for trying to find a Cawk to ride....

[mehcba]

I always wondered this too. Like - are guise gonna think you look desperate? And if I'm only in it for a friendship , or someone to ask lifting related questions - then I wood look for someone who seems to know Wot he's doing. I think that as long as a girl talks and acts normal it wood be ok. And if the guy acts sorta weirded out by the it , I wood just move on to someone else. It wood be like an awfukbye moment of peace

No, not desperate. If you want to talk to someone, just talk to them. You're not in school anymore, if you see someone at the gym they obv have the same interest as you so there should be no issue asking for advice/a spot/whatever. If the guy starts trying to have deep convos everytime you see him though, smile and say hi whenever you see him but dont stop and chat. Walk on. I do the same with people who wanna have a 10min convo everytime they see me, no thx

[lawsfallmute]

Talk to them like a normal human being? Lol it's no big deal, gym is a social place and I've met a lot of female friends there... and ended up sleeping with some of them.

I'm not looking to hook up, hence my dilemma. Don't want to come off looking like I just want his D.

I explained it the other thread

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...post1375671733

By the way, since you're from Guatemala, how's you football team? They are playing Mexico today and I want to place a huge bet on Mexico but it comes with -2.5 handicap. Advice?

Go with Mexico.

never thought a girl was a desperate sloot for having the gumption to talk to me.

always thought she was a pathetic sloot if she just sits and stares and does nothing due to chit social skills.

awfukbye

[Jan1ss]

got into 1 year relationship because once female approached me in the gym srs

also i appreciate girls who approach much more than chicks who play hard to get and just stare and give subtle hints

[PurpleAngus]

Would **** my pants and piss on the floor and slip and hit head on bench and be woken up at the hospital/10

[Daydreamergirl]

Wood you be so kind to use would rather than wood?

Absolutly , if it would ( see wot I did) make you feel better.

[lawsfallmute]

No, not desperate. If you want to talk to someone, just talk to them. You're not in school anymore, if you see someone at the gym they obv have the same interest as you so there should be no issue asking for advice/a spot/whatever. If the guy starts trying to have deep convos everytime you see him though, smile and say hi whenever you see him but dont stop and chat. Walk on. I do the same with people who wanna have a 10min convo everytime they see me, no thx

Or people who try to talk to me while I'm working out... as in, literally during the middle of a set.

Advice chat sounds good. I'm doing more calisthenics training and always 'mire the spider monkey-esque dudes who can do a plethora of impressive body weight exercises. I just don't want to be weird and interrupt some dude while he's training.

[guest89]

I always wondered this too. Like - are guise gonna think you look desperate? And if I'm only in it for a friendship , or someone to ask lifting related questions - then I wood look for someone who seems to know Wot he's doing. I think that as long as a girl talks and acts normal it wood be ok. And if the guy acts sorta weirded out by the it , I wood just move on to someone else. It wood be like an awfukbye moment of peace

99% of guys

[lolnattylifting]

Badly.

I smiled at her at the drink fountain and said hi.

since then she has asked me out 6 times, and made my gym sessions somewhat awkward.

Its never, ever the hot ones that do this....always the ones you don't want.

If your hot, go for it OP.

[lawsfallmute]

Would **** my pants and piss on the floor and slip and hit head on bench and be woken up at the hospital/10

ayyy veni aca papi chulo

[Masterbetaa]

Talk to them like a normal human being? Lol it's no big deal, gym is a social place and I've met a lot of female friends there... and ended up sleeping with some of them.

nice

[DoctorGetSwole]

Had it happen once but on other occasions I saw girls talking with their friends about wanting to approach and their friends goading them though they never did

I was not paying attention when I got approached so i tuned it out because it was unexpected and she wasn't in front of me when she wasn't talking, then it seemed like she got nervous and walked away

Wish I had been more aware, she was hot, would've totally dated her

[Celebrate]

[Eandretta96]

Perfect, let's reschedule
































My gym session because you just ruined it.