The teenage boy losing his virginity is a holy grail in all coming of age films, and they make it seem unforgettable too.
Ever since I was a young ******* I've mapped out how my life was supposed to play out, has everything gone perfectly?Nah, but it's been alright man.
I have an opportunity to lose my virginity at an upcoming party, and all my friends keep telling me it's time. I realize that this is trivial plus the fact that I'm
still only 15, but I'm afraid it won't be as great as it's made out to be. Will the reality be me trying to find the hole in a clammy dark room, and busting
after 2 pumps in her sea of miracles? Maybe she tells her friends about my apparently astronomically tiny weener? Or will I get blackout drunk and not remember anything at all? On one hand people say don't settle down with a girlfriend in HS since it won't last, but on the other do I really wanna lose it to some slore who probably sucked off 2 guys within the last 30 minutes?
cliffs:
lose virginity at party or not
how was ur first time
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10-14-2014, 09:43 PM #1
Do you regret who you lost your virginity to?
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10-14-2014, 09:44 PM #2
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inb4 he held me down and whispered sweet nothings in my ear
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10-14-2014, 09:46 PM #5
Don't regret it at all.
Wouldn't care who I lost it to as long as they weren't ugly.
Unless you're staying virgin for a reason, there's no reason why you should really care who you lost it to.
I lost mine to a girl who ended up marrying a friend of mine, so I find that amusing - they weren't together or anything at the time. I rejected her, he white knighted her and has ended up marrying her. Quite funny.
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10-14-2014, 09:49 PM #9
At 20 years old I lost my virginity on valentines day to an Asian escort in an apartment building.
Hour and a half for $360.
"You pay me hour and a half, you can cum twice"
Edit: Basically I figured that the average 20 year old girl has been with around 10 guys. So it's like, what's so special about it for me? Number 11 for a girl who'll forget me in a week after we split? Meh. At least with the escort it wasn't special for either of us. Don't regret it one bit.
Now if the question was regarding being social at a young age and losing it to ones teenage sweetheart when both of you are relatively inexperienced, then yes I'd obviously prefer that.
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10-14-2014, 09:57 PM #16
Lost it to my most recent gf because I wasn't ready to do it with some random. I can't imagine losing it to some random sloot, would probably feel empty as ****.
Sex with someone you care about>Sex with someone who will leave you empty.
I've only had sex with one girl lol so I can't offer you advice on this field very well but I think you shouldn't over think it. Just live and learn brah. If you feel like chit about it, next time make sure there is more meaning to ur next sexual partner.
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10-14-2014, 09:58 PM #17
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Yes.
It was with my first love. My first time was also her first time, so we lost our virginity at the same time to each other. We got engaged but in the end she left.
Would love to take a time machine and try again with a worthwhile girl that would actually stay together from teenagers to death."Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for thou art with me." - Psalm 23
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10-14-2014, 09:58 PM #18
Hell no. My first time was phucking amazing. She lifted so that tells you about her body. Ass of PEEAACCEE. She's a loud moaner and we were both very emotionally attracted at the time. Plus on top of not seeing eachother for weeks before that, it was passionate as phuck cuz. Lots of kissing, eye contact, name calling, fuuaarrkk. Her parents were out of town so we had the house to ourselves. Got there at midnight, left at 5:30 AM. Made her cum ~5 times that night srs. ~3 times by foreplay and at least once while smashing. She was phucking shaking by the end of the night, telling me no guy has ever made her feel that way before I chit you not. I can show you screenshots of convo if the misc so asks. (Forgot to mention I also did it rawdog lmao so phucking dumb... felt great but her period was late, no babynames.com but still scared the phuck out of us)
To answer your question OP, go for it. Get it over with. If she aint ugly but not the best looking who cares, it will only make your future bangs easier.
And it's well within your power to make your first time great. I lasted ~25 mins. You just gotta have dat der concentration. Plus having first time jitters may help you last. When I start getting too excited I take a deep breathe and slow down my heart rate. Focus on your breathing and nothing else while still pumping, and then just go back to normal when you can control yourself again. If you have to, take your mind completely off it so you don't blow your load in two minutes. After a bit of that you should gain some control.
Also, foreplay beforehand makes it easier to last longer, kinda like warming it up lol. Plus if you blow it too soon, just go for round two as soon as you can, nothing wrong with that. Good luck m8Last edited by SpiiralOut; 10-14-2014 at 10:16 PM.
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10-14-2014, 10:00 PM #19
I dated a girl off tinder for 3 months. lost my v-card to her the first month, had sex with her 4 times. and then she dropped me 2 months later... I feel like chit because it meant nothing to her. Maybe i'm beta, but now im thinking when I do meet a girl I stay with for a long time and we have sex, I can't say she was my first. idk seems somewhat important.
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10-14-2014, 10:03 PM #23
Well, if your dink is actually so small people would talk chit (like under 4 inches hard), and you are really THAT worried about people knowing, don't smash until it's a girl you can trust.
Honestly, losing your virginity is only a big deal until you lose it, and then you realize it meant nothing.
It's not like you gain something special from getting vagina.... it's basically just jerking off with a vagina. (not to say it doesn't feel at least twice as good, and sex is definitely more enjoyable.)
I'd say if you are attracted to the girl, just go for it.
It sounds like this girl might be known for being easy, so I'd wear a condom.
Plus, you probably don't know how to control your orgasm yet, and you don't want a baby in hs, so I would recommend doing the pull out method.
Just remember, it's not a big deal. There's not really a point in saving it, but if you aren't terrible with girls, you might want to at least have the girl be someone you know a bit, rather then some random if your virginity important to you.
On that not, I wouldn't wait till you find your "soul-mate" either. If you do that, you'll be like this guy I know, who has dated several girls, and he's only gotten dome a few times in his life at the age of 26.
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10-14-2014, 10:31 PM #27
No regrets here.
Time went by and i fuked more sloots.
Now get this, i just banged the girl i lost my virginity to this morning after a few years or not talkin lmao. She said all the other dudes she's had are boring in bed so OP if you do it bang like a pornstar srs.
The worst that can happen is she wont be into the roughness and just ask u to take it easy but if she loves it then she will tell her friends and more sloots will want to bang you.Occasional troll.
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10-14-2014, 10:34 PM #29Striving for aesthetics. Failure is NOT an option. It is only a matter of time.
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-get called ripped or muscular regularly
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