Think about it for sec. When you first start going out with a girl, YOU are the one expected to plan out the date, YOU are the one who is supposed to entertain her and show her a good time, YOU are the one who is supposed to win her affection. She simply has to show up, talk about herself in the most boring manner while you pretend to be interested. YOU can't be boring, YOU must be exciting and interesting, she can (and probably will be)
Now, at this part, you probably think this is all worth it, because you are seeing her good side and think she is a cool chick. The reason for this is she is on her best behavior in the beginning of the relationship, actually acting normal and not crazy. And then, once she gets comfortable with you, she shows her crazy side, emotional unstable most of the time, and YOU have to be there for you, put up with it, and except it. She'll get mad for no reason, tell you nothing is wrong when something obviously is, and YOU are supposed to know what's wrong and make it better. You'll see her hang out with friends and be all nice, then contantly bitch about them to you, as if this is acceptable behavoir, leaving you wondering what the hell she must say about you when you're not around.
Amirite?
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07-08-2009, 05:43 AM #1
Women are worthless in every aspect of a relationship except for the physical part...
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07-08-2009, 05:50 AM #5
The best is women who talk about other women behind their back.
It's a female thing, and it's unbelievable. Women hate other women, due to their overwhelming(and often debilitating)insecurity, and they just fu cking lasshhhhh the moment their best friends leave the room.
It's fascinating how inferior this creature is yet we treat it with such respect.
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07-08-2009, 05:52 AM #8
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Problem is, girls aren't expected to do anything in relationships other than have sex. Just like that female that posted here a few weeks ago talking about how her parents raised her to expect a man to pay for her on dates. Women are not being raised to have any real value to a man besides their vag! You know they aren't being taught to cook & care for a household... so what's left? They're going to focus on themselves & a career (nothing wrong with that) and when it comes to relationships, they still believe the focus should be on them. It's all about what you can do for her and putting up the normal female drama/problems they introduce during the course of the relationship.
Most women today have an idea in their head of how they want/expect to be treated by a man in a relationship. What they don't have any idea of is what they can offer a man in a relationship other than sex. Yet, almost all of them consider themselves to be much more than walking, talking, sex dolls.R135
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07-08-2009, 05:53 AM #9
You guys fail. HARD.
Either you've:
A. Never been in a relationship.
B. Been with all the wrong kinds of women.
Yes the girl will be crazy, but will you not have moods of your own? Then ALWAYS remind yourself of her past, if any, plus any issues she already had, which you simply might not of picked up on or known till a certain point. Also, does she know she has problems?
Think of it like something you HAVE to adapt to or youll never get anywhere. I used to be a homophobe, now I just accept it. This make sense?
Guess what I'm saying is, your not perfect, and there are alot of stable, hardworking, loving, fun women out there. STOP BITCHING, and go find one.
The ONLY thing I'll agree on is that maybe the first couple dates are ALOT of pressure... however if she's a decent girl, she'll make the work easy by enjoying herself and your company.
BTW, this isn't White Knighting. I know there are complete whorey bitches out there, I'm simply voicing my opinion on the subject.
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07-08-2009, 05:56 AM #12
Yeah, and many women view sex as a favor or reward to their male partner, not a special act between both of them. Also, there seems to be a clear, concise criteria for what a man needs to do to be there for his gf or wife and be loving to her, whereas there is little to no criteria women go by or follow to be good to their man.
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07-08-2009, 05:57 AM #14
I'll never cry because my ass looks big, no. I'll never cry because my gf looks "the wrong way" at a friend, no. Will I have lows? Sure. But I'm a man, so I write, smoke some grass, maybe yell a little, then apologize. And I don't go bat**** crazy attention whore mode 2.0, which virtually all women kick into high gear at some point. No
No, there isn't. Stable for a woman, in comparison to other women, sure. But emotionally stable as compared to grown ups acting like big boys, no such thing.
It's not white knighting, it's just wrong. My sense is that you probably know it's wrong, but you're rebelling against what's being said because it sucks to digest that on the inside you know that they are inferior in most ways. It's a heavy burden to carry in a feminist society.
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07-08-2009, 05:58 AM #16
They're just like the girls who always complain that guys just use them for sex... theyre both having a whinge because they were dumb enough to let themselves be used and whinging is the easiest thing to do. The companionship and personal relationship of a girl cant be replaced by anything else in this life.
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07-08-2009, 05:59 AM #18
Guys aren't supposed to show their emotions like women. If we're in a bad mood and it somehow is taken out on the girl, that is unacceptable, and we are viewed as a jerk. Guys will stick with their girl even through all their daily emotional wreckage and expression. You think a girl will stay with a guy who does that?
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07-08-2009, 06:04 AM #23Guys aren't supposed to show their emotions like women. If we're in a bad mood and it somehow is taken out on the girl, that is unacceptable, and we are viewed as a jerk. Guys will stick with their girl even through all their daily emotional wreckage and expression. You think a girl will stay with a guy who does that?
You don't have to beat on a woman to express yourself.
Speaking for myself. I can get REALLY angry, but I would never hit a woman. I also dont walk away. I like to talk through ****. Women love that, and you know... it works.
It's not white knighting, it's just wrong. My sense is that you probably know it's wrong, but you're rebelling against what's being said because it sucks to digest that on the inside you know that they are inferior in most ways. It's a heavy burden to carry in a feminist society.
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07-08-2009, 06:10 AM #28
MOST IMPORTANT POINT::::
Every girl is different! Yes, alot will have similar issues, but they will react and understand differently.
By classifying women into a single category as useless... well... thats simple minded, arrogant, and very similar to nazi viewpoints.
Be a man big guy-articulate your difference of opinion. Maybe that's why you don't understand, you're a half f@g?
1. Rape and beat women to get what you want... or you could stick with emotional abuse, Im sure your good at it.
OR
2. Date guys. But that would make YOU the 'f@g', wouldn't it. And thus, a hypocrite, which means your argument doesn't even matter anymore. Thanks for your time. Go kill yourself now so the cops don't have to when you finally lose it.
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07-08-2009, 06:14 AM #29
Not anymore mayne. I cut that crap out of my life like it's a cancer, but that doesn't mean I don't witness it on the reg.
This is a generation wide, cross gender problem in that frequently NEITHER gender has anything to offer. There was some text conversation on here earlier, some guy was looking for a reply but during an incredibly long conversation neither of them said anything more complicated than "you're funny," and neither of them even said anything funny for ****'s sake -- BOTH of them are idiots. People like that, I dunno man -- I just can't talk to them. I'll nod and smile but inside I'm pondering if these idiots would even remember to breath if it wasn't a reflex.gympunk - "Thank God my wife hasn't ever been bothered by cum shooting around."
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