Tried the dating apps again. Its over.

[Techriding101]

Not really in that much detail. Some of with friends, one doing an activity(soccer), one traveling the usual stuff.

I'm adding a shirtless pic and just seeing if that matters. I think I need show some physical attractiveness. Here's that one. I know they say not to do this but the reality hot guys get the matches. Its about looks. I need to show something

your lower third sucks, srs, online dating is over for you

[byzantine75]

I've never not admitted that. its an anomaly and makes no difference to my situation now.

If it happened once, it can happen again

[BigBallsMcgee]

Already told you, those low effort dating profile pics aren’t doing you any favors.

Stop being so lazy, I tell you this all the time.

You've not seen my pictures.

[rollerball]

You've not seen my pictures.

You posted the shirtless pic, you look like an impoverished serial killer in that pic

[BigBallsMcgee]

You posted the shirtless pic, you look like an impoverished serial killer in that pic

I tried that one to see if it would spark anything, because I was getting nothing to begin with.

[OzzyDio]

Aren't you like 5'6"? Despite what some miscers say, you shouldn't try frauding your height by much. You can realistically pull off lying by about 1".

Especially the shorter a guy is, the less he can get away with lying about height. Why? Because the shorter you are (namely under 6'0"), the closer you get in height to a lot of women, so they'll notice height frauding more than if a 6'6" guy claimed 6'8" or something. Not to mention, tons of women are taller than 5'6", and most these days are at least within a few inches of that height. Think of how bad you'd look if you ever actually met up with one of these women who are like 5'2" - 5'6" while being 5'6" yourself after claiming you were 5'9". Good luck getting a second date based on the lying alone.

Not gonna lie though, I'd feel really bad for a dude who is 5'6" hoping for much success on dating aps these days. You're gonna need a ton of patience for that to work out for you unless you have a great face/body beyond that and are in a big enough area for there to be a decent amount of women who are significantly shorter (say 4'11" - 5'3").

[rollerball]

I tried that one to see if it would spark anything, because I was getting nothing to begin with.

That’s your most important pic - the shirtless one.
My online dating changed overnight when I posted shirtless pics.

Do a better one that your friend snaps, you playing shirtless dickleball or whatever

[BigBallsMcgee]

That’s your most important pic - the shirtless one.
My online dating changed overnight when I posted shirtless pics.

Do a better one that your friend snaps, you playing shirtless dickleball or whatever

If the one I posted isn't good enough to get one like from a fat chick, idk if this is for me man. the standards are just way too high

[rollerball]

If the one I posted isn't good enough to get one like from a fat chick, idk if this is for me man. the standards are just way too high

Again that pic sucks, get a better one that your friend takes of you, if you actually have friends like you claim

[BigBallsMcgee]

Aren't you like 5'6"? Despite what some miscers say, you shouldn't try frauding your height by much. You can realistically pull off lying by about 1".

Especially the shorter a guy is, the less he can get away with lying about height. Why? Because the shorter you are (namely under 6'0"), the closer you get in height to a lot of women, so they'll notice height frauding more than if a 6'6" guy claimed 6'8" or something. Not to mention, tons of women are taller than 5'6", and most these days are at least within a few inches of that height. Think of how bad you'd look if you ever actually met up with one of these women who are like 5'2" - 5'6" while being 5'6" yourself after claiming you were 5'9". Good luck getting a second date based on the lying alone.

Not gonna lie though, I'd feel really bad for a dude who is 5'6" hoping for much success on dating aps these days. You're gonna need a ton of patience for that to work out for you unless you have a great face/body beyond that and are in a big enough area for there to be a decent amount of women who are significantly shorter (say 4'11" - 5'3").

I'm 5'3, and I'm lying on the profile saying I'm 5'9.

It could obviously be an issue at a potential date, but I cant even get likes so not worth worrying about now

[BigBallsMcgee]

Again that pic sucks, get a better one that your friend takes of you, if you actually have friends like you claim

The pic sucks, as in its not a well taken picture but the point is to show my body which looks good in the picture. You can see I'm in shape.

If fat women are looking at that and saying ' unimpressed', its over man

[Muzzlrpress]

The pic sucks, as in its not a well taken picture but the point is to show my body which looks good in the picture. You can see I'm in shape.

If fat women are looking at that and saying ' unimpressed', its over man

Saturday night breh, you know what that means.

And NO COMING HOME AT MIDNIGHT!!!11!!!

Srsly, the best parts usually happen from 11:30-1:30 ime.

[BigBallsMcgee]

Saturday night breh, you know what that means.

And NO COMING HOME AT MIDNIGHT!!!11!!!

Srsly, the best parts usually happen from 11:30-1:30 ime.

I invited some brahs to join me. Idk if 2am is happening.

How about if there's any potential I'll stay but I aint just gonna stay that late just to do it.

[Muzzlrpress]

I invited some brahs to join me. Idk if 2am is happening.

How about if there's any potential I'll stay but I aint just gonna stay that late just to do it.

No dammit, you stay late to turn the fuk up! If they try to leave early, call them pussies and berate them.

[OzzyDio]

No dammit, you stay late to turn the fuk up! If they try to leave early, call them pussies and berate them.

I get what you're saying, but I'm way past the age of pressuring buddies to be involved in activities that will involve alcohol that they don't want to go to/they want to leave. That's something dudes in their early 20's do.

[BigBallsMcgee]

No dammit, you stay late to turn the fuk up! If they try to leave early, call them pussies and berate them.

they're DEFINITELY not staying that late lol, I meant me.

[BigBallsMcgee]

I get what you're saying, but I'm way past the age of pressuring buddies to be involved in activities that will involve alcohol that they don't want to go to/they want to leave. That's something dudes in their early 20's do.

Yea the alcohol has nothing to do with it, nobody even has to drink if they dont want to. Its just late lol it can get rough.

If I said 'guys please stay and try to help me get some azz I'm desperate', they'd probably be more motivated but no way otherwise

[OzzyDio]

I'm 5'3, and I'm lying on the profile saying I'm 5'9.

It could obviously be an issue at a potential date, but I cant even get likes so not worth worrying about now

Dude. If you're 5'3" and frauding up to 5'9" in your pics, the women can probably tell you're lying out of your ass based on your profile pics alone. No wonder you're getting nothing.

That being said, I do legitimately feel bad for you. Having to list a height as extremely low for a dude as 5'3" is all but a death sentence on dating apps in terms of trying to find any quality.

If you just wanna get laid, be honest, and start messaging ugly single mothers in their 30's and 40's. Stop wishing to land a hot HBB off of online dating (the most looks-based approach to dating ever) at 5'3", because it's never gonna happen unless you look rich and have a 9/10 body and face beyond height. You'rd gonna have to go for women IRL somehow if you want even a remote shot at quality as a 5'3" brah who is average beyond height.

[OzzyDio]

Yea the alcohol has nothing to do with it, nobody even has to drink if they dont want to. Its just late lol it can get rough.

If I said 'guys please stay and try to help me get some azz I'm desperate', they'd probably be more motivated but no way otherwise

No dudes who are done drinking for the night are going to want to stick around to play wingman for you out at the bars, brah.

[BigBallsMcgee]

Dude. If you're 5'3" and frauding up to 5'9" in your pics, the women can probably tell you're lying out of your ass based on your profile pics alone. No wonder you're getting nothing.

That being said, I do legitimately feel bad for you. Having to list a height as extremely low for a dude as 5'3" is all but a death sentence on dating apps in terms of trying to find any quality.

If you just wanna get laid, be honest, and start messaging ugly single mothers in their 30's and 40's. Stop wishing to land a hot HBB off of online dating (the most looks-based approach to dating ever) at 5'3", because it's never gonna happen unless you look rich and have a 9/10 body and face beyond height.

I know times have changed on the apps, but the most success I've had was when I frauded as 6 feet. So I dont think they can tell from the pics, and even if they can its still worth doing so you aren't filtered out on height alone.

[OzzyDio]

I know times have changed on the apps, but the most success I've had was when I frauded as 6 feet. So I dont think they can tell from the pics, and even if they can its still worth doing so you aren't filtered out on height alone.

You had success with women you met online after they met you IRL when you frauded your height by 9"?

Man... I'd hate to know what they looked like, no offense brah srs lol

[BigBallsMcgee]

No dudes who are done drinking for the night are going to want to stick around to play wingman for you out at the bars, brah.

These are my friends, a lot of them would do that. I would do it for them.

you need better friends if that sounds crazy to you

[BigBallsMcgee]

You had success with women you met online after they met you IRL when you frauded your height by 9"?

Man... I'd hate to know what they looked like, no offense brah srs lol

I mean I dont have that much success in general, but I've definitely been on some dates where I claimed 6 feet, showed up, and the woman didnt seem to care. Had a normal solid date. a few times got a second.

A lot of women would be pissed, but some of them know guys fraud and dont really care that much I think.

I also think anyone super hung up on looks doesnt match with me anyway lol

[OzzyDio]

These are my friends, a lot of them would do that. I would do it for them.

you need better friends if that sounds crazy to you

Dude when you're in your 30's you need to learn to take the reigns of getting women on your own. Can't rely on buddies to play wingman for you forever. That's a good way to stay single for a long time.

[Muzzlrpress]

Yea the alcohol has nothing to do with it, nobody even has to drink if they dont want to. Its just late lol it can get rough.

If I said 'guys please stay and try to help me get some azz I'm desperate', they'd probably be more motivated but no way otherwise

You don't need a wingman, just have a great time and keep the good vibes going. Forget ass. Get some? Great. Get none? Still great. Be sure you have fun. That's the #1 goal always.


FUN

Have it with friends and strangers mame

[OzzyDio]

You don't need a wingman, just have a great time and keep the good vibes going. Forget ass. Get some? Great. Get none? Still great. Be sure you have fun. That's the #1 goal always.


FUN

Have it with friends and strangers mame

Honestly the only reason you need "wingmen" at bars is to not look like a loser drinking by yourself alone there. The idea of relying on them for anything beyond that always seemed weird to me.

That being said, if I were in OP's situation - and based on how he's talking - his best play would be to just get some seriously thick skin about rejection and aim for women that aren't the hottest. That's just reality. Dude could find some nice 4'11" girl to settle down with someday if he plays his cards right, srs.

[Tuksonrider]

Dude when you're in your 30's you need to learn to take the reigns of getting women on your own. Can't rely on buddies to play wingman for you forever. That's a good way to stay single for a long time.

Wingmen are still helpful, but I find the older you get, the situation changes. It's no longer bars or night clubs. It's social group gatherings. If you have a hobby, then you find a group that participates in it, or a volunteer group, etc. Basically, putting yourself out there socially in a setting that allows you to meet people outside the bars and nightclubs. Wingmen can get feelers out there for you.

I mean, I'm a "boomer". If I go to a bar or nightclub, I'm not seeing people my age there. Maybe a hole-in-the-wall bar, but they are usually washed up, already drunk before they even enter the door, and at the edge of suicide/depression.

I meet more people this way than on apps.

[BigBallsMcgee]

Dude when you're in your 30's you need to learn to take the reigns of getting women on your own. Can't rely on buddies to play wingman for you forever. That's a good way to stay single for a long time.

I dont rely on them, I've been barmaxxing solo. Just the only way they'd even think about going to closing time is if I made a point to ask for help.

[BigBallsMcgee]

You don't need a wingman, just have a great time and keep the good vibes going. Forget ass. Get some? Great. Get none? Still great. Be sure you have fun. That's the #1 goal always.


FUN

Have it with friends and strangers mame

I'm barmaxxing for the fun of it but if I'm going until 2am its for azz lol. Just keeping it real.

[BigBallsMcgee]

Honestly the only reason you need "wingmen" at bars is to not look like a loser drinking by yourself alone there. The idea of relying on them for anything beyond that always seemed weird to me.

That being said, if I were in OP's situation - and based on how he's talking - his best play would be to just get some seriously thick skin about rejection and aim for women that aren't the hottest. That's just reality. Dude could find some nice 4'11" girl to settle down with someday if he plays his cards right, srs.

Go for the short meh looking one's is like rule number 1 for me lol. Of course, what else do you think I'd do?