I'm 18 and just found out my gf is pregnant... what the fuk brahs i've never had this feeling in my life that i have right now, i don't even know what to call it..
i have to decide between becoming a murderer or a parent....
brahs wtf do i do.
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01-02-2014, 09:55 PM #1
in the next few weeks i have to make the biggest decision of my life
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01-02-2014, 09:59 PM #7
If you're questioning it, I'd abort. This will be 18 years of work and any goals/dreams will become much harder to achieve.
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01-02-2014, 10:00 PM #10
thatd be sad if people went to Hell for getting abortions (hope not...but ya never know)...
i think id probably abort unless i went full beta emo oneitis mode & decided the time to propagate my progeny is now or never wif duh luh uh muh laihfu
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01-02-2014, 10:00 PM #11
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I had my son at 19.. At the time I was just like everyone on here.. Thinking of roller coasters.. Stairs.. Clothes hangers(not srs) but now I'm a single father and have full custody! It's hard, you miss out on a lot of stuff.. You're at the age where it's suppose to be fun, but your generation is screwed up anyways! So it might be safer for you staying in raising a kid! I will tell you, you'll mature faster then anyone your age. Tough decision kid.. But I'm glad I didn't make that decision!
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01-02-2014, 10:01 PM #12
Man up
I did. It was the greatest decision of my life, srs
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01-02-2014, 10:03 PM #16
I say abort. My brother had a kid at 20 and his life is destroyed basically. All goals/hopes/dreams will grow exponentially in terms of difficulty and prepare for your relationship to be completely different brah. Nothing will be the same. As a bystander it sucks seeing people suffer raising kids they weren't prepared for
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01-02-2014, 10:04 PM #18
You are too fuking young bro
Abort/adopt.
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01-02-2014, 10:07 PM #21
i'm willing to man up and do it, and our parents are definitely financially stable enough to take care of it til we graduate college..
my biggest problem is her situation.. at her senior prom she'll have a fukking baby stomach.. and she'll have to give birth in the middle of her freshman year of college.
and also she's going to college on a soccer scholarship and that'll be ruined..Last edited by somfking; 01-02-2014 at 10:15 PM.
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01-02-2014, 10:12 PM #27
Definitely abort. You're far too young and like many said, it will **** your life up. Sure you'll feel bad about the baby at first and wonder what could've been, etc. but all that is temporary. A child is not. Not only will the child grow up in a difficult environment (young parents most likely are going to be far more reckless around the child).
It's a sad situation OP, but it's also a healthy dose of reality.
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01-02-2014, 10:13 PM #28
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01-02-2014, 10:13 PM #30
well, if your family can handle the kid financially. and you really really love your girl (which I sort of doubt). i'd say keep the kid. personally, i was the main "guardian" of my younger siblings since their births, and can vouch for how awesome it is, growing up with them, playing with them, teaching them, taking care of them etc. they really make you happy.
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