Women who put 'Full Time Mum' as their employer.

[Trinity1216]

MY wife stays at home with our two kids because it makes more sense then working and forking out most of the check to day care...

However, after this summer they are both going to be in school full time so she's well aware, and she agrees, that it's time to get a job.

That is what most women do.

The first years of a child's life are the most important and most formative years so the Mom or Dad (if mom is not around) should spend as much time with the child as possible. But once they go to school there is no reason why a mom cannot get a job during those hours.

I think OP is clumping a few bad apples in with ALL women being like that. I think there are more mom out there work and raise their kids than not.

[ZimosThePimp]

Many of my bishes are mothers and they still be bringing me my money

What's their excuse?

[gycraig]

Obviously you never had a loving, nurturing mother in your life OP.

You have no clue what it takes to raise a responsible young adult, so your entire post is invalid!

yer cause someone who raises a kid purely on benefits with a father that wants nothing to do with it is the best role model you could have in a life.

if your a full time house wife cause your boyfriend/husband works fair play. if your sitting back on benefits popping kids out while the fathers are no where to be seen id say your doing your child a disservice ...

if your a stay at home mum your a house wife, your not a full time mummy.

if your a young girl who got knocked up by a guy who you barely know and dont speak to anymore your a "full time yummy mummy,yolo"

i dont believe the standard benefit claiming single young mum is a great parent. if a child grows up watching his mummy sit on her arse eating twinkies watching tele, its hardly inspiration to do well at school

[EngRWW33]

So raising and nurturing your children is a 'job', then why have them? I hate cleaning the dishes, changing the oil, hoovering the house...

Raising and nurturing is too general. Yes, changing ****ty diapers, feeding, cleaning up after, etc... is a responsibility that a stay at home mother takes on, therefore in definition is a job.

[stonefacekilla]

im guessing OP doesnt have kids

in my opinion one parent needs to stay at home with the child until the age of 2 minimum. I fully object to any of my children going into daycare before this age (playgroup is fine but its usually 1/2 hours max per day). If people want kids, then they should be prepared to raise them properly and if need be put their careers on hold.

Also i wouldnt want my child developing a bond with a stranger at that age because its not fair on the child.

i work 60 hours a week, my wife works 15 hours a week and looks after the kids, i take care of them in the mornings whilst she does her 3 hours per day work. I manage a team of over 30 people and handle several million euros worth of payments a day and its way easier than running around after kids all morning. I am relived to go to work sometimes to get a break. I think my kids are great, brilliant behavior, i can only imagine what some parents have on their hands with kids brought up with no discipline, it must be really hard on the parents.

its harder than most jobs imo, just wait until you hear your child cry, that sound man, it goes through my ears, its like we are programmed to get stressed with their cries.

[Trinity1216]

yer cause someone who raises a kid purely on benefits with a father that wants nothing to do with it is the best role model you could have in a life.

if your a full time house wife cause your boyfriend/husband works fair play. if your sitting back on benefits popping kids out while the fathers are no where to be seen id say your doing your child a disservice ...

You are totally off base here. Who said anything about welfare mom's ITT? That's an entirely different issue.

[PimpDelicious]

i cant take a girl srs if another man has blown his beans in her

[Milamber]

My mum was a full time mum and raised 3 children.

Once we were all at highschool she got a job because she had time to work.

so **** you OP

[Vaen]

MY wife stays at home with our two kids because it makes more sense then working and forking out most of the check to day care...

However, after this summer they are both going to be in school full time so she's well aware, and she agrees, that it's time to get a job.

This. I'm in the same situation.

Btw, I'd take my desk job any day over being a stay at home parent. I love my kids to death, but they will suck the life right out of you.

[dtoxUK]

im guessing OP doesnt have kids

in my opinion one parent needs to stay at home with the child until the age of 2 minimum. I fully object to any of my children going into daycare before this age (playgroup is fine but its usually 1/2 hours max per day). If people want kids, then they should be prepared to raise them prepoerly and if need be put their careers on hold.

Also i wouldnt want my child developing a bond with a stranger at that age because its not fair on the child.

i work 60 hours a week, my wife works 15 hours a week and looks after the kids, i take care of them in the mornings whilst she does her 3 hours per day work. I manage a team of over 30 people and handle several million euros worth of payments a day and its way easier than running around after kids all morning. I am relived to go to work sometimes to get a break. I think my kids are great, brilliant behavior, i can only imagine what some parents have on their hands with kids brought up with no discipline, it must be really hard on the parents.

But does she label her role as 'a full time mom?' No, i doubt it, which is perfectly okay and it sounds like you got a great family. I'm talking about single mums who maybe have ONE kid, don't work, live off benefits/partner and claim its a 'full time job' while uploading a bazillion pics of their kids on ******** having the time of their life.

[Crease1234]

In my opinion, the reason why we are seeing so many spoilt, ungrateful, ******* (guys) and sloot (girls) kids these days is because we don't have enough stay-at-home moms.

[tbonez3858]

Its the "hardest job in the world" so why wouldnt you OP?

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Edit - Wizard above ----FUUU!

[Trinity1216]

Raising and nurturing is too general. Yes, changing ****ty diapers, feeding, cleaning up after, etc... is a responsibility that a stay at home mother takes on, therefore in definition is a job.

Don't forget as they get older driving them around to all the different activities they are involved in, and the parent meetings at schools, and the social functions they get invited to. On top of that add taking care of their significant others, cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping. If you were to break each job down and actually put a monetary figure on what it would cost you to pay someone else to do those things it would cost a fortune.

[jamie93]

Obviously you never had a loving, nurturing mother in your life OP.

You have no clue what it takes to raise a responsible young adult, so your entire post is invalid!

my mum raised me exceptionally well in every sense. I am very lucky to have her.

But she also managed to have a job (in addition to my father's larger earning job) for my whole life.

In fact, she has been made redundant from about 5 different companies in 18 years. But the point is she consistently worked.

Lol at stay as home mum hurr durr that's my life bs

[1010101]

u wot m8?

[gycraig]

You are totally off base here. Who said anything about welfare mom's ITT? That's an entirely different issue.

"full time mummy" is standardly put as a job on ******** etc because thats how they "earn" there money.

most girls i know who have got bfs or w.e have put "house wife"

you get PAID for a JOB, SINGLE none working women get PAID to raise kids.

for the first year or 2 a woman should be there for there kids, if where talking the standard biological family. if the boyfriend earns enough why would the woman stress her out with taking kids to carers working then coming home and caring for the kids.

[EngRWW33]

Don't forget as they get older driving them around to all the different activities they are involved in, and the parent meetings at schools, and the social functions they get invited to. On top of that add taking care of their significant others, cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping. If you were to break each job down and actually put a monetary figure on what it would cost you to pay someone else to do those things it would cost a fortune.

I lucked out and married a school teacher so she will be able to do all those things that I could never do on my own.

I work ~50 hours per week. A full time mom, 120. M-F

[5x10]

Lol at stay as home mum hurr durr that's my life bs

lol. Which day care mommy do you miss the most?
Or was it a nanny?

It almost as if most adults should be willing to let the best time of your child's life slip through your fingers so you can go to work
Backwards ass logic

[Trinity1216]

But does she label her role as 'a full time mom?' No, i doubt it, which is perfectly okay and it sounds like you got a great family. I'm talking about single mums who maybe have ONE kid, don't work, live off benefits/partner and claim its a 'full time job' while uploading a bazillion pics of their kids on ******** having the time of their life.

See you did not say that in your OP! That's an entirely different issue. You should NOT clump all mom's together, because quite honestly that is offensive.

[Menark]

Just reading through the list of things my union wants the employer to impliment is 12 weeks of PAID maternity leave. So basically women think they deserve 3 months worth of pay for sitting around on their fat ass doing nothing.

[ClothesRod]

my mom was a stay at home mom.
she raised me and my 2 brothers. we all turned out very well.
i honestly think a stay at home mom does children alot of good, we SHOULD want women to be stay at home moms.


only problem is when they are stay at home and lazy moms. i remember when my mom raised me we would go on trips to park and beach, but also the post office alot because my mom helped a family friend run a small business, she also made some money for her help.
i have fond memories of helping her get stuff ready to get mailed.

when me and my brothers were in school she volunteered at our school

she ran every single fundraiser at our school the entire time me and my bros were there, she got us new sports equipment and a whole ****ing computer lab. . .

and it was more than just school barbecue days. we would have local businesses donate stuff. and i remember big radio station form our town coming and hosting a auction live and over the air from our school. all run by my mother.


every single teacher i had in middle school had told me my mother has done more for the school than most people who worked there ever would.


she then got a job when me and my bros were in highschool.


so being a full time housewife is not always bad OP.


if i can put my wife in a position where she can give my kids what i had i would do it in a ****ing heartbeat without a second thought.

[gycraig]

Just reading through the list of things my union wants the employer to impliment is 12 weeks of PAID maternity leave. So basically women think they deserve 3 months worth of pay for sitting around on their fat ass doing nothing.

maternity pay really pisses me off. why should the employer have to pay someone there wage for 3 months while the woman is at home with a kid that she CHOSE to have. and then have to pay someone on a temporary contract to do the womans job until she comes back, which she might not even do

when i worked in a bookies i was doing rediculous hours covering shifts as we had 5 people off on maternity leave in the town and i was helping cover other shops

[DrCeefax]

There are plenty of women who have gone above and beyond to raise their children and instill in them a strong sense of work ethics and morals. You two obviously have had the fortunate experience of being raised by strong loving woman! Major respect to both your moms!

Yep, I look around society today and I realise just how lucky I was to have such a mum. Fortunately im in a position now where she and my dad never have to work again, but she is always looking to do something good with her life.

[iLoLd]

My mum was a single mum who raised me and my sibling doing work anywhere she could whilst pursuing a degree, cleaning rich peoples houses.

Being a parent is a natural life choice that has been around since the dawn of time. Why should women take it and twist it into a 'job role' so that she can garner some kind of 'respect' from society when shes only fulfilling a role she was born to fulfill any way. It's not a job, you don't have to get up and go somewhere you hate with a passion where you are completely out of control and under the command of your employer. Where you can't leisurely sit and watch TV in the comfort of your home with a nice warm cup of tea while the kid/baby sleeps like 2-3-4 hours during the day. Or go outside to the park on a hot sunny day and enjoy the sunshine. Surely being a parent, if it is a 'job', is one of the most fulfilling jobs in the world. So why label it 'full time mom' like its a phucking chore. And its hardly 'full time' any way, its part-time while i watch my ****ty daytime programs and enjoy my hot cup of tea on the sofa.

f************kinggggggggg NAILED IT

[jaybeedee]

If anything, I respect stay at home moms that actually take care of their kids and play an active role in their life when they given the opportunity to do so.

TLDR OP was raised by a sloot.

[taow]

My jimmies feel this pain, no hate on hardworking mums but 90% of the ones in my town are the type that follow the ol 'baby and a man, check, time to get fat' lifestyle.

Hardest job ever, brb

"omg who else is watching dr phil, some people just dont deserve children"
*I have one kid, listen to me preach my skills
"who is on ellen today?"
"dropped kid at day care, vacuumed, now time for some well earnt rest"
*uploads another 50 iphone photos of their offspring

[Trinity1216]

Just reading through the list of things my union wants the employer to impliment is 12 weeks of PAID maternity leave. So basically women think they deserve 3 months worth of pay for sitting around on their fat ass doing nothing.

Are you serious???? Do you even have the slightest clue what a woman's body goes through during child birth? Please not a single man has the right to express an opinion on something they will never ever have the opportunity to experience. Passing the biggest kidney stone in the world is still a walk in the park compared to childbirth.

3 months maternity leave is totally acceptable, it give the mom time to recover and time to bond with the child.

I find it funny that a bunch of males discussing motherhood. That's like me trying to have an opinion on male issues. Since I am not a man I will never ever know what you guys will experience and cannot comment with confidence that I know.

[captainhorseboy]

if i had kids and could afford to let my wife stay at home with them i would

its good for the kids

[Doug-]

Mom raised two kids while going through college and working.
She never boasts about how hard it was. I'm glad for that.

[5x10]

Mom raised two kids while going through college and working.
She never boasts about how hard it was. I'm glad for that.

No offense but did she really raise you then?
I mean, you were with her at work the whole time, or at school?
Raising and supporting are 2 different things