Why dont girls ever approach guys?

[Piranha89]

i just had a girl approach me...i was trying to act alpha, between that and my social awkwardness she thought i didn't like her and is not interested anymore

At least you stayed alpha...

[The_Champ01]

I've been approached a few times in club/pub type environments but generally 90% of those approaches have ended up as one night stands, I can only think of one that had follow-up or meaning behind it.

[fukc]

I don't remember if I posted in this thread before.

Because it always scares guys away. I've given my number and even gone for the first kiss and ****, makes them run away.

[kineticforce]

I don't remember if I posted in this thread before.

Because it always scares guys away. I've given my number and even gone for the first kiss and ****, makes them run away.

im still mad at you.... but I brought you up

MOST guys suck at eye contact, if that was your only indication you fail. You and fukc should talk.....

[fukc]

im still mad at you.... but I brought you up

I love you

[kineticforce]

I love you

LIIIEEESS alll LIIEESSS!!!

[fukc]

LIIIEEESS alll LIIEESSS!!!

See what happens when I give my heart away

[kineticforce]

See what happens when I give my heart away

I only see you as a sister now...and the one who goes to her room and talks really really fast to her friends, only to come out during dinner and than back to her room.

[fukc]

I only see you as a sister now...and the one who goes to her room and talks really really fast to her friends, only to come out during dinner and than back to her room.

Check your PMs!

[NYY]

i don't remember if i posted in this thread before.

Because it always scares guys away. I've given my number and even gone for the first kiss and ****, makes them run away.

run forest run!!!!!!!!

[RighteousZeal]

That'd be a refreshing change of pace. I have mad respect for girls that do approach guys. Makes things interesting again.

[metalhead420]

Surprisingly I've been approached a lot at parties. I know from my pics you wouldn't think it, but it does happen. o_O

I much prefer being approached at parties because by then I'm usually too wasted to pick up on all these bull**** "signals" girls send out...

[H8Masculinity06]

seriously, why is taking charge, going after what you want, making things happen, being assertive, confident, part of being a Man? all Masculine traits? does it say in the Bible or what? did God say so?

[jamestown0101]

seriously, why is taking charge, going after what you want, making things happen, being assertive, confident, part of being a Man? all Masculine traits? does it say in the Bible or what? did God say so?

WHo is god? Can you see god or are you making things up as you go on blind faith? Its pretty much like custom or tradition. There essentially is no rules or right of passage to being a male or female however, there are assumed roles, gender expectations, and things that are assumed in society.

Today, most men are like your pathetic punk ass, typical ******* man that sits when he pees.

I don't give a flying **** what society or gender roles say. I just plan to man the **** up in life, knock the dust off that pussy, and take no prisoners. How is sitting when you pee working out for you brah?

Despite being aesthetic + attractive, bishes eye ****ing the **** out of me, mirrin hard, giving out celebrity look alike or asking about relationship status or if I am here with anything = wants cawk in &&& around her mouth. Not every bish is down brah &&& notasingle****isgiven. SMASH OR DISREGARD + TROLL HARD REAL HARD!!!! There world needs more mans man, not another pathetic ******* that is ****ting his pants when it comes to hitting on bishes. If you were born good looking and aesthetic as ****, bishes would be eye ****ing the **** out of you + you would just stack on that, and hit on more bishes, and slam more skanks.

Matthew 13:12 >> Whoever has will be given more, and he will have an abundance. Whoever does not have, even what he has will be taken from him. (100% CEREAL)

So, according to your home boy Jesus, if you have skanks & sluts on the go, you have options, likely good looking but not just any good looking, jamestown0101 good looking, you end up with more skanks. Wait wut?


Your not doing it right brah!

[Camouflage11]

Girls do approach. Thats why they have so many "hobbies." Truth is they dont care about that cooking or painting class (or whatever) they just go there to meet guys.

They ask questions regarding the subject in which you are together ( for example if youre in school they ll ask about your major or a question about what the teacher said or they will confirm what the homework is). Problem with this is most teachers say the same thing 1000 times so when the girl asks you what the teacher said 1000 times kinda makes the girl sound like a complete idiot. Especially if you are a good student.

They will rarely be straight and to the point. I have had it happen though. I have had girls ask me out out right. I only thought one was cute. The worst was when this balding chicked asked me out at the junior high (or highschool I forget) dance. And she had BO. *shudders*

My problem with this is most of the time the girls who ask me questions arent girls I think are good looking. Or you know the convo goes nowhere. Sometimes if the conversation pops off the girl will say how busy she is and how she does all this stuff and in a way its kind of indirectly a discouragement to asking her out (Idk if they all of a sudden dont like me after talking to me or if they dont know they are doing it they make it sound like a date with them is impossible).

Sometimes they will also try to make a joke with you.

They also approach me when I am ridiculously busy or in a really bad mood. They will approach in between sets when I am trying to count out the seconds in between completely screwing up my count. They will approach when I am holding thai pads for someone. They will approach when I am on the run somewhere and cant be late. They will approach while I am eating and have my mouth full with food. You get the point.

But when I am free and am ready to meet people no one will talk to me LOL.

There are lots of ways to meet girls. You can go for it and ask out as many as you possibly can until you are ready to pass out. You can cat call in the street and the mall (keep it PG if you do this saying anything beyond "youre cute" could get you slapped). Take a dance class or some random class of dumb hobbies that chicks do.

And what is supposedly the best way the "planting seeds" strategy. Watch 40 year old virgin if you dont know what this is.

Most importantly get out there. Be open to conversations regardless of whether they go anywhere.

Remember this one thing if the girl is annoying the crap out of you with all sorts questions just ask her out. If she likes you got a date. If she dont it ll get rid of her. Dont look for signs on whether or not she likes you. If she is talking to you assume she wants to get naked with you. And ask her out ASAP.

Also avoid the friendzone at all costs. If she dont wanna date you she doesnt deserve to be a part of your life.

[Camouflage11]

one more thing if you have insecurites or anything weird about you get them fixed ASAP. It will make you more attractive to women.

[Cheesin]

Anyone else feel like a chick approaching you makes her even more attractive? Idk why, but when I find an otherwise average looking girl that likes me for whatever reason, it turns me on a little bit. I find that it's usually not girls that I would've like immediately, yet they still have something that makes them attractive. It's an esteem booster and a turn on.

[Dedicatedforlife]

The only girl to ever ask me out, is my current gf of 3 years. Funny, only real relationship that worked out.

[SpiderSense]

way to generalize...i have approached pretty much every boyfriend...im a go getter

If/when I have a daughter that's how I'm gonna raise her.

Life's too short to settle for whatever comes your way.

[Onisac]

Chicks will usually give out hints so you can ask them out. In example, a girl I worked with who seemed into me would say **** like "Ah, it's boring. I have nothing to do after work. I want to go out!". She did that a few times but I ignored since I wasn't really interested, she ended up clearly asking me out another day though. It turned out she's a bitch and kind of messed up in the head. I won't go for chicks who ask me out anymore. My reasoning is that if she had the "balls" to ask me out, she'll do the same with other guys so she's probably a girl who sleeps around a lot (as this one was).

[H8Masculinity06]

one more thing if you have insecurites or anything weird about you get them fixed ASAP. It will make you more attractive to women.

i'm jealous on how women are allowed to have insecurities and still easily get guys, but guys can't be insecure and get a girl

[Barba01]

a girl approached me once...with a can of pepper spray

[Raiders75]

My wife approuched me and said she had know me since high shcool and had a crush on me, I then asked her 2 dinner and she made me wait 2 months 2 have sex. When we did finally have sex she rubbed my back,blew me,licked my balls and let me finish doggy style on her ass. She then got up and made me a steak sandwich and gator-aid. I fell in love instantly

[Ashfrolicious]

a girl approached me once...with a can of pepper spray

Lawl... have some measly reps, sir

[moosik85]

lmao this makes me think of my best friend. She's a pretty girl and shes never really had a relationship and shes a virgin, which most people (including me) think is weird because shes obviously a cute girl with a fun personality. Her standards are absolutely ridiculous. No joke, they have to be at least 6 foot...have a nice body...be able to sing well...be able to dance well......its laughable. im like, babeeee...if your lookin for zach efron..good luck with that. p.s. this is why all of the guys that she has liked/hung out with in the past seem borderline homosexual. its actually extremely annoying because i have guy friends that i feel are a good fit for her, ive introduced her...but no..they dont meet any of these standards. and she complains all the time that shes alone...she need to have an open mind and give guys a chance...grr

endrant

Let me guess:
Spoiled, upper-middle class girl, single kid. Over-protective dad, girly-girl mom?

^ are you wizards?

Described my Gf word for word.

[GtRppdOrDieTryn]

I've done internet dating, and there's certainly no females around to judge me. And I STILL won't approach a male, or ask him out on a date. It doesn't 'feel' right, so I won't do it.

So I think it goes a lot deeper than things like judgment, or even a fear of being rejected. I believe there might be more truth that it has something to do with instinct (which I tend to be very aware of).

When it comes to how I personally deal with men, I reject following the feminist, or modern doctrines. Feminism is good in regard to my work ethic, having an education, or leading an adventurous life. But I simply don't share this sentiment in regard to relationships with the opposite sex, or the way I enjoy starting them.

No Offence I wouldn't date you if u put a shotgun to my head

[ryan646]

Girls do approach you...in their own strange way. They will maybe talk to u, give u a weird look, keep looking at u, it's ur job as a man to pick up on that. I know it's dumb and it's soooo indirect but sometimes we miss out because we don't catch the clues. Meanwhile, some girls who do go up to u directly that I'm not always fond of..makes them seem trashy for some reason at Least to me it does. Usually young chicks who are like 18 who unfortunately I seem to attract a ton off
These little girls have their friend go up to me "hey ur cute my friend really likes u" her friend blushes. I say hi maybe give them a hug n kiss on the cheek to introduce myself....but bro little girls are easy, Ryan, Ryan wants a Woman my dude! It's a huge difference!

[H8Masculinity06]

Girls do approach you...in their own strange way. They will maybe talk to u, give u a weird look, keep looking at u, it's ur job as a man to pick up on that. I know it's dumb and it's soooo indirect but sometimes we miss out because we don't catch the clues. Meanwhile, some girls who do go up to u directly that I'm not always fond of..makes them seem trashy for some reason at Least to me it does. Usually young chicks who are like 18 who unfortunately I seem to attract a ton off
These little girls have their friend go up to me "hey ur cute my friend really likes u" her friend blushes. I say hi maybe give them a hug n kiss on the cheek to introduce myself....but bro little girls are easy, Ryan, Ryan wants a Woman my dude! It's a huge difference!

yeah, what i've noticed, is that high-school girls are more likely to approach guys than college girls are

[AddictiveMuscle]

Girls approach, but it's usually something a lot more subtle and funny (albeit pathetic):

-Moving into the same vicinity as you.
-Walking up and asking you for the time (a good way for her to attempt without getting rejected).
-Checking her cell phone near you


...the list goes on.

Go on.......

[jamestown0101]

I don't remember if I posted in this thread before.

Because it always scares guys away. I've given my number and even gone for the first kiss and ****, makes them run away.

A lot of ******* men sit when they pee these days. **** ain't right. Then *******s rage about cheating. I do not condone or insinuate it makes it right however, it does explain a lot. If a man doesn't man up, there are more then enough willing guys up for the challenging of ringing your bell.

I know some guy who got hit on, girl came up and made out, and her just bertstared.jpg at her. Not even sure if this is real life right now?

I would have shown the skank the pile driver.