How to respond to this text "Not Friendzoned, but '2nd choice'"

[otakutrevan]

lol op you have already lost. good game though. she doesnt value you as much as the other guy. congrats on being an orbiter

[kaiserdrei]

You still want to get with her after she just said you are second best? LOLOLOL
Cut contact, find a different chick.

Is this not the definition of beta? Do you love this chick or something op? Is she a 10/10? What am I missing?

[kickblake]

Lol bro, I'm not wanting to cut it with this girl.
As I said earlier, I didn't expect to be her #1, we have not hung out yet - why would I be her #1?

Any serious responses other than the cookie-cutter answers?

Obviously you don't want to cut contact, but you should. Because if you stick around after she's flat out told you that you're a backup, you're communictating to her that you're totally fine with her chitting on your for as long as she feels like it.

This is below beta behavior, you've just hit omega.

[becomegreen]

Hey bro,

She's with me now. Awesome job on being her second choice. When I'm done doing whatever I want to her I'll let her go and maybe you can be her first choice then. Be patient brah.

-Jamal

[turboface]

lmao op

what are you even doing

[Tsudo]

OP, serious question:

What is the draw with this woman that you're apparently not even really serious about? Why THIS one girl? Because she placed you second on the list? The **** is so special about her that you'd waste even one more second of your non-precious time trying to get a single date from this girl.

It's been said already, but you really shouldn't devote anymore of your time to this girl. It sounds like you're more interested in "winning" -- but, at the cost of what? Your respect and self of steam are probably already lessened in her eyes because she can tell you you're not a priority but you'll still stick around.

But, again: What's so special about this one vagina?

[otakutrevan]

@ this op

[madsmith]

this is a new level of beta I have been introduced to.

[Mn8]

Respond with something witty that blows her off until later = she continues thinking about me.

She isn't thinking about you and hasn't been.
Is this real life?
Mad props on not being red yet

/facepalm

[Vake7000]

"If your next text is not 'can I give you a blowie?', I have no more reason to speak to you then"

[MaximosJ]

OP, I hope you're trolling. Otherwise, wow...

But hey, if you're okay with being her #2, then guess what: you'll be her #2.

[CagedLion012]

#doormat

[herzliya]

you dont respond LOL idiot

second choice? lolol

[magx]

Dude, right at giving her a "due date" you gave away just how much this girl owns you. You can try and pass that off as being cheeky or w/e but for sure she took it as you being a beta orbiter.

[Inspiration01]

Its been two years so I'm guessing OP was not successful otherwise would have been back to tell everyone they were wrong.

[brehbrah]

Didn't read link or thread but tell her that she isn't your first choice either.

Duh.

[bvh90211]

Hey bro,

She's with me now. Awesome job on being her second choice. When I'm done doing whatever I want to her I'll let her go and maybe you can be her first choice then. Be patient brah.

-Jamal

This made me laugh because its so true with young girls these days.

[EddieKasady]

Because it is bad advice (srs).

[TreFo]

u don't ever want to be "Option #2" or my the side bf


offer her to be ur fukbuddy or ditch her

[sbmflex]

sloppy seconds 4 life crew

[MaximosJ]

Its been two years so I'm guessing OP was not successful otherwise would have been back to tell everyone they were wrong.

Fuark. Strong annoying bump by Taveren

[Rebel11]

what the hell is this **** i'm reading, OP?

This bish flat out tells you you're "second choice" and you STILL consider pursuing a relationship with her?

Hell almighty, man... Don't humiliate yourself any further. you have ALREADY assumed a submissive role towards her by accepting what she said, don't keep doing it. Not to mention how much of a sloot she is to be chatting with 2 dudes at the same time.

Is her pussy made of gold, or something?


DITCH THE BITCH.


EDIT: ****, posting in a zombie thread.

[Innerself]

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...hp?t=140980451
Basically, my relationship with this girl is :


3 days ago I said something and questioned her feelings for me.
2 days ago she sends me:
"Okay heres the way it is: your not necessarily "friend zoned" but anyway i put it your my second choice, the other guy is first"
Yesterday she sends me: "So you never answered me yesterday..."
I still haven't answered her. lol

I didn't really expect to be her #1 choice, as we still have not hung out (I'm not back at school yet), but I have no idea how to reply/act to this text.

She called you "second choice", thats a fact that she see you beta. Delete her number ASAP if you have dignity, you are wasting your time.

[YoBroseidon]

Lol @ this getting bumped, and then negged for.

PS: Just broke it off with her this last semester, we were in a pretty solid relationship for 1.5 years. She ended up begging for me back.

Thanks misc.

[Cadet4life]

LOL havent even gone out on a date ans asking how she feels about him. strong op strong...

[bzman]

lol so beta, its like your trying to negioate a business deal.

Just say if im your second choice then it wasnt meant to be anyways, peace out bitch.

If she comes back to you then your in the position of power, if not then as i said wasnt meant to be, onto the next girl

[quickcomment]

Ring or no ring
A hoe gone be a hoe
While you sleepin
She be creppin out the back door

[jram2323]

[IMG]http://www.troll.me/images/ronald-mcdonald-call/hello-*******-police-the-op-is-loose-again.jpg[/img]

[invrlose123]

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...hp?t=140980451
Basically, my relationship with this girl is :


3 days ago I said something and questioned her feelings for me.
2 days ago she sends me:
"Okay heres the way it is: your not necessarily "friend zoned" but anyway i put it your my second choice, the other guy is first"
Yesterday she sends me: "So you never answered me yesterday..."
I still haven't answered her. lol

I didn't really expect to be her #1 choice, as we still have not hung out (I'm not back at school yet), but I have no idea how to reply/act to this text.

The fuk is with this convoluted beta chit? Setting a due date? Asking a girls feelings of you and you've never been on a date?

Smh

[sickserratus]

if this works out you guys will have an awesome story to tell at your wedding.

"and then she told me that i was her second choice......and i knew she was the one"

lmfao. ****ing pathetic isn't it