Official No fap Thread V4. Let get this shiz started. v3 is gone.

[mntbikedude]

I'm aware that i need to update my chains but i like waiting so i can tick multiple ones off at a time. I'll update mine tonight.

wow brah you are 1 day away from milestone 75 you really are one fuarking thick, solid, tight sick kunt.

And then I woke up from my sleep!!! Damn that felt good knowing it was just a dream lol

Day 20 checking in!

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Day 28 checking in, full four weeks. Still in, haven't watched porn nor fapped. Feelsgoodman.

Crucial time coming up now. About 1,5 very stressful weeks where I have a bunch of important retake exams. Usually I fap A LOT during exam weeks and watch porn constantly. My first day of this streak was the last day of my last exam period. Don't plan on failing though. Fapping is not an option anymore.

4 Weeks man good job, like you said porn and fapping are not an option. Thanks for reminding me that this is not for a month this is for 2013.

Day 19 and still going strong! I had pretty strong urges yesterday but managed to resist them. Can't wait to reach the 3 week mark.

Yuuuup each milestone feels soooooo good. Bets the chit out of the feel of relapse. And bro you are not only a Cheeky Kunt but you our only member from Finland. Don't let your country down.

I hope I make it to tomorrow.

If you say that it's pretty much over so here I will help you write your post for tomorrow. Sorry brahs I clicked on this hnnnnng thread and that led me to this porn site and I thought I was strong enough but well now I feel like a total ******* brahs cause I just couldn't keep my hand off my dink...... sorry I'm just too weak. Take my name off the list.

cetrelink1 day one

Edit: not trying to be a dick to you, we all just really want you to make it, it would suck to not see you posting everyday. You got this buddy, we are all cheering for you m8.

[TreyTrey]

Holy chit brah's, 90 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



















































jk

had a wet dream 2 nights ago though, srs.
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[mntbikedude]

Cheeky Kunts a band of brothers from all over the planet. We have represented here:

Spain
Finland
Russia
USA
UK
Canada
The Netherlands
New Zealand
Canada
Australia

If I am missing someone let me know. It's pretty amazing to have brahs from all points of the globe come together with one solid goal to be the sickest of the sik kunts and we are succeeding.

[Tinie]

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I wouldn't recommend the accountability partner **** unless the accountable partner is someone you fear e.g. your parents (assuming they aren't liberal and do have a problem with you watching porn). I know if I ever told my parents this **** they would freak out thus if I knew that watching porn would result in them knowing my habits, I wouldn't because there's too much to lose. If it's a girlfriend or roommate the effects wouldn't be the same. I would convince myself that I'm being held accountable but deep down, I know I don't give much of a ****s if they find out because they probably watch porn themselves so worst comes to worst they'll tell me some **** about being disappointed that I failed.

You've got to either raise the stakes significantly enough for to it to truly make you fear fapping or you've got to rely on your will power. I would advise you not to use fear as a motivator. I mean think of how many addicts have lost their families and wealth. The need to fap can become greater than the fear of losing your family/wealth. You can become blindsided for a minute and that's all it takes. Hypothetically, lets say you agree that if you fap you lose $10000 (to criminal loan sharks) unless your rich you probably don't even have that much so if you fap you'll got into a lot of debt. You've raised the stakes enough for it to fear you but there's a probability that you're going to relapse so what happens if you do? You hit rock bottom. What happens when people hit rock bottom? They use their vices at a increased rate (smoking, crack, alcohol, gambling etc) as a coping mechanism. Is that productive to your long-term goals? No, it'll probably take you a long time to seek help again because you're at the bottom and you don't see the point.

I've noticed that every time I've committed to one of those no fap *insert month* challenges and I fail, I start fapping more than usual because I'm all depressed at failing. There's no point in putting that kind of stress on your self, relapsing is normal yes normal, the vast majority of addicts in recovery will relapse multiple times. Try to see things from positive side, instead of looking at the number of days you didn't fap as a disappoint because they didn't match with your expectation, see them as a achievement because any day you don't fap is a good day. All we can do is minimize triggers and take things one day at a time. If know you'll be on the computer a long time because you ain't got **** going on then keep yourself busy by even watching TV shows (the wire, mad men, breaking bad, the shield, Oz, The sopranos etc), I always have this thread open and read it whenever I have a urge. Stop focusing on no fap 2013 or no fap January, focus on no fap today or even better yet no fap this hour. I'm feeling ****ing great because I know in 4 hours I'm going to sleep and I'll have made it another day. I may not have the power to continue no fap to 2014 but I do have the willpower to continue it for another 4 hours and that's all I can ask for. Every second you don't fap is a achievement and the sooner you see it that way, the more strength you have to stay strong for the day. Our willpower is all we have it might not be the best tool but there's nothing else that can be used to achieve your goals.

[mntbikedude]

Holy chit brah's, 90 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



jk

had a wet dream 2 nights ago though, srs.
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I swear m8 you are one cheeky kunt.

You bastard I went from mentally high fiveing you to wanting to punch you in the face. Good job on the wet dream though. When is it mine turn?

[Tinie]

I am really struggling here. This is the most difficult it has been for me. I hope I make it to tomorrow.

You will brah, stay strong. Seeing you comment daily and still going is a nice motivator for me and I'm sure others. Just take things 1 day at a time.

[mntbikedude]

Congrats to Batmayne for nailing 6 weeks.

[ScottRose]

day 20

Ive noticed I laugh a lot more lately

[Tax843]

Starting to really hate and doubt no FAP. Been in a depressive for the past couple days. Im almost at 2 weeks now, don't really see any changes besides anxiety down a little bit.

The urges are there but I can handle them and have self control to not FAP or watch porn or edge

But I guess I'll stick with it. Even though I don't get any puss. (kissless virgin)

[Ittoryu]

Starting to really hate and doubt no FAP. Been in a depressive for the past couple days. Im almost at 2 weeks now, don't really see any changes besides anxiety down a little bit.

The urges are there but I can handle them and have self control to not FAP or watch porn or edge

But I guess I'll stick with it. Even though I don't get any puss. (kissless virgin)

Hitting 2 weeks today brahs. Pretty much what this dude said.. no big differences except some mood swings here and there. Sticking through till the end because I challenged myself to do so.

[SteamedPotato]

I dun goofd...

Even more depressed than i was on no fap.

Day 1 complete though anyway, back in on this.

[WhirlwindTobias]

Instant gratification can suck my balls.

[sveltest]

day 7 no PMO but i had another wet dream last night.

also 8 days free of ****** and paxil, and 4 days free of ********, had some wine here and there but i dont think thats a problem

been sick lately and sleeping a lot too.

experiencing thick depersonalization, anxiety and depression but this is what needs to happen, nothing worth doing was ever easy.

[mntbikedude]

Instant gratification can suck my balls.

Dude these's not a GJDM big enough to express, nothing short of amazing..

[WhirlwindTobias]

Dude these's not a GJDM big enough to express, nothing short of amazing..

I also have a keyboard practise chain...but it's a bit gappy

[kanay]

Aaaah failed in 4 days!!starting again and no give up!!is it ok to get wet dream like after 4 days will it carry on like this or will it eventually take longer???helpits kinda annoying!!

[WhirlwindTobias]

Aaaah failed in 4 days!!starting again and no give up!!is it ok to get wet dream like after 4 days will it carry on like this or will it eventually take longer???helpits kinda annoying!!

If you think you failed because of a nocturnal emission, you're wrong.

Do you think I haven't had one of those in 180 days? lol.

[TheStaringFrog]

Congrats to Motorvation and TheStaringFrog both celebrating 3 weeks today

Thanks! You aren't far away from 3 weeks either, so keep it up!
Btw, I'm sort of impressed by your ability of ejaculating without wanking. I guess it's more of a curse than a blessing though.

This. I haven't gone full cold showers yet unless I've had an intense workout, otherwise luke-warm works just as well. On previous streaks I'd be mirin the erections I'd get when having warm showers (no homo) but in all honesty it only made no fap more challenging. It could be that I'm in a partial flatline phase but I haven't had any such issues this time around. Luke-warm/cold showers are best imo.

Btw brah we're on the same day. Lets do this.

Yeah, I've noticed that. We are going to make it. Stay strong!

Instant gratification can suck my balls.

I'm on dat der no lemonade/sweets/chocolate time this year, too. Do you reckon keeping a chain about those things would help?

[allnaturalbro]

Treat porn as a drug though. Assuming you've never used, or no longer use, crack, would you consider crack as an option for anything? Most people just rule it out, even if they had a kilo sitting on their desk or some shizz. Do the same with porn.

Great analogy bro! I totally get what you're saying and agree.

Would rep if I could.

Day 38 by the way.

[Manne1]

lost track its been either 10 days or 2 weeks. Record is 104 days feel free to ask me anything

[MeatFalafel]

Thanks everyone who's given support and advice following my relapse.


I'll give you an account of my day post relapse as a further disincentive to fap..


Didn't wake up/get up till half 12 and felt ****ty and lethargic.. Did nothing until I went to the gym.

Walking to the gym a reasonably hot girl dropped her gloves, I gave them back and smiled, our eyes met and she smiled back. But was stuck on more to say like a *******.. Compared to most of last week when I'd been really conversational and confident.

In the gym one of the local juicer dickheads sat back to front on an incline bench facing me and staring me down, felt like I couldn't make eye contact with anyone and in general I felt weak and socially anxious. Went to the food shop after and lost it with some little prick who pushed in front of me which isn't characteristic of me. I feel so ****ing frustrated and weak.


Basically.. The benefits of nofap accumulate and I forgot how I felt beforehand. It's really hard to gauge when you're feeling the benefits so you just say **** it.


Don't make the same mistake boys, good luck to all.

Cliffs:
-Relapsed yesterday
-Woke up late & felt ****
-Was a ******* and missed an opportunity to chat up 7/10
-Social anxiety in gym
-Lost it in food shop

And Tobias, props for your self discipline.

[Wolf200]

Day 19.

Easiest streak so far (and I've been trying for over a year, best is 32 days). Almost seems like I've been flatlining the entire time, either that or it's because I started on Jan 1st and I'm committed to not failing in 2013.

[maori-rap]

Instant gratification can suck my balls.

Looks good. I've just started a no fapping chain, backdated it to 1st Dec last year. Will make it easier when I can clock my progress like this.

[SteamedPotato]

Don't make the same mistake boys, good luck to all.

Cliffs:
-Relapsed yesterday
-Woke up late & felt ****
-Was a ******* and missed an opportunity to chat up 7/10
-Social anxiety in gym
-Lost it in food shop

And Tobias, props for your self discipline.

Happens to the best of us, i keep telling myself that im not gonna just stop fappin over night, just like with any addiction, it takes time most often than not and setbacks will occur. with each attempt, we'll become stronger and also decrease the amount of porn/ fapping we do though which is a plus.

Also well done to all you cheeky kunts keeping ya hands off.

[kanay]

If you think you failed because of a nocturnal emission, you're wrong.

Do you think I haven't had one of those in 180 days? lol.

No no not wet dream I fapped aah but how often will it get????

[DutchBodbuilder]

day 20

Ive noticed I laugh a lot more lately

Notice this aswell. I tend to laugh at things I thought was stupid in the past

[SteamedPotato]

No no not wet dream I fapped aah but how often will it get????

Its different for everyone, i guess the only way to find out is to abstain.

[IZionLionI]

I wouldn't recommend the accountability partner **** unless the accountable partner is someone you fear e.g. your parents (assuming they aren't liberal and do have a problem with you watching porn). I know if I ever told my parents this **** they would freak out thus if I knew that watching porn would result in them knowing my habits, I wouldn't because there's too much to lose. If it's a girlfriend or roommate the effects wouldn't be the same. I would convince myself that I'm being held accountable but deep down, I know I don't give much of a ****s if they find out because they probably watch porn themselves so worst comes to worst they'll tell me some **** about being disappointed that I failed.

You've got to either raise the stakes significantly enough for to it to truly make you fear fapping or you've got to rely on your will power. I would advise you not to use fear as a motivator. I mean think of how many addicts have lost their families and wealth. The need to fap can become greater than the fear of losing your family/wealth. You can become blindsided for a minute and that's all it takes. Hypothetically, lets say you agree that if you fap you lose $10000 (to criminal loan sharks) unless your rich you probably don't even have that much so if you fap you'll got into a lot of debt. You've raised the stakes enough for it to fear you but there's a probability that you're going to relapse so what happens if you do? You hit rock bottom. What happens when people hit rock bottom? They use their vices at a increased rate (smoking, crack, alcohol, gambling etc) as a coping mechanism. Is that productive to your long-term goals? No, it'll probably take you a long time to seek help again because you're at the bottom and you don't see the point.

I've noticed that every time I've committed to one of those no fap *insert month* challenges and I fail, I start fapping more than usual because I'm all depressed at failing. There's no point in putting that kind of stress on your self, relapsing is normal yes normal, the vast majority of addicts in recovery will relapse multiple times. Try to see things from positive side, instead of looking at the number of days you didn't fap as a disappoint because they didn't match with your expectation, see them as a achievement because any day you don't fap is a good day. All we can do is minimize triggers and take things one day at a time. If know you'll be on the computer a long time because you ain't got **** going on then keep yourself busy by even watching TV shows (the wire, mad men, breaking bad, the shield, Oz, The sopranos etc), I always have this thread open and read it whenever I have a urge. Stop focusing on no fap 2013 or no fap January, focus on no fap today or even better yet no fap this hour. I'm feeling ****ing great because I know in 4 hours I'm going to sleep and I'll have made it another day. I may not have the power to continue no fap to 2014 but I do have the willpower to continue it for another 4 hours and that's all I can ask for. Every second you don't fap is a achievement and the sooner you see it that way, the more strength you have to stay strong for the day. Our willpower is all we have it might not be the best tool but there's nothing else that can be used to achieve your goals.

This is all true, good post, but for some reason it just made me lol super hard. Maybe it was the criminal loan sharks scenario lmfao.

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Instant gratification can suck my balls.

Giving up chocolate and sweets? Nah, phuck that chit m8. Haha, props on the self-discipline. I don't eat much junk food. It's something that I enjoy in moderation though.

[ThePrince86]

No Guts, No Glory Mother****ers!

[DutchBodbuilder]

Day 21 starts in 20 mins. The battle begins!
Have only made it past day 21 one time since I started no fap 1,5 years ago. Failed 6 times on this evil day.
Wish me luck brahs