Yep, people tend to stay in relationships for other reasons other then pure love these days, hence the huge divorce rate/dysfunctional family's. The family bond is different, although I'am not sure how this will change in the future. The family system we know today was created out of fear again, need for protection and learning etc. Notice how most human beings have the instinct to protect/care for children. Well imagine in a world hypothesized above, a child would be nurtured by everyone in it's society. Obviously the bond with it's blood parents would still be quite strong as the soul in the child would have chosen to be born to those parents for a reason.
Who knows really, I'am quite excited to see how it will pan out though, how it will all click together. I have a sort of feeling for it but that's about it.
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08-05-2012, 07:01 PM #934
An entity who is balanced and functioning without very much blockages/distortion will be in a state of ecstasy. Meditate, work on yourself.
Anything can be positive or negative in the sense that it is the intent that an entity has which makes the object useful in that way. I've watched pornographic material in different forms.
I would say however, that usually masturbation to pornographic material is of a self-pleasure act without any real energy transfers other then the lowest center which is the biological aspect and desire towards reproduction which even then there is no transfer to another entity because there is only the self.
As for the satisfaction in energy centers the low three are usually the ones taken account in a sexual act. The next energy center would be the green chakra or heart chakra and unless both partners are expressing love and the hope for pleasure to another there would be no mutual transfer. This is usually the case in most sexual acts. The satisfaction would be far greater in this way - when sex is actually "making love" and not just for primal self pleasure.
This is quite precise brother.
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08-05-2012, 07:12 PM #935
I appologize for not specifying my question.
Anyway, I meant to ask if the OP was lead by his ego while coming up with the title of this thread --> stating that one shall answer questions in a humbly is in itself not a deed of humbleness.
Even writing out this post shows clearly that my ego is in charge...أشهد أن لا إله إلاَّ الله و أشهد أن محمد رسول الله
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08-05-2012, 07:22 PM #936
No apology needed brother, I simply chose humbly to express my intent as not being better or greater than but merely as a student/teacher to learn and to teach.
The Ego is in charge at any time that there is an idea of individuality. Merely typing this is doing so with my Ego. The non-ego is that consciousness within you that is undistorted and unified with all else.
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08-05-2012, 08:23 PM #937
Fear causes blockage in the first of the energy centers. The lack of activation of the higher centers will result in difficulties expressing love and compassion, thinking wisely, seeing truth, communicating clearly and openly etc... When one is afraid they are focusing on survival for the self and thus lacking balance. When something is off balance it is much easier to 'knock it over'.
There is nothing to really fear, it is only when you choose to fear something that it becomes terrifying.
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08-05-2012, 08:39 PM #938
infitismalin1 you are wise brother. Close to liberation, in my opinion.
Regard him as one who
points out
treasure,
the wise one who
seeing your faults
rebukes you.
Stay with this sort of sage.
For the one who stays
with a sage of this sort,
things get better,
not worse.
Let him admonish, instruct,
deflect you
away from poor manners.
To the good, he's endearing;
to the bad, he's not.
-Dhammapada
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08-05-2012, 08:57 PM #939
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08-06-2012, 01:18 AM #943
By living in the moment your mind will be clear, single pointed, and there will be the clarity of awareness and existence. Understand the future and past are merely the present moment. See the simultaneity of you in all possible scenarios in the past and in the future as one single entity. Feel your existence by way of the infinite path where the present moment is of infinite value and all possibilities are in potentiation.
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08-06-2012, 01:19 AM #944
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08-06-2012, 05:12 PM #945
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OP, I saw a few pages back you were going to post a guide to meditation. Did you ever post it, or do you plan to?
Also, I saw that you said you had a girlfriend. What would be your reaction if she cheated on you? Immediate forgiveness? Would you take her back or let her go? What would be your reasoning for the path you choose?Last edited by WiggyWanka; 08-06-2012 at 05:19 PM.
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08-06-2012, 05:46 PM #946
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08-06-2012, 06:31 PM #947
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08-07-2012, 01:49 AM #948
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08-08-2012, 09:04 PM #949
I apologize as I still need to write it out.
The correct action to any situation would lack emotional charge and instead be the reaction of compassion and love. I do not take ownership in her (we are all portions of the One Infinite Creator with Free Will) and thus taking her back would be unnecessary, it would not be be cheating as it is not a game. It is far more fulfilling knowing that an other-self, especially one who is signifcant to me, be happy and experience her pleasures than to be fearful of desiring an experience out of the consequences of my reactions. This is the positive path - to wish others joyfulness without regards to ones own personal contentment over theirs.
Many would say that they do not want another to do something because they love them. Yet true love would be to let another do as they wish accepting them for what they do and still loving them regardless of their choices.
The Ego is merely individuality, as long as your an entity experiencing the concept of many-ness or self-ness there will always be the concept of individuality.
It is not about overcoming fear but more of replacing that fear with love. If you fear, say, the darkness then instead you should love the darkness and have compassion for it - thus fear is only an instinct out of not accepting that object wish is merely neutral.Last edited by INFITISMALin1; 08-08-2012 at 09:10 PM.
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08-08-2012, 11:36 PM #951
Our relationship is very smooth and easy because we don't build boxes around each other for our contentment. She is going to be who she is as a unique and beautiful person and I am going to be myself as another unique portion of the Creator. We don't have the feuds, arguments, or fights like other relationships because we do not have the means of trying to change each other for our own contentment.
Neither of us have gone out and had sexual acts with another person because we simply are happy with each other.
A lot of my friends will be very uneasy when their significant other goes out and hangs out with the opposite sex without them - this is normal an a primal reaction. Yet, I let her go and do as she pleases, to be herself and in this way she is the happiest and I am also happy as I go and do as I wish.
A relationship should be seen as more of a close friendship than something that must be lived up to with roles (like a protective boyfriend, and a submissive girlfriend). Each person should be equals.
Remember Misc. All conflict arises from inequality.
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08-08-2012, 11:42 PM #952
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08-08-2012, 11:58 PM #955
They can be many many many things. Some of the positive orientation, some of the negative orientation, thought forms, natural anomalies, and even human aircraft.
The sightings are rare and even rarer are they of the origin deemed extraterrestrial.
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