Now that I'm sober let me give you an honest answer. I think you should talk to your mom about it first. Tell her you have proof, etc. Personally I think it would be more important for me to keep the family together.
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08-09-2009, 09:35 PM #124
ok well ur in a really ****ty position. Firstly take pics and save copies of every piece of evidence on a flash drive or ur phone or something. Comfront ur mom and see what she says. If ur satisfied with her answers and she's done cheating then drop it. If not then tell ur dad and email all the contents of the cheating to the other guy's wife.
EDIT: oh and if you like blackmail the other guy and make a couple thousand. Personally i'd push for a nice car. Then ''accidently'' email all the evidence to his wife. Atleast you got something off this crappy situation.Last edited by captain_natural; 08-09-2009 at 09:38 PM.
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08-09-2009, 09:36 PM #125
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08-09-2009, 09:40 PM #130
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08-09-2009, 09:42 PM #131
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08-09-2009, 09:43 PM #132
OP hasn't responded in like 3 pages. Ah well yall tried. If he doesn't tell his dad he'll regret it one day. No sweat off my back if he aint going to man the **** up
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08-09-2009, 09:45 PM #133
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08-09-2009, 09:48 PM #134
How come you can read your moms email but you can't hit reply on them telling the dude that it's over?
I would just confront my mom and then tell my dad. Last thing you want is your dad to hate you rest of your life for hiding this from him.
I hate to say it but unless your dad is very forgiving i doubt there is any chance they will stay together."Don't be envious when the grass is greener on the other side because you don't know how much crap it took to fertilize that ground.�
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08-09-2009, 09:50 PM #135
[QUOTE=simbaguy2;365071971]i know man, ijust dont ****ing know if i should. I could just leave it alone and nothing would happen, life would keep going on normally. But i don't want to live the rest of my life afte their both dead and tink" i was such a prick to not tell my dad".[/QUOTE
need to talk to your mom and find out if your parents are having trouble that you don't know about your seeing one side of this. Then when you know whats going on tell her it's time your dad knows the truth.. Hey having two homes is not that bad, speaking from experience.
Good luck
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08-09-2009, 09:52 PM #136
OP, just think about it if you were in your father's position and you had a son who knew that his mom was cheating on her husband (you). Wouldn't you want your son to tell you? If I knew that my son knew about my wife cheating on me and didn't say **** to me, I would probably beat the **** out of my son for being a pussy little bitch. I would want to know. Let your father know FFS. It's the right thing to do.
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08-09-2009, 09:54 PM #137
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08-09-2009, 09:56 PM #138
Such bad advice in here.
I found out my mom was cheating on my dad when I was just 13. I picked up the phone and heard her conversation with the guy she was cheating with, so I told my dad as soon as he got home from work the next morning. It was the right thing to do. My mom was unhappy so she cheated. My dad deserved to know. I hated my dad at the time but that doesn't mean I should keep something as important as that from him. I told him and they tried to work it out but it just got worse. They then divorced and **** got B A D for a few years but it was the right thing to do. Now, they are both MUCH, MUCH happier. Only thing I regret is living with my dad. If I'da went with my mom I'd be so much better off, but I chose him because I didn't wanna stay with my mom because I thought she ruined the marriage, but in actuality it was my dad that ruined the marriage years earlier by not carrying about his family as much as he did work/
TELL YOUR DAD. It's not anyone's place but his to decide on what to do. Bribing your mom is the absolute worst idea I've ever heard and is probably coming from people that have never had to deal with a divorce. Divorces are ****ing horrible and do so much damage on the kids. I was ****ed after the fallout. I had to put up with my dad badmouthing my mom EVERYWHERE we went. I was the man of the house after the bull**** because my dad would only work and then come home crying.
Don't really need proof. His dad knows it's nothing to joke about. And once the mom is confronted with it she has no choice but to admit it.AcetylCoA gets reps
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08-09-2009, 10:01 PM #139
I just want to give OP hope that most divorces don't end badly.
Even with my parents arguing with each other to the point of divorce they still talk to each other very often and help each others newer families 12 years later."Don't be envious when the grass is greener on the other side because you don't know how much crap it took to fertilize that ground.�
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08-09-2009, 10:27 PM #143
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This.
Ultimately for yourself in the long run being honest is always the hardest but best option. If you can you should gather as much information as possible. Possibly get as much information on the guy who she is emailing as possible and give your dad the information. After that just hope and pray for the best. Maybe they can work it out. Maybe not but ultimately honesty is the best policy. Just put yourself in your father's shoes. Would you want your son to tell you?Last edited by Chococat; 08-09-2009 at 10:32 PM.
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08-09-2009, 10:31 PM #144
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08-09-2009, 10:31 PM #145
This.
I'd also suggest stop being such a c@ckblocking puzzy for future referance, and this other guy who's banging your mother is probably your real father anyway so I'd show some respect to the man who's picking up the slack and making your mother happy where the other dad has obviously failed.
This is life, get used to it. You only have 3 years until your ass should be kicked out of home anyway, so instead of sticking your nose in someone elses business, just concentrate on preparing to be a man of your own who minds his own.
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08-09-2009, 10:35 PM #146
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08-09-2009, 10:36 PM #147
op i know you dont WANT a divorce...but thats probably the best thing. if my wife was cheating (not married just sayin) id definitely want to know.
your dad has been staying loyal...id side with him on this one brah. tell him for sure. if he finds out himself...and then finds out you knew something and didnt telll him, youd lose the only mature rolemodel in the house...
id much rather be with a loyal father, than a cheating mom...keep rep trading out of your signature line
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08-09-2009, 10:48 PM #148
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08-09-2009, 10:57 PM #149
DL/Print those emails so your father will have the evidence he needs to not get ass-raped in divorce court, if it goes that way.
Men tend to get the **** end of the stick there.
It's selfish not to tell him. He deserves to know that he's married to a lying, cheating whore.
Better off getting it out there now than when she gives him herpes.
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08-09-2009, 11:07 PM #150
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