Ex-Girlfriend adds me on ********, anxiety ensues

**MosDefinitely** · 03-01-2011, 08:17 AM

Originally Posted by cphustla

wow op yoiu are really a fhaggot bitch.. negged srs. i would have never even sent a message or accepted the request.. you truly are a bitch she just told you off like you still take it in the ass from her fhaggot.

Y u indignant tho?

Originally Posted by Ephedra

Why make a thread if you're just going to ignore all the great advice?

I had ignored her shiit for 2 weeks, then caved and messaged her asking what she wanted.

**Definitelynotme** · 03-01-2011, 08:25 AM

Hey brosef,

Honestly it sounds like you're not completely over her, and that's fair enough.

I would just ignore her, though. It's probably for the best.

**Daffle** · 03-01-2011, 08:27 AM

lol @ ******* OP
I had the same problem with my ex. She had been poking me on ******** forever and she sent me a request that I ignored and just left it there, she sent me a message saying to accept her, I did and then we talked on IM for a bit. She told me im an awesome guy and **** and after she logged off I deleted her . That bitch did me wrong too and had me on an anxiety atack 24/7 and treated me like **** too. I deleted her because I want nothing to do with people like that and I found someone else better already

u mad ******* op
youre the first on my negged for life list

**bdub69** · 03-01-2011, 08:29 AM

you should have just ignored it and not sent her any messages

**MosDefinitely** · 03-01-2011, 08:32 AM

Originally Posted by Daffle

lol @ ******* OP
I had the same problem with my ex. She had been poking me on ******** forever and she sent me a request that I ignored and just left it there, she sent me a message saying to accept her, I did and then we talked on IM for a bit. She told me im an awesome guy and **** and after she logged off I deleted her . That bitch did me wrong too and had me on an anxiety atack 24/7 and treated me like **** too. I deleted her because I want nothing to do with people like that and I found someone else better already

u mad ******* op
youre the first on my negged for life list

Awaiting negs on spread brah.

Originally Posted by bdub69

you should have just ignored it and not sent her any messages

Oh well.

**bdub69** · 03-01-2011, 08:34 AM

Originally Posted by MosDefinitely

Awaiting negs on recharge brah.

Oh well.

just cut your losses and delete the bish off fb.

**Soup Nazi** · 03-01-2011, 08:43 AM

Originally Posted by ferocity.

Brah, let the games begin.
Its your turn to **** her over.
Start talking to her again, but just treat her as you'd treat a dog.
Override your beta 16 yr old days with a 19 y.o alpha mindset.

A good thing to do would be to go out with regular mates you normally go out with, but bring her out too. (only do this if you can pick up @ clubs and smash). Then go in with her, catch some vibes from other birds, and then 'just get it'. Get as much as you can, get hoes grinding on you, pashing ya, ect, right next to her. She'll get jelly no matter what.

srs bro, just keep it friendly, but put minimal effort in and if she ****s off, u have lost nothing

this is the dumbest thing ive read on here this week

anyways, youre clearly not over her after THREE years! you have to figure out a way to move on b/c when you do start a relationship with someone else, the fact that you are not over your ex is gonna cause issues. why did you even start talking to her when youre clearly not over her and why in the world did you sound so bitter? that was cringe worthy. stop talking to her and re-delete her b/c youre clearly not ready to be friends with her

**TheBateman** · 03-01-2011, 08:43 AM

brb using imagination because no pics

**caerus13** · 03-01-2011, 08:49 AM

You should have beat on her, she wouldn't talk so much.

**jon555** · 03-01-2011, 08:57 AM

You can take the ******* out of the beta but you can't take the beta out of the *******.

**MosDefinitely** · 03-01-2011, 09:02 AM

Originally Posted by Soup Nazi

this is the dumbest thing ive read on here this week

anyways, youre clearly not over her after THREE years! you have to figure out a way to move on b/c when you do start a relationship with someone else, the fact that you are not over your ex is gonna cause issues. why did you even start talking to her when youre clearly not over her and why in the world did you sound so bitter? that was cringe worthy. stop talking to her and re-delete her b/c youre clearly not ready to be friends with her

I didn't mean for it to sound bitter.

Now that I have all my thoughts gathered, this is how it went down in my personal interpretation:

She adds me, which is strange since I haven't seen or heard from her in 3 years. I remember the last impression I have of her, which is that she likes to go through periods where she won't talk to me until she needs me, then ignores me after she's gotten her use out of me. I remember that it's been three years, so I'm thinking "Here we go again." I ask her "What do you want." because I'm expecting her to say something to try and make me feel bad for her, she says "Nothing.." so I reply "Saw a friend request, thought you were going to pull the same **** again, glad to see you aren't." which was a genuine statement, I wasn't trying to be bitter. She interprets it that I'm bringing up when we used to date, and how she "fuked me up", when in reality I was pertaining to when she would use me for emotional support and dump me in the river once I was done.

It wasn't meant to come across as bitter and beta/reminiscent, she interpreted it like that, which is what I mean by I'm over all that bull****, it's just odd that she wants to talk to me again or what ever she wanted to do after 3 years of disregarding my existence.

**MosDefinitely** · 03-01-2011, 09:24 AM

Originally Posted by caerus13

You should have beat on her, she wouldn't talk so much.

lul.

Originally Posted by TheBateman

brb using imagination because no pics

post count:27

brb can't post pics even if I wanted to.

**b0ngman** · 03-01-2011, 09:25 AM

who cares what she thinks bro

**MosDefinitely** · 03-04-2011, 06:48 PM

UPDATE: I didn't follow MISC's advice and ignore her, but everything went better than expected.

MosDefinitely March 1 at 2:50pm
I'm keeping tabs on this jsyk. If she doesn't get that message then there will be hell to pay.

Bish March 1 at 2:50pm Report
im not scared of you

MosDefinitely March 1 at 2:51pm
5'10" 187lbs..

I will lift you up high and not put you down, seeing as I know you liked to be picked up.

Bish March 1 at 2:52pm Report
5'3" 121lbs..

i would give you a fight and oh yah i totally love it

MosDefinitely March 1 at 2:54pm
5' 3"? Let's be real here Bish, you're 4' 11".

Bish March 1 at 2:54pm Report
:O that is rude

**_Ishy** · 03-04-2011, 08:05 PM

Originally Posted by MosDefinitely

UPDATE: I didn't follow MISC's advice and ignore her, but everything went better than expected.

MosDefinitely March 1 at 2:50pm
I'm keeping tabs on this jsyk. If she doesn't get that message then there will be hell to pay.

Bish March 1 at 2:50pm Report
im not scared of you

MosDefinitely March 1 at 2:51pm
5'10" 187lbs..

I will lift you up high and not put you down, seeing as I know you liked to be picked up.

Bish March 1 at 2:52pm Report
5'3" 121lbs..

i would give you a fight and oh yah i totally love it

MosDefinitely March 1 at 2:54pm
5' 3"? Let's be real here Bish, you're 4' 11".

Bish March 1 at 2:54pm Report
:O that is rude

wut

why are you flirtng wth her?

**Sherloc** · 03-04-2011, 08:07 PM

Just tell her not to try and talk or add you again or they'll be looking for her for 3 years.

Waiting response.

**JesseV87** · 03-04-2011, 08:11 PM

It's not sad that you're trolling, it's sad that you've had to type so much stuff out in order to troll.

**WHATYEAH** · 03-04-2011, 08:12 PM

stop talking her her, go **** mad bitches

if she effects you emotions you lose. all shes looking for is validation.

Originally Posted by MosDefinitely

UPDATE: I didn't follow MISC's advice and ignore her, but everything went better than expected.

MosDefinitely March 1 at 2:50pm
I'm keeping tabs on this jsyk. If she doesn't get that message then there will be hell to pay.

Bish March 1 at 2:50pm Report
im not scared of you

MosDefinitely March 1 at 2:51pm
5'10" 187lbs..

I will lift you up high and not put you down, seeing as I know you liked to be picked up.

Bish March 1 at 2:52pm Report
5'3" 121lbs..

i would give you a fight and oh yah i totally love it

MosDefinitely March 1 at 2:54pm
5' 3"? Let's be real here Bish, you're 4' 11".

Bish March 1 at 2:54pm Report
:O that is rude

god youre a dumbass

**MetalMonarch** · 03-04-2011, 08:13 PM

fuqing idiot.

**lateralus87** · 03-04-2011, 08:13 PM

So much drama pouring out of you just from a fckin ******** friend request, but you're "over it" ... lol, right

HAHA and you just want to be friends again, stop being a little pussy and only talk to her if its to try and get sex or mess with her head

**datnikkadee** · 03-04-2011, 08:14 PM

OP obviously not over her
OP obviously wants her back
OP obviously doesn't follow Misc advice
OP obviously gonna get hurt again

OP obviously a *******

**Marzzz** · 03-04-2011, 08:16 PM

You sound like a bitch. (srs)

**RusnConcussion** · 03-04-2011, 08:16 PM

too red, did not read.

**StevenNevets** · 03-04-2011, 08:18 PM

Originally Posted by STFUandTRAIN

Add to fb
meet up "to chat about things"
PIITB
....
unfriend
...
profit.

this is exactly what I'm going to do to 2 exes and 1 other chick once I re-activate my fb

**MosDefinitely** · 03-05-2011, 02:36 AM

Originally Posted by _Ishy

wut

why are you flirtng wth her?

used to talking to her like that.

Originally Posted by lateralus87

So much drama pouring out of you just from a fckin ******** friend request, but you're "over it" ... lol, right

HAHA and you just want to be friends again, stop being a little pussy and only talk to her if its to try and get sex or mess with her head

I get anxiety attacks easily from my Bi-Polar and get emotional during those attacks, that's why I was writing all that **** like a little bitch. I concluded my actual thoughts up a bit on this page.

Originally Posted by datnikkadee

OP obviously not over her
OP obviously wants her back
OP obviously doesn't follow Misc advice
OP obviously gonna get hurt again

OP obviously a *******

I'll always have feelings for her, we went out for 2 years previous to the break up.

Originally Posted by Marzzz

You sound like a bitch. (srs)

go on..

**CerealKiller** · 03-05-2011, 03:00 AM

I remember when Joe Bellas got hit in the face by a flyball. The coach ran out to left field and said "Joe, you really have to learn to put your glove in front of your face." This thread remind me of that.

**DrStupid** · 03-05-2011, 03:59 AM

Originally Posted by MosDefinitely

I would post pics but after misc detectives fuked that one guy up with his girl I'm not going to take the risk.

I haven't spoken to the bish in like, 3 years at least, and she's trying to talk to me again (or something, I have no clue). The reason I'm getting anxiety is because back in my white knight days I used to allow her to use me for emotional support after a break up, she would be all scandalous and make me think it would work out again etc. but would then ignore me for up until she needed my support again (not to mention telling everyone I knew that I used to beat her). So I sent her this:

MosDefinitely February 28 at 3:49pm
what do you want.

In which she replied, followed by my comment and hers:
Bish March 1 at 1:53am Report
nothing..

MosDefinitely March 1 at 9:04am
Saw a friend request, wasn't sure if you were trying to pull the same **** you did before, that's good to hear.

Bish March 1 at 9:06am Report
That was like 3 years ago. Get over it. Ya I ****ed you up I get it but we were young and apparently with what your friends pulled you guys still are.
Sent via ******** Mobile

I'm tied between telling her how I actually feel and just giving a one work response, what should I do MISC?

edit: forgot to update, this was said like an hour or 2 ago
MosDefinitely March 1 at 9:58am
I am over all the dating drama, what are you talking about? The only thing that I'm mad about is the fact it's been 3 years and someone who I cared about for 2 hadn't bothered to give a shiit about my existence until apparently a week ago. About my friends, I never asked them to message you and talk shiit, that was their own decisions.

Cliffs:
-What should I say next to a P.O.S. ex-girlfriend.

BACK in your white knight days?? The sh!t I've highlighted in red tells me that either,

a. You're still a white knight *******, or
b. You're a beta male *******

I'd say you're b. Strong transformation.

**Ace Thedics** · 03-05-2011, 04:03 AM

"I want to tell her how I really feel"

You need to realize it was 3 years ago and not actually "feel" anything.

You sound like a big baby right now.

**MosDefinitely** · 03-05-2011, 04:04 AM

Originally Posted by DrStupid

BACK in your white knight days?? The sh!t I've highlighted in red tells me that either,

a. You're still a white knight *******, or
b. You're a beta male *******

I'd say you're b. Strong transformation.

Bish March 1 at 1:37pm Report
it works both ways MosDefinitely.. and your friends have sent me emails and have tried to add me saying leave you alone. one even sent a picture.

Bish March 1 at 1:38pm Report
and the main reason why i havent talked or tried is cause everytime i asked about you to diff bish she said you still hated me. so i didnt want to start **** so i didnt bother sending you a message so i left you alone.

It doesn't seem to have affected me all that much. Besides, I dated her for 2 years straight, even though she's my ex I still want to talk to her on the odd occasion.

Originally Posted by Ace Thedics

"I want to tell her how I really feel"

You need to realize it was 3 years ago and not actually "feel" anything.

You sound like a big baby right now.

You're late on the gangbang bro, I've explained that I go through anxiety attacks which make my rational thinking irrational and more emotionally driven. I don't give a fuk about her playing me out, I was mad that she didn't bother to talk to me after she moved away (plus the fact that she allegedly told a bunch of people that I used to beat her) which is why I said "what do you want" because I didn't want to be a source of validation for her.

**SemperParatus** · 03-05-2011, 04:12 AM

You're an idiot man, seriously. you are literally telling her that you're ready for her to use and abuse you again. say whatever you want, I 110% guarentee you will get back with her the instant she asks. She's going to use you because you send out all the beta signals a girl like her looks for, then she'll ditch your ass for a "bad boy" until he ditches her....which is when she'll come back to you, again.

good luck dumb ass, this is why I hate giving advice to teen miscers. they never listen anyways.

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