Do you ever think that it might be your lack of confidence, not your looks, that is turning girls off you. Very few people want to be with someone who feels sorry for themselves all the time
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06-08-2012, 07:06 AM #61
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06-08-2012, 07:07 AM #62
Anyone who is not thin / fit will often gain a point in facial aethestics just from slimming down. Men who are "cute" (6/10) will often become "handsome" (7/10 or more) if they attain a fit thin look. When was the last time you heard a woman called a BB 'cute'. A BB with natural aethestics is "Handsome" but if they stop BBing and became average / slightly overweight, he would be "Cute".
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06-08-2012, 07:10 AM #63
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06-08-2012, 07:13 AM #64
It could be, but only recently. I used to be really confident when I was 18/19/20/21, thats when I got shot down the hardest and told i was "ugly" or "eww" by girls and that I was a "genetic miscreant". Thats when my male peers were taking home the girls for sexing and not me. Thats when I started becoming unconfident, reclusive and bitter and such. I was probably a 3/10 at 18/19-21 (very skinny 130lbs with a weak ******* jaw - looked about 15 as well). I believe this period (16-23) had a massive effect on my mental well being.
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06-08-2012, 07:15 AM #65
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06-08-2012, 08:14 AM #73
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OP STFU. Are you crazy?
I'd rate myself at 7/10 facial standards on the dot. No lower, maybe a bit higher depending on the woman's preference.
I've never been labelled a creep, weirdo or w/e for making eye contact with chicks in nightclubs, on the street or in the gym .
i've managed to get numbers from burds in public places.
Stop making excuses for yourself and being a paranoid kunt. Who gives a phuck if one chick doesn't dig you? There will be 10 more chicks out there for every one that rejects you or acts like a stuck up kunt.
no wonder there are so many foreveralone, socially awkward no-hopers on this forum with **** like this being posted.
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06-08-2012, 08:24 AM #74
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06-08-2012, 10:09 AM #79
If a Bish thinks OP is a creep, it's probably because OP is oogling her breasts without asking for her number or saying hello.
There's always knuckleheads on Relationship Help who need to be slapped. This isn't "Forever Alone" subforum, but relationship help. Hell I came onto this section looking to help others with PoF, not tell FAever to grow a set of balls.
OP is in Europe - where 14 and 16 yearold girls in his native Belgium can be found drinking beer and having sex with strangers. If you can't impress a 14/16 girl then how can you expect to succeed with older women. What the hell is wrong with this Five Bellies dude? You'ld think he's a Troll and making everything up!
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06-08-2012, 11:09 AM #80
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06-08-2012, 11:25 AM #85
I had DDs when I was 35 lbs heavier but now they are Cs.......
I love how I work my ass off to cut by working out 6 days a week and eating bland "clean" food, guys complain that my boobs are smaller. Then when I was heavier they wanted me to lose weight. Men are never satisfied. Sigh.
Yet according to the OP when I was overweight, I was the cause of his forever aloneness.
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06-08-2012, 11:31 AM #86
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06-08-2012, 11:39 AM #89
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06-08-2012, 11:40 AM #90
I dont think id bully him. in fact if he actually goes on about this **** in real life i would feel bad for him, because hes such a negative person. With that said, OP are you sucessful in your career? Relationships of any type just require that you make people around you feel comfortable and want to be around you.
I Feel like most of you FA guys go out with a chip on your shoulders thinking your superior in some way because you in your own minds understand some unrealistic truth when in reality you are happy to live in a world of excuses instead of working on your ability to communicate with other people male or female.
Let me let you in on a little secret, when you are feeling nervous, remember just like you that 8 /10 was on the toilet taking a poop some time in the last 24 hours
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