Female Misc have you ever dated a chubby/fat man

[cubsfan3030]

Ive lost 55lbs since january and still going strong, starting to see more women look my way, but still too beta to approach women who I believe are still outta my league. Have any of you female misc members ever dated a large guy? Advice on approaching these women?

[latebloomingmom]

Ive lost 55lbs since january and still going strong, starting to see more women look my way, but still too beta to approach women who I believe are still outta my league. Have any of you female misc members ever dated a large guy? Advice on approaching these women?

is this your current weight/height? I take it you are not a strongman/powerlifter..(NO AVI) so I am guessing..
when it comes to dating a heavier person..it helps if she can get to know your personality too..
meaning I do not suggest walking right up to strangers but of course this is up to you.
Just prepare yourself...not all will say yes but some might

[cubsfan3030]

is this your current weight/height? I take it you are not a strongman/powerlifter..(NO AVI) so I am guessing..
when it comes to dating a heavier person..it helps if she can get to know your personality too..
meaning I do not suggest walking right up to strangers but of course this is up to you.
Just prepare yourself...not all will say yes but some might

Yes current weight/height might be a few lbs lighter but i started at 360.
Thanks for advice will use.

[latebloomingmom]

Yes current weight/height might be a few lbs lighter but i started at 360.
Thanks for advice will use.

congratulations on your weight loss!

[cubsfan3030]

congratulations on your weight loss!

thanks I've always carried my weight well, when people guess how much i weigh its usually wayyyyy under what i really am.

[charlieafp]

Yes current weight/height might be a few lbs lighter but i started at 360.
Thanks for advice will use.

Sorry to break it to you bud, but girls aren't looking your way yet. You're 6'1 304. You still have a LONG WAYS to go.

Don't let that get you down though. I'm tryna lose as well. But be realistic... forreal. You're still a fat @ss, as am I.

thanks I've always carried my weight well, when people guess how much i weigh its usually wayyyyy under what i really am.

They are just being nice. You're pathetically naive.

[cubsfan3030]

Sorry to break it to you bud, but girls aren't looking your way yet. You're 6'1 304. You still have a LONG WAYS to go.

Don't let that get you down though. I'm tryna lose as well. But be realistic... forreal. You're still a fat @ss, as am I.



They are just being nice. You're pathetically naive.

go fuk yourself *******.

[MelnCrash]

I have no problem dating a bigger guy. I go for personality over looks mostly though. Id rather have an intelligent conversation that have something pretty to look at.

As long its not a lazy fat guy - the ones that struggle to walk down the street without getting puffed, complaining that they are sick all the time, waking me up at 1am claiming they are having a heart attack when it was actually just heart burn from the massive take out meal they just ate. Yeah i dated one and it was not fun :/

[mrshester]

I married a chubby man, he was chubby when we met, chubbier when we married, and is the chubbiest he's ever been now. But I don't mind it, he's a helluva man. I wasn't chubby when we met, but I am also pretty chubby myself right now I have always dated men that were more on the chubby side. The one guy I did date who was lean just seemed too little to me, lol. Some of us just prefer guys to be more of a teddy bear than a bean pole, so hang in there and keep doing what you're doing! It may take a while, but those gals that are noticing you now will keep watching you, and that can be a good thing And make sure you give the gals "in transition" just as much consideration that you want now...who knows what hotties lie beneath the the insulation

[pUniCepts]

I'm not a female but... one of my bros is like 6'0 250, and let's just say... it's not all muscle. Has an awesome personality and sense of humor though. No problems with the ladies.

I agree with latebloomingmom.

Congrats on the weight loss. Keep it up.

[latebloomingmom]

I'm not a female but... one of my bros is like 6'0 250, and let's just say... it's not all muscle. Has an awesome personality and sense of humor though. No problems with the ladies.

I agree with latebloomingmom.

Congrats on the weight loss. Keep it up.

you're a lot shorter then I recall..are you regressing again?

[pUniCepts]

you're a lot shorter then I recall..are you regressing again?

shhhh those are my e-stats

[cubsfan3030]

I married a chubby man, he was chubby when we met, chubbier when we married, and is the chubbiest he's ever been now. But I don't mind it, he's a helluva man. I wasn't chubby when we met, but I am also pretty chubby myself right now I have always dated men that were more on the chubby side. The one guy I did date who was lean just seemed too little to me, lol. Some of us just prefer guys to be more of a teddy bear than a bean pole, so hang in there and keep doing what you're doing! It may take a while, but those gals that are noticing you now will keep watching you, and that can be a good thing And make sure you give the gals "in transition" just as much consideration that you want now...who knows what hotties lie beneath the the insulation

I've always gone for curvy/chubby girls over stick thin girls. I like a girl with curves and some meat on her bones.

[Madi-J]

I've never dated a skinny guy, even when I was really skinny. 90% of the guys that I've been attracted to have had some padding and been decently muscular underneath of it. I like the safety and the softness, makes for better cuddling!

[tacdgb]

I've always dated guys a few pounds more than me. Dennis is about 40 lbs over weight and working on it. It's all about taking care of ones self and the personality.

[ClassickQC]

I've never dated a skinny guy, even when I was really skinny. 90% of the guys that I've been attracted to have had some padding and been decently muscular underneath of it. I like the safety and the softness, makes for better cuddling!

Same here

OP, good job on the weight loss!!

[Fozzy13]

What about guys that are "fat" and have issues with loose/saggy skin in the stomach and chest with fat mixed in?

[SteezyChr]

Why dont you just lift for yourself, meet your goals and if that happens to fall into what another person finds attractive than it does.

Stupid question Op, but i'll answer it.

Some women like fat guys, some like something in between, some like 6% bf.

To moron above me, loose and saggy skin is unattractive on anyone, **** if my dog had saggy skin it would be unattractive on him.

[pUniCepts]

To moron above me, loose and saggy skin is unattractive on anyone, **** if my dog had saggy skin it would be unattractive on him.

[SteezyChr]

i dont like pugs, but if you're into guys who look like this then to each his own. I happen to not be into girls who are into guys who look like this, those girls wouldnt be attracted to me anyways.

[pUniCepts]

i dont like pugs.
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ok

I agree that saggy skin on a human is not the most attractive.

Edit: read your edit... I'm not in to any guys.

[Fozzy13]

i dont like pugs, but if you're into guys who look like this then to each his own. I happen to not be into girls who are into guys who look like this, those girls wouldnt be attracted to me anyways.

so ur into the stereotypical superficial girl.....which makes you the stereotypical douche.

Obviously, loose skin isnt attractive and someone that actually is attracted to it is kinda weird.

But theres a dif between being attracted to and not caring about.


negged.

[SteezyChr]

so ur into the stereotypical superficial girl.....which makes you the stereotypical douche.

Obviously, loose skin isnt attractive and someone that actually is attracted to it is kinda weird.

But theres a dif between being attracted to and not caring about.


negged.

LOL @ foreveralone crew in your sig and you think you have the right to tell me about people. HA!

Your credibility on this topic: Nil

[SteezyChr]

LOL @ foreveralone crew in your sig and you think you have the right to tell me about people. HA!

Your credibility on this topic: Nil

Still no reply from ****git with 15k rep power, surely you must be smarter than me since you acquired such a high rep power. Please enlighten me!!!

Come on man lay some knowledge on me. I know studies have shown that male and female pair with partners who are within 1 point of their looks so 7/10 most likely going to end up with someone else 6-8/10. So if ops a 4, i highly doubt he is going to be banging these 8's that are out of his league no matter how good his personality is.(source: Science of Sex Appeal)

I want to hear from your knowledge base about people, i mean you are foreveralone crew so you must know soooooo much about people. Im sure you must have a ton of personal experience in dealing with the opposite sex, so lets hear some of this abundant knowledge you seem to believe you posses.

[pUniCepts]

Still no reply from ****git with 15k rep power, surely you must be smarter than me since you acquired such a high rep power. Please enlighten me!!!

Come on man lay some knowledge on me. I know studies have shown that male and female pair with partners who are within 1 point of their looks so 7/10 most likely going to end up with someone else 6-8/10. So if ops a 4, i highly doubt he is going to be banging these 8's that are out of his league no matter how good his personality is.(source: Science of Sex Appeal)

I want to hear from your knowledge base about people, i mean you are foreveralone crew so you must know soooooo much about people. Im sure you must have a ton of personal experience in dealing with the opposite sex, so lets hear some of this abundant knowledge you seem to believe you posses.

I only read your first sentence, but judging by that and the length of your post, I conclude that you are most likely mad.

[sonti]

Well, don't ever plan on becoming a father unless you decide to dump her as soon as the baby comes out. Most of us mothers have some loose skin, how can you carry a watermelon inside without doing damage? Some girls are lucky, most are not. And don't age either.

[SteezyChr]

I only read your first sentence, but judging by that and the length of your post, I conclude that you are most likely mad.

mad? No not in the slightest, im still pretty happy after exceeding expectations on my recent exams and presentations.

But if someone is going to tell me I am wrong, well show me the facts and i will gladly admit to being wrong and change that view. However i would just like the person who is telling me i am wrong to back up what they are saying, i see no evidence that would suggest this kid with 15k rep power was right.

edit: Oh and just so you know, it takes nothing for me to write out these posts. I have to write papers all the time, plus i dont care about grammer on here so i am able to type this up in no time.

[RebeccaG]

Well, don't ever plan on becoming a father unless you decide to dump her as soon as the baby comes out. Most of us mothers have some loose skin, how can you carry a watermelon inside without doing damage? Some girls are lucky, most are not. And don't age either.

This.

mad? No not in the slightest, im still pretty happy after exceeding expectations on my recent exams and presentations.

But if someone is going to tell me I am wrong, well show me the facts and i will gladly admit to being wrong and change that view. However i would just like the person who is telling me i am wrong to back up what they are saying, i see no evidence that would suggest this kid with 15k rep power was right.

Fozzy didn't say you were wrong.

He said you were stereotypical and superficial but he never said you were wrong.



To the OP

Just be yourself. Some girls will go for it, some won't. That goes for any size, really.

[pUniCepts]

mad? No not in the slightest, im still pretty happy after exceeding expectations on my recent exams and presentations.

But if someone is going to tell me I am wrong, well show me the facts and i will gladly admit to being wrong and change that view. However i would just like the person who is telling me i am wrong to back up what they are saying, i see no evidence that would suggest this kid with 15k rep power was right.

edit: Oh and just so you know, it takes nothing for me to write out these posts. I have to write papers all the time, plus i dont care about grammer on here so i am able to type this up in no time.

Congrats on your exams and presentations, and whatever you wrote after that.

Edit: lol @ you deleting your 5 paragraph reply to Rebecca.

[RebeccaG]

edit: Oh and just so you know, it takes nothing for me to write out these posts. I have to write papers all the time, plus i dont care about grammer on here so i am able to type this up in no time.

Touche, good sir.

Touche.