That would have still applied to that line of work. Srs.
I mean the dr calls you and says you need to come and say your goodbyes now and I better miss work next week to go to the funeral foot in the grave stuff.
And also, none of my bosses (minus current one which is why I'm very happy) would never have given a **** about my boyfriends/girlfriends parent enough to miss a networking function. Srs.
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03-26-2015, 01:22 PM #91
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03-26-2015, 02:13 PM #95
Bro, why are you even having this conversation with this chick with everything else going on? You've already gotten a lot of good advice ITT.
"THERE IS NO SUBSTITUTE FOR PERSISTENCE!"
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But like everyone said if you forgive you say......
"When you did xyz it's hurt cuz abc and fgh. Please do these things to correct behavior"
Then it's over. That's it. If you choose to forgive her then say it and end that chapter.
if that **** happened yesterday I would sit on it still today and try and see about how you feel tomorrow.
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03-26-2015, 02:52 PM #98
I already gave the perfect advice in the first post of this thread. Why is it still going?
So you're one of those guys who fake breaks up with his girlfriend in an attempt to invoke some sympathy because your ego is bruised, eh? Funny how when she called your bluff, you caved. She obviously has all the power in this relationship, and you'll be dragged to her ex's wedding like a good, obedient little boy.
Enjoy the toxic relationship with your girlfriend, who has shown a propensity to turn things around on you while absolving herself of all guilt. I'm sure it will work out.
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03-26-2015, 03:44 PM #102
Sent her this
Hey hope your day went well. I'm ready to talk. When you did what you did it hurt because it really made it seem as if you did not care at all. Please simply change the way you handle the work events and our time to correct this behavior.
We can talk in person whenever you canSig line rules
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03-26-2015, 06:12 PM #109
How old are you? If I didn't know any better, I'd guess you were both in high school. That's obviously not the case as she was going out for drinks with coworkers and her ex is getting married, but you are both immature and emotionally stunted. The way you talk with one another makes it seem like you're business partners rather than relationship partners. If you need "a few days" apart from each other, and you're not teenagers, then your relationship isn't going to work. I'm starting to believe this is a roll bread because of how retarded this whole thing is.
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This is the misc mane. Most people believe girls gotta be spot on perfect. Ain't allowed to even fart in front of you. Come and bark at their every whim. Oh and if the girl doesn't understand when you screw up she ain't worth it.
That's why I said you gotta use your sister to help guide. Maybe the NC crew is right and she's screwed up. Maybe she deserves a second chance. But your sister is gonna have a good eye in it all IMHO.
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So I talked with her last night even tho I said I would talk Sunday and her tone of voice seemed very passed. I then asked her is everything okay? "and she says" I have a lot of stuff on my mind"
My sister tells me " well what did you expect, she thought you were gonna break up with her.
What's your take misc?Sig line rules
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03-27-2015, 06:03 AM #115
Damn OP, since you've came to the misc you've asked for advice on relationships and you still can't take advice given to you?
That's a shame man.
Live and learn though. Hopefully you learn before it's too late.
You've asked everyone's take, everyone says break up. But you never listen. I've seen a ton of your threads in the past. You just don't listen to advice you're given ever.
How this story ends is painfully obvious. She convinces you it was all a mistake. Points out your past flaws to guilt you. You stick around. She then turns around and dumps you later when she's emotionally prepared to dump you. It's a lesson you'll have to learn for yourself though it seems.
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I'm at the point where if someone threatens a breakup, even veiled, I'm done. You hit the switch and that makes me check out and start walking towards the door. Once you cross that line you can't go back because you know in the future they are ready to, or will threaten to when they don't get their way, to end everything. It puts you in this precarious position where you feel you have to walk on egg shells to keep this girl and when a relationship gets to that point it's toast.
She should be sympathetic yet she throws a dash of sympathy and then tries to turn it around on you and tell you "maybe this relationship isn't right for me" which is another way of saying "you had better be the one to start sucking up to me if you want to keep me right now." Fck that chit. Get out.
She's checked out. "I have a lot of stuff on my mind" is code for I'm processing the breakup so when I am ready to talk again I will be completely detached emotionally and have already established another guy to monkey branch to. This is what happens when you cross that threshold you can't ever turn back and have it like it was. Even if you do get back together she will not respect you for allowing her to walk all over you when you were in the right and she'll wear the pants in the relationship and will resent you after awhile of not respecting you.
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