Don't ask questions you don't want to know the answer to. Simple as that.
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07-18-2012, 03:27 PM #31
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07-18-2012, 03:34 PM #32
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07-18-2012, 03:47 PM #33
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07-18-2012, 03:51 PM #34
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07-18-2012, 04:04 PM #35
relationship, probably not.
date casually for fun, why not?
However, if you are willing to have a ffm 3some if the opportunity would come about, don't fault this girl for actually doing what she thought would be fun. Don't be hypocritical.
And i'm 27. I don't know why everyone thinks there is a certain age to settle down. I'm having fun dating, and if the girl is cool enough, relationship women. If the right one comes along, then maybe i'd settle down. But I don't go out with the idea that i should be settling down, and hunt for that woman.
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07-18-2012, 04:36 PM #36
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07-18-2012, 04:43 PM #37
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07-18-2012, 04:56 PM #38
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if you were serious about her, why would you not want to know? And like others have said, if you're smashing then who gives a fuk? She could've been trained on by the whole high school football team for all i care.
as ive said before....a mff=/a mmf threesome.
girl who's been in a mmf=classless whore
girl who's been in a mff=sexual deviant
both are disturbing, but one isnt nearly as bad. Annoying as fuk when people try to hold men and women to the same standards. A dude banging 20 chicks isnt as bad as a girl banging 20 guys.
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07-18-2012, 05:20 PM #39
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07-18-2012, 05:22 PM #40
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07-18-2012, 05:23 PM #41
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07-18-2012, 05:31 PM #42
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07-18-2012, 05:58 PM #44
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07-18-2012, 05:59 PM #45
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07-18-2012, 06:12 PM #46
Actually, it's annoying as fuk when people aren't able to say why they believe something, and just do it because others are doing it. If we lived with that mentality, we'd still be owning slaves and thinking the world is flat. Thoughts should evolve with the times. If I was a girl, I'd probably phuck 2 dudes at the same time.
I'm not saying I don't see it as a red flag, but you should know why you feel the way you do, rather than just feeling it.
IMO, its all situational. If a girl had 2 dudes approach her and they both try to phuck her and she's like "whatever i'm a whore i'll phuck whatever", sure. I'm not down for a girl like that. But I don't really see much wrong with a girl who wants to try getting phucked by 2 dudes at the same time and hits her friends up and asks if both of them are interested.
Maybe I'm not a sexual prude though, I think it's the responsibility and the thought behind the action that are more important than the action itself in MANY cases (not all).
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07-18-2012, 07:46 PM #47
No, I wouldn't seriously date a chick who's had a mmf threesome. Even if her husband (ex) forced her to do it or threatened divorce. I never ask but I had a chick not too long bring up the fact that she was tag teamed by two brothers (not black guys), actual blood related brothers. I responded with "Really?" and she said "Sure, why not?".......okay. She also told me she had a 15 y/o fuck buddy when she was 21. She instantly lost any chance of being my GF and was promptly demoted to fuck buddy status... she was kinda on the fence to begin with so that made the decision a lot easier for me.
However, I could easily date a chick who's bi and has had ffm threesomes before..
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07-18-2012, 08:07 PM #48
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Basically this, you want to go around and have fun while your young sticking your dick in anything that has a hole. You grew up outta that, she did the same thing. Its funny how its ok for men to go around and do whatever they like but it isnt ok for a woman. I'll judge a guy just as equally that goes around ****ing everything.
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07-18-2012, 08:59 PM #49
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except i wasnt getting pounded when i was whoring around, she was. Dont give me that crap about men and women being the same in sexual terms. It's MUCH worse for a woman to sleep around than it is a man. Women have a greater chance of getting stds, etc.
and lettuce beef reality...i fuk 2 bishes and everyone thinks im the man including the bishes i banged.
she fuks two guys and everyone thinks she's a whore including the guys that fuked her.4k+ my friends call me Ras
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07-18-2012, 09:16 PM #50
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07-18-2012, 09:18 PM #51
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07-18-2012, 09:23 PM #52
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Thats societys view which isnt mine, aside from diseases which both can be checked. A man sleeping around is just as bad as a woman, it shows what kind of character that person is, its funny seeing a man brag about how many women he has slept with look down on a woman that has had a few partners. He is just a big of a whore as she is.
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07-18-2012, 09:31 PM #53
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07-18-2012, 10:45 PM #54
I agree that this is society's viewpoint. TBH, the amount of partners and sexual exploits a girl has had means nothing to me.
The thing is, it's the manner of how. If she got herself stupid wasted, then let any person have sex with her, then ya I have a problem with that. If she was emotionally damaged and filled the void with sex, I have a problem with that as well. I don't want damaged goods I guess. Sadly, in this day and age, most girls who have had a LOT of sex, also are damaged goods. They usually are complete emotional wrecks. It'll probably take another 100-200 years before it's normal to find girls that have had a lot of sex, and are also completely normal. But at the moment, if a girl tells me she has had a lot of sex, I normally view it as a red flag, because EVERY girl I know who has been passed around is extremely emotionally damaged.
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07-18-2012, 11:01 PM #55
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"Societies view" goes back to the dawn of humanity. This isn't some new idea that men and women are different. Men and women ARE different. Why does everyone try so hard to maintain this "men and women must be equal" crap? Women are better at some things, men are better at some things. We're biologically different and society is a reflection of that, and this goes back a loooooong time.
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07-18-2012, 11:08 PM #56
Since the dawn of time we've enslaved people. So should we continue enslaving people? After all, not everyone is equal, we are different, and our society was a reflection of that.
Since the dawn of time we thought the world was flat. Society was a reflection of that, and it went back a long time. If you thought the world was round you were persecuted and killed. Perhaps we should continue that.
Our knowledge grows exponentially. I don't agree that women and men are equal, I just think the reasons people avoid women who have had many sexual partners is more than that it's wrong by society. I think it's an instinct that women who have had many sexual partners generally are phucked up humans, and thus men instinctively avoid it and look down upon it.
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07-18-2012, 11:28 PM #58
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