New Gay Thread - Part 5

[MiamiSpartan]

Trip goes to BeliZe and Cozumel......

[bhujerban]

(All of you going on these trips - quite jealous.)

This.
Someone, take me with you. I'll go in the suitcase and you can carry me on board. Then when we port, you can let me out and tell me all about the cruise.

[bhujerban]

Let me know if you guys need something.

Reps would be nice.

[LoL Rick]

Let me know if you guys need something.

20 lbs of lean muscle by 2/1. Is that too much to ask for?

[Mooseman5000]

hurray

[DrRugby]

Penis!

[LoL Rick]

Balls

[TrueBLOOD1]

Trip goes to BeliZe and Cozumel......

Have you been to Belize before?

[TheLetterD]

Ass x10! STOP!!! Now make that mother****er hammertime!

[MiamiSpartan]

Have you been to Belize before?

yes. Two years back on another cruise...we took a trip into the jungles to see some ruins....enjoyed it, but doubt we will get off the ship this time around...

[julesmate]

Any tips on hitting on a cute guy (not sure if str8 or not) at my gym?
Atm have only given him alot of stares and he sometimes stares back (in a good way, like he enjoys my stares).
Should i change my gym?

[LoL Rick]

yes. Two years back on another cruise...we took a trip into the jungles to see some ruins....enjoyed it, but doubt we will get off the ship this time around...

This is the thing to do in Belize. We had a blast.

http://www.cave-tubing.com/belize-ca...r-details.html

[TrueBLOOD1]

yes. Two years back on another cruise...we took a trip into the jungles to see some ruins....enjoyed it, but doubt we will get off the ship this time around...

Yeah Belize was not at all what I thought it was going to be lol

Any tips on hitting on a cute guy (not sure if str8 or not) at my gym?
Atm have only given him alot of stares and he sometimes stares back (in a good way, like he enjoys my stares).
Should i give up on thinking about him? Should i change my gym?

I would start by talking to him and finding out more about him. Ask him if he even lifts.... LOL j/k. Start off with saying "How's it going?" the next time you pass by him.

[julesmate]

I would start by talking to him and finding out more about him. Ask him if he even lifts.... LOL j/k. Start off with saying "How's it going?" the next time you pass by him.

Thanks trueblood. I guess im just fearing the fallout of rejection, and having to still see him all the time at the gym.
But i will work on trying to say hello

[GoldustRpdMyDad]

lolz

[Misti]

Any tips on hitting on a cute guy (not sure if str8 or not) at my gym?
Atm have only given him alot of stares and he sometimes stares back (in a good way, like he enjoys my stares).
Should i change my gym?

Learn these 3 words "Spot me Bro."

[LoL Rick]

Thanks trueblood. I guess im just fearing the fallout of rejection, and having to still see him all the time at the gym.
But i will work on trying to say hello

Maybe tone down the wardrobe the day you're going to talk to him. Could be that he's gay but afraid to be outed simply by talking to you.

[Misti]

Maybe tone down the wardrobe the day you're going to talk to him. Could be that he's gay but afraid to be outed simply by talking to you.

Are we assuming a little too much that the boys training with a feather boa?

[julesmate]

Learn these 3 words "Spot me Bro."

yeh problem is i always train with my mate, maybe i need to ditch him, become more approachable myself.
or maybe,

"cum at me bro". hehe.
but that might be abit too forward.

[seeforyourself]

Any tips on hitting on a cute guy (not sure if str8 or not) at my gym?
Atm have only given him alot of stares and he sometimes stares back (in a good way, like he enjoys my stares).
Should i change my gym?

I personally HATE when people give me looks at my gym. I get them a few times but I always ignore them. I'm here to work out, not flirt.

But if he's enjoying your presence then I guess Its alright to make a move? But If he's straight he will most likely get creeped out and probably want to fight you. Then it would be mad awkward to go back to the gym and run into him.

I am good at hiding my sexuality at the gym. I see lots of hot guys shirtless in the saunas and I ALWAYS make 0 eye contact. When I walk in I see whose in there and i sit down and relax and act like they are invisible. I encourage you to do the same. This world isn't very gay-friendly.


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So long post short; don't use the gym to pick up guys. Only work out and let others do the same without eye contact.

[broad.stance]

Thanks trueblood. I guess im just fearing the fallout of rejection, and having to still see him all the time at the gym.
But i will work on trying to say hello

It helps to know the difference between rejection and simply being turned down.

You're not extending much of yourself by saying hello, and it doesn't serve you to hinge so much emotion on his reaction to a basic introduction. Since you don't know one another, the only thing you can realistically expect is a civil exchange with this other guy. In that moment he will show a comfort in talking with you or not, and from there you move forward or move on. Relax and take it one step at a time. This shouldn't be a big deal.

[atticus_a]

20 lbs of lean muscle by 2/1. Is that too much to ask for?

Depends how many steroids you planning on doing?

Thanks trueblood. I guess im just fearing the fallout of rejection, and having to still see him all the time at the gym.
But i will work on trying to say hello

Seriously, I am not a big fan of hitting on people in the gym environment. I would just be pleasant if you happen to interact.

On another note, does anyone know what CT is like as a state.

[LoL Rick]

On another note, does anyone know what CT is like as a state.

Horrible. I lived there from 10/01 to 5/02. Couldn't get out fast enough.

[bhujerban]

I personally HATE when people give me looks at my gym. I get them a few times but I always ignore them. I'm here to work out, not flirt.

Oh, come on, this is gay church! Beats meeting guys at the bar and you don't have to buy the bro a drink.

Am I doing it wrong?

[Misti]

I personally HATE when people give me looks at my gym. I get them a few times but I always ignore them. I'm here to work out, not flirt.

But if he's enjoying your presence then I guess Its alright to make a move? But If he's straight he will most likely get creeped out and probably want to fight you. Then it would be mad awkward to go back to the gym and run into him.

I am good at hiding my sexuality at the gym. I see lots of hot guys shirtless in the saunas and I ALWAYS make 0 eye contact. When I walk in I see whose in there and i sit down and relax and act like they are invisible. I encourage you to do the same. This world isn't very gay-friendly.


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So long post short; don't use the gym to pick up guys. Only work out and let others do the same without eye contact.

Man that is a sad inditement on your part of the world.

Though I agree that the gyms for training and not for pulling, there`s been a few exchanges I`ve had where a guys come up to me and hit it off and its been some of the most exciting occassions in my life. However most of these are based on a relatively solid base of gym buddies who I assumed straight untill they proved otherwise. This was all fine for them as - though Im no flamer I am no where neer hiding my sexuality. I and ipso facto the people I know at the gym are very comfortable with gay people, some even are cool for checking out guys with cause I`d ask and they`d cut out alot of the "is he or isnt he" **** for me by simply asking them, or occassionally on a night out tag teaming rocky couples so Id get the bf and theyd get the gf. It can work out fine. In my hometown gym though If there was a problem then the community there just brushed them off. That extended to outside the gym too as most of these guys were either very social or bouncers for most of the area. Nowt like que jumping cause a bouncers ya mate.

Im in a new gym now so I dont have that base established yet but back in my hometown gym it was an awesome enviroment. If anyone asks me though I will put them straight; I aint straight (useually its a female gym member asking after me that opens up that can of worms).

In summary, go to the gym to train, not pull. Dont be shy of being yourself but the gay bit is not the be all and end all of who you are and judge delicately how your own enviroment accepts you because it aint stupid to be aware of such things (NEVER let this make you feel like its your problem and not thiers). Build a solid base of mates and gym buddies too train with, then maybe the rest of it may come - in the gym hook-ups are an added bonus not a reason for going. BUT - If it comes to you - enjoy.

[MenStraight]

I like checking out guys that I find hot but mostly as visual candy as I do my workout. I think it's very hot when you make a connection with someone you think is hot plus they are half naked already so you know what your getting . Conversations are easy at the gym due to the fact you have something in common as an icebreaker. Go for it!

[caesar2]

Its hard enough to focus on my routine.... let alone scout my surroundings.... nice to be looked at... i take it as a positive... but dont have time and not there seeking others.... but good luck with that!!

[wouldlikemuscle]

I personally HATE when people give me looks at my gym. I get them a few times but I always ignore them. I'm here to work out, not flirt.

But if he's enjoying your presence then I guess Its alright to make a move? But If he's straight he will most likely get creeped out and probably want to fight you. Then it would be mad awkward to go back to the gym and run into him.

I am good at hiding my sexuality at the gym. I see lots of hot guys shirtless in the saunas and I ALWAYS make 0 eye contact. When I walk in I see whose in there and i sit down and relax and act like they are invisible. I encourage you to do the same. This world isn't very gay-friendly.


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So long post short; don't use the gym to pick up guys. Only work out and let others do the same without eye contact.

There was a thing on the news (UK) recently - *** Breakfast I think - that the gym is actually quite a good pick up joint whether male/female! Sexuality wasn't commented on.

edit: seriously... the acronym for British Broadcasting Corporation is censored!?!?! C'mon bb.com - it doesn't always mean Big Black Cock :/
edit2: And cock isn't censored.. go figure!

[Misti]

there was a thing on the news (uk) recently - *** breakfast i think - that the gym is actually quite a good pick up joint whether male/female! Sexuality wasn't commented on.

Edit: Seriously... The acronym for british broadcasting corporation is censored!?!?! C'mon bb.com - it doesn't always mean big black cock :/
edit2: And cock isn't censored.. Go figure!

rofl.

[broad.stance]

There was a thing on the news (UK) recently - *** Breakfast I think - that the gym is actually quite a good pick up joint whether male/female! Sexuality wasn't commented on.

edit: seriously... the acronym for ******* ************ *********** is censored!?!?! C'mon bb.com - it doesn't always mean *** ***** **** :/
edit2: And cock isn't censored.. go figure!

Overuse of the acronym/initialism by individuals in the misc. as a means to disrupt threads or cause mayhem whenever the name or image of a black bodybuilder or athlete was posted. It became too much for the moderators so it was censored and they began banning people for its use, as well as any references to it. There was an entire post about it in the misc. rules sticky (http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...hp?t=132480213), but it has been subsequently reduced to a line in Post #4.

Quoting bannable offenses can also get one banned, so I went ahead censored references and whatnot from your quoted post.

But you; a mod is going to read what you wrote and hit you with the ban hammer.