Misc whats the punishment for a ******* trying to get my gf to cheat on me???

[BoilerUpIndy]

Location: Taiwan


**** just got real.

nah brah OP is in Indiana...the ******* who he's talking about actually lives 5 minutes from me in the next town

[Autopilot]

edit...


that was the **** that was nailing oPs GF

[psychnurse2012]

in for some updates

[.Locus]

since you were logged in, why didn't you remove him as a friend and block him from your gf's ********?
unless your gf is gonna go out of her way to talk to him again, she'll just assume he's never online etc
and this kid won't be able to message her anymore.

[James40]

In!

[250rider]

UPDATE:
-Corys GF just said thanks for showing her and that he has a lot of issues. LOL
-I sent message to Cory that went like this,
"Lets make this simple, **** OFF!!!"



P.S. Good luck with your trustworthy, honest relationship goals for 2012!

-Asked GF if she wanted to talk to me about anything... she played dumb for awhile, I told her to quit playing stupid, and then she goes it must be about my convo with Cory.(Women are genius) I basically blew up on her and she started pulling "I dont deserve you, what can I do to make it up to you, etc. So I said lets just break up! Nows she freaking the fuark out and saying sorry and she will never speak to a guy again...


Will update later

[AirCanada]

UPDATE:
-Corys GF just said thanks for showing her and that he has a lot of issues. LOL
-I sent message to Cory that went like this,
"Lets make this simple, **** OFF!!!"



P.S. Good luck with your trustworthy, honest relationship goals for 2012!

-Asked GF if she wanted to talk to me about anything... she played dumb for awhile, I told her to quit playing stupid, and then she goes it must be about my convo with Cory.(Women are genius) I basically blew up on her and she started pulling "I dont deserve you, what can I do to make it up to you, etc. So I said lets just break up! Nows she freaking the fuark out and saying sorry and she will never speak to a guy again...


Will update later

OP don't bother, break it off, trust is fragile and people don't change that easily. On to the next one.

[HIIT]

Oh OP. I read the chat - and I realise you've been with you're girlfriend two years but:

- even engaging with a guy who she's had sex with is cause to be annoyed. She has nothing much with him but a past sexual relationship.
Plus I don't buy guys and girls can be good friends and I think it's often dubious when they have an ex as a friend; but this is just a sexual fling without the emotions of a long term ex.

- she NEVER turns him down
She says 'I dunno' - which any single guy knows means yes, but not right now to make it seem less slutty.
She also says you might not find me attractive - that's an indicator of interest. She's asking the guy to affirm her attractiveness and to smooch her some more. That bit really annoyed me because I've had girls do that sort of thing, before hooking up with them.

You think it was all him hitting on her? I'm not so sure - she created it. She said to a guy she'd had a sexual fling, that you weren't doing good. No, that's not what she said exactly, but she's giving him the opening. You don't just say to a stranger; oh we've had our ups and downs. You don't. You say 'yes it's going very well thanks, we love each other very much' etc etc. You might tell your best friend BUT you don't tell a guy who might still want to ****. This is what girls do!!!

Understand why you might have needed something more to end it -- but you shouldn't be mad at the guy. He has no responsibility to you. If he hits on your girlfriend, and she says no, go away; that's fine. If she says no repeatedly, and starts bothering her - then yes, cause for concern. But the ONLY person responsible to you is HER. Personally, I would have waited it out and see if she continued and would have watched for signs - watched her body language, if she did it, then you'd try to spy, catch her laptop etc etc...

Personally, I think what she has written is good cause for a breakup. I would probably do it in your situation.

Edit: sounds like you're probably going to forgive her. Your choice. I wouldn't.

[Tarnor]

So, you two are no longer together..

More pics with less clothes?

[DJWager]

update:
-corys gf just said thanks for showing her and that he has a lot of issues. Lol
-i sent message to cory that went like this,
"lets make this simple, **** off!!!"



p.s. Good luck with your trustworthy, honest relationship goals for 2012!

-asked gf if she wanted to talk to me about anything... She played dumb for awhile, i told her to quit playing stupid, and then she goes it must be about my convo with cory.(women are genius) i basically blew up on her and she started pulling "i dont deserve you, what can i do to make it up to you, etc. So i said lets just break up! Nows she freaking the fuark out and saying sorry and she will never speak to a guy again...


Will update later

gjdm

[Freek314]

gjdm

Rep him, *******. He deserves it for manning up and moving on.

[slimshaheed]

Oh OP. I read the chat - and I realise you've been with you're girlfriend two years but:

- even engaging with a guy who she's had sex with is cause to be annoyed. She has nothing much with him but a past sexual relationship.
Plus I don't buy guys and girls can be good friends and I think it's often dubious when they have an ex as a friend; but this is just a sexual fling without the emotions of a long term ex.

- she NEVER turns him down
She says 'I dunno' - which any single guy knows means yes, but not right now to make it seem less slutty.
She also says you might not find me attractive - that's an indicator of interest. She's asking the guy to affirm her attractiveness and to smooch her some more. That bit really annoyed me because I've had girls do that sort of thing, before hooking up with them.

You think it was all him hitting on her? I'm not so sure - she created it. She said to a guy she'd had a sexual fling, that you weren't doing good. No, that's not what she said exactly, but she's giving him the opening. You don't just say to a stranger; oh we've had our ups and downs. You don't. You say 'yes it's going very well thanks, we love each other very much' etc etc. You might tell your best friend BUT you don't tell a guy who might still want to ****. This is what girls do!!!

Understand why you might have needed something more to end it -- but you shouldn't be mad at the guy. He has no responsibility to you. If he hits on your girlfriend, and she says no, go away; that's fine. If she says no repeatedly, and starts bothering her - then yes, cause for concern. But the ONLY person responsible to you is HER. Personally, I would have waited it out and see if she continued and would have watched for signs - watched her body language, if she did it, then you'd try to spy, catch her laptop etc etc...

Personally, I think what she has written is good cause for a breakup. I would probably do it in your situation.

Edit: sounds like you're probably going to forgive her. Your choice. I wouldn't.

So much fuking win in this post

[stevealaniz]

In after updates...

GJDM

Edit: Measley reps and more pics *******

[Muneyy]

UPDATE:
-Corys GF just said thanks for showing her and that he has a lot of issues. LOL
-I sent message to Cory that went like this,
"Lets make this simple, **** OFF!!!"



P.S. Good luck with your trustworthy, honest relationship goals for 2012!

-Asked GF if she wanted to talk to me about anything... she played dumb for awhile, I told her to quit playing stupid, and then she goes it must be about my convo with Cory.(Women are genius) I basically blew up on her and she started pulling "I dont deserve you, what can I do to make it up to you, etc. So I said lets just break up! Nows she freaking the fuark out and saying sorry and she will never speak to a guy again...


Will update later

If you act now, you might be able to PIITB. Also, post more pics of GF

[NeoginCF]

UPDATE:
-Corys GF just said thanks for showing her and that he has a lot of issues. LOL
-I sent message to Cory that went like this,
"Lets make this simple, **** OFF!!!"



P.S. Good luck with your trustworthy, honest relationship goals for 2012!

-Asked GF if she wanted to talk to me about anything... she played dumb for awhile, I told her to quit playing stupid, and then she goes it must be about my convo with Cory.(Women are genius) I basically blew up on her and she started pulling "I dont deserve you, what can I do to make it up to you, etc. So I said lets just break up! Nows she freaking the fuark out and saying sorry and she will never speak to a guy again...


Will update later

Yes, proceed

[250rider]

To the guys negging me, you really are true *******s. Like I give a ****!

[Freek314]

To the guys negging me, you really are true *******s. Like I give a ****!

They seem to be low rep *******s, seeing as how your rep hasnt fallen since I repped you.

[damirrorisntrdy]

They seem to be low rep *******s, seeing as how your rep hasnt fallen since I repped you.

OP; I've thought about this from my one previous gf. I would flirt with this one girl in particular, let it get as far as front grinding but did not make out with her. I did not cheat or break up with my gf for her.

However, I would NEVER do that shtt with my current girlfriend because I really really like her.

The reason I would do it with the first and not the current gf is because with my first gf I was unhappy with the relationship, I knew I had her wrapped around my finger and I could do shhtt like that and she wouldn't be able to do anything about it. I did not respect her.

tl;dr your gf does not respect you but it does not mean she would cheat on you. In fact what is more likely is that she wants to break up with you b/c she is unhappy with the relationship. My relationship ended 2-3 weeks after that front grinding incident because I realized I didn't actually like my exgf anymore


EDIT: Confirmed by ""I dont deserve you". Break up with her now before she does it to you. She's looking for a way out of a relationship she isn't happy with anymore, she lost attractiveness to you. It happens. Move on

[mm55]

They seem to be low rep *******s, seeing as how your rep hasnt fallen since I repped you.

he's all set now, won't go red.

[asd60303]

OP...if i was this cory dude, i'd be trying to cheat on my GF too. Chin is more strong than jay leno's.

[Contribution05]

Oh OP. I read the chat - and I realise you've been with you're girlfriend two years but:

- even engaging with a guy who she's had sex with is cause to be annoyed. She has nothing much with him but a past sexual relationship.
Plus I don't buy guys and girls can be good friends and I think it's often dubious when they have an ex as a friend; but this is just a sexual fling without the emotions of a long term ex.

- she NEVER turns him down
She says 'I dunno' - which any single guy knows means yes, but not right now to make it seem less slutty.
She also says you might not find me attractive - that's an indicator of interest. She's asking the guy to affirm her attractiveness and to smooch her some more. That bit really annoyed me because I've had girls do that sort of thing, before hooking up with them.

You think it was all him hitting on her? I'm not so sure - she created it. She said to a guy she'd had a sexual fling, that you weren't doing good. No, that's not what she said exactly, but she's giving him the opening. You don't just say to a stranger; oh we've had our ups and downs. You don't. You say 'yes it's going very well thanks, we love each other very much' etc etc. You might tell your best friend BUT you don't tell a guy who might still want to ****. This is what girls do!!!

Understand why you might have needed something more to end it -- but you shouldn't be mad at the guy. He has no responsibility to you. If he hits on your girlfriend, and she says no, go away; that's fine. If she says no repeatedly, and starts bothering her - then yes, cause for concern. But the ONLY person responsible to you is HER. Personally, I would have waited it out and see if she continued and would have watched for signs - watched her body language, if she did it, then you'd try to spy, catch her laptop etc etc...

Personally, I think what she has written is good cause for a breakup. I would probably do it in your situation.

Edit: sounds like you're probably going to forgive her. Your choice. I wouldn't.

This OP. Don't take her back. EVERY girl cries and throws apologies left, right, and center in hopes you don't break up with them. But ignore her apologies and tears, they don't mean sh*t. Her actions already show she can't be trusted, and you deserve a better girl than that.

Do not cave, as even after you break up she will probably keep contacting you for a month or two or 3 even trying to get back with you and you must hold firm and ignore her after you dump her.

[anonymous]

tears do not equal forgiveness... move on

[CrazyClimber]

You will be back together in a week and she will just actually fuk some guy next time, lol

[Freek314]

You will be back together in a week and she will just actually fuk some guy next time, lol

Negged on recharge you beta *******. Stop projecting.

[ThaBadGuy]

OP better check ya bish man....(srs)

If that ******* the slightly of game, she'd be zuckin' his dik right now

[Kc17]

Repped OP, gjdm

[brahmiester1]

well done OP

[Pad264]

OP, I read the convo. If that was my gf, not only would I never trust her again, but it might ruin my relationship with her. In addition, I'd probably send the convo to that guys gf. If I ever saw him in person, I'd break his face.

And I don't know what's been going on in this thread, but any beta loser that disagrees and calls me "over controlling" is insane. All it takes is ONE CRACK -- one moment of weakness during a strain in your relationship -- and she'll cheat on you. I've written this a million times: EVERYONE IS AS FAITHFUL AS HIS/HER OPTIONS.

[250rider]

Fuark you guys gotta see laurens response to me messaging her lol... ill post it up in a couple min!

[Fiz-iks]

go go go