We've been dating 3 months (known each other for 5). He's on the east coast in Canada, and I'm on the west coast. I wished him over the phone obviously.
I wanted to get him this outfit I had planned in my head from Nordstrom but ended up not because I wanted to be discrete about it and asking him his exact size and address wouldn't be so discrete, lol. Also, if the stuff doesn't fit, he can't exchange it easily in Canada...so it would be a waste since I'd actually want to see him in the clothes.
I was thinking the next time he is over here I could get him it/have him try it on beforehand or something if the female misc. decides I should have gotten him something.
Anyway, mine is in 2 months..and I honestly am not expecting anything for mine from him. I just don't want him to feel not loved.
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06-07-2012, 09:13 PM #1
LDR boyfriend's birthday is today. Didn't get him a gift.
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06-07-2012, 09:15 PM #2
Do guys even care?
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06-07-2012, 09:17 PM #3S1NN3R G0N3 G00D
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nope
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Its not important what they say behind my back, what is Important is whether they stop talking and look down when I turn around.
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06-07-2012, 09:23 PM #4
no they dont srs
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06-07-2012, 09:28 PM #5
Well, that was pointless.
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06-07-2012, 09:50 PM #6O_o \m/
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Just one of 23,543 downsides to having a long distance relationship.
Sept of Baelor was an inside job. Wildfire can't melt stone masonry.
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06-07-2012, 09:58 PM #7feelsbadman .. but I'm on a LDR myself and my gf's birthday is saturday and I wished her happy birthday today. (She lives in a different Country so there is 6 hrs time difference) Now she is upset because I forgot the day of her birthday. I feel like a Piece of Chit right nowOriginally Posted by Keltron
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06-07-2012, 10:02 PM #8Yeahhh, I know. I've heard just about everything about LDRs, but we're pretty content and willing so far.Originally Posted by Keltron
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06-07-2012, 10:04 PM #9O_o \m/
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Originally Posted by PotatosGonPotat
feelsbadman .. but I'm on a LDR myself and my gf's birthday is saturday and I wished her happy birthday today. (She lives in a different Country so there is 6 hrs time difference) Now she is upset because I forgot the day of her birthday. I feel like a Piece of Chit right nowSo I have a question for both of you.. how often do you see your respective significant others?Originally Posted by SultanaK
Sept of Baelor was an inside job. Wildfire can't melt stone masonry.
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06-07-2012, 10:06 PM #10I've seen him 3 times in person total and at least once or twice/week on Skype. Not your most conventional type of relationship, I know.Originally Posted by Keltron
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06-07-2012, 10:12 PM #11O_o \m/
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And is there a future date where you two will actually be living near each other? Btw, is this an arranged engagement of some sort?Originally Posted by SultanaK
Sept of Baelor was an inside job. Wildfire can't melt stone masonry.
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06-07-2012, 10:13 PM #12
I met her 1.5 yrs ago. Still going strong. We've seen each other only 3 times this whole time and I'm about to see her in a month for a few months. We have talked everyday though.
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06-07-2012, 10:16 PM #13Most likely not unless I get accepted into a dental school on the east coast. It's not an arranged engagement, per say, but more of dating with the possibility/intent of marriage on both our sides. Why did I branch out of my local area? Because there next to zero guys who meet my family's requirements AND mine so I looked into a bigger pool.Originally Posted by Keltron
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06-07-2012, 10:21 PM #14Are you Turkish?Originally Posted by SultanaK
Kinda assumed so from your username lol
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06-07-2012, 10:24 PM #15I am not - I'm Indian.Originally Posted by PotatosGonPotat
Are you?
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06-07-2012, 10:31 PM #16nopeOriginally Posted by SultanaK
In my case, we both met randomly by mutual friends and hit the spark and both agreed to commit to a long distance even though we both asked every question in the book about how in the world it's going to work.Originally Posted by Keltron
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06-07-2012, 10:40 PM #17Registered User
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I think it's a personal thing really! I can't imagine it would bother him much not having received anything given your circumstances.
I probably would have sent something though. I sent my now husband a birthday present before we had even met in person.
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06-07-2012, 10:47 PM #18Sigh. See I really did want to get him something, and your post isn't helping lol.Originally Posted by Lunu
Would it be really weird if I got him a late birthday present on his next visit?
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06-07-2012, 10:51 PM #19Honestly don't worry about it. You guys have only been dating for 3 months. Srsly no guy expects a girl to buy him a birthday present after 3 months of dating especially if it's long distance. Just buy him something and give it to him when you see him if it worries you that muchOriginally Posted by SultanaK
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06-07-2012, 10:54 PM #20Registered User
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I think that would be fineOriginally Posted by SultanaK
Don't stress about it!
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06-07-2012, 10:55 PM #21Sounds like a plan! I think I'll do that now.Originally Posted by PotatosGonPotat
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06-07-2012, 10:57 PM #22Turning Betas into Gammas
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If I had long distance relationship I would just want a quick flash on skype and call it good.
Most guys aren't worried about presents.
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