Anyone else not feel like marrying no matter how good the girl is? Just spending the rest of their life with multiple gf's until they're almost 40 and then marrying a 25 year old chick?
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09-01-2011, 08:31 PM #1Banned
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Any guys not planning on marrying until mid/late 30's?
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09-01-2011, 08:38 PM #2I <3 Police
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why get married at all..
Just live with the person you love, without the legal contract.
Seems simple enough to me. Any woman that refuses these terms is a needy community approval whore.----
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09-01-2011, 08:40 PM #3Banned
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I don't feel right living with a woman. It'd make cheating on her difficult...Originally Posted by Atlas_Army
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09-01-2011, 08:42 PM #4I <3 Police
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wait.. so you wanna get married.. and not live together?Originally Posted by Thy_Kingdom
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09-01-2011, 08:43 PM #5Banned
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Nah, apologies for the confusion. If I decided to marry I would live with wife. But for gfs? Hell naw. Bish can leave her pj's at home, she aint' stayin the night.Originally Posted by Atlas_Army
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09-01-2011, 08:45 PM #7I <3 Police
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Originally Posted by Thy_Kingdom
WAIT...
So the only difference is the title? Really? does her being your wife vs your gf make any difference?(assuming the bond is equally as strong in both cases)----
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09-01-2011, 08:47 PM #8Banned
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Well, marriage shows you're committed.Originally Posted by Atlas_Army
/chick logic
LOL the only difference is when you have a wife; she'll bear your children. After all, isn't that the only reason to wife women?
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09-01-2011, 08:49 PM #9Registered User
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Originally Posted by Thy_Kingdom
Pretty much my life plan when it comes to women. Marriage? Never!
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09-01-2011, 08:51 PM #10I <3 Police
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Originally Posted by Thy_Kingdom
TBH, as it stands I dont even see myself siging that contract ever. People say opinions change but I highly doubt ill give in to the pressure. I would do the whole family thing, get a girl who lives with me and even be "committted" but I dont see marriage as a feasible option. Not now, not ever.
As for kids, why get them when youre married? WHy do you want to sign the dotted line, does the thought of the ceremony excite you? Any chick you want to marry should still be willing to stay with you regardless of whether you put the ring on it. my 2cents----
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09-01-2011, 08:56 PM #11uberschwert
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Mid 30s probably.
But sh*t, I'm an idealist.A hit was sent, from the President, to raid your residence /
Because you had secret evidence, and documents /
On how they raped the continents, and it's the prominent /
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09-01-2011, 08:59 PM #12Registered User
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Shocked you intend to get married? Prenup brah. That and marriage contract. Also, hide **** in your mom's name and make arrangements in the will so ppl know that **** is yours. Also, hide money in offshore accounts if married. Only way I get married, bitch will have more then me.Originally Posted by sword_
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09-01-2011, 09:01 PM #13uberschwert
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Like I said I'm an idealist lol...of course a contract. Nothing is finite.Originally Posted by jamestown0101
I would like to think there is someone for everyone...hopeless romantic. Maybe not in America though, huh?A hit was sent, from the President, to raid your residence /
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09-01-2011, 09:06 PM #14Registered User
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One of my friends is off the boat Asian. Straight up gangster. Married but, he has a back up plan in case **** goes south. You got to these days man. Always tells me to get away from American women and the train wrecks I seem to hump. He and other foreign friends speak of alternative lifestyles, alternatives to whores, sluts, and hoes. The sense of entitlement of a American woman, her role in the world, society and everything is just wack. Its a complete mess these days. Likely, if I am ever married it will be 1) a rich chick 2) a foreigner who knows her ****ing role!Originally Posted by sword_
Any way, I wish you luck with the girls brah!
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09-01-2011, 09:07 PM #15I <3 Police
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pretty sure the vows involved something along the lines of death to us part.Originally Posted by sword_
Dont kno bout you folks but no chick is worth dying for.
And since I take my word rather seriously I dont see why I would even bother putting myself in that situation, I still dont understand one logical reason to get married.
NOT ONE.----
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09-01-2011, 09:14 PM #16Registered User
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RESPECT. 3033 reps is well justified. Age 21? Smart beyond your years.Originally Posted by Atlas_Army
Growing up, I thought this was the norm but, with age, things like God, marriage, and life are put into question. The only way I get married is to a rich chick over here or a foreigner outside my country. Also, I have yet to rule out a muslim country that allows for multiple wives. (SRS) Over in America, I am safer bending over in a shower while in jail then I am in a marriage with a woman. I'll leave this as an after thought for the misc brahs:
WHAT THE **** IS FOREVER EVEN MEAN TO YOU? More importantly, how much does a vow to be together or forever with a girl mean to you? Honestly think about this now. How often is it a girl says this or that, contradicts herself, her type of guy, steps outside the pretend person she tries to act like, and you see her for who and what she is? I just want to point out the contradictions that women say and what they do.With that said, how the **** can any intelligent man stake 50% of his possessions on that?
Men, you all need to start thinking, separating all the feelers and bull**** before you end up in a pile of your own emotional vomit.
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09-01-2011, 09:21 PM #17Balls to the Wall
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OP that is my plan. I don't wanna marry and have kids until my mid thirties.
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09-01-2011, 09:26 PM #18uberschwert
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It's for those who believe in monogamy. Certainly there's religious overtones to those vows but I mean you gotta protect yourself legally. Just hate how women nowadays are so ****ing trickle, transient, and so self-involved that they lack loyalty to their 'soulmate'.Originally Posted by Atlas_Army
Still though, thinking about my relatives relationships I can say that some of the men in my family weren't the best fathers/husbands sometimes. This is not guilt either I'm talking about not being a provider, being abusive, etc so I can't say always it's the woman's fault, though I've seen my uncle stay in a relationship too long with his wife and I saw the demise of it. Truly feel sorry for him because he's a good man. I've seen a lot of my good guy friends get burned in marriages. Not talking monetarily wise but just seeing them end for whatever reason.
I've said before that I've admired my mom for her qualities as a woman. I think I want to get married because I want a ****ing mother for my kids, not just someone who gave birth to them and have some broken nuclear family. I don't want that for my kids.A hit was sent, from the President, to raid your residence /
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09-01-2011, 09:42 PM #19Registered User
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RESPECTOriginally Posted by sword_
Its the few old school women, like your mom, my mom, your grandma, mine, and myDawg, and others who truly believe in standing by their man. Its not about running away with their kids and using them as a weapon or running up credit card bills to buy designer clothes and **** she cannot afford when she doesn't work. 9/10 girls today bail the sec **** isn't going right. Its as you say about loyalty but, hold your head up man cause, there are still good women out there. While most of my advice is geared towards crushing vagina, in a lot ways, this isn't helping ****. I am not so much helping society or the environment, I am making it worse in a way. At the same time, this is what we were left, and yes, we owe it to ourselves to make it better. What can i say? I enjoy sex. Its been a blast but, throughout these 26yrs, I can say, a few handful of girls were worth the time outside the bedroom. People change, have different things going on in their life, desires, dreams aspirations, and are really different people pending on a time in their life. To me, I am not so much sad to see things go or end but, happy to have just lived and experienced. I have that. It cannot be taken from me. I am sure my mom and dad would love to see a wedding invitation but, I've said to both, today, times are different. Women are wanting to be individuals but, marriage is suppose to be about union.
How can a guy risk 50% of everything he owns when in a lot of times, most of what is owned is his so, in a sense, its risking almost everything on some chick. How often has a girl said I only date white guys or brown guys or some bull**** type and you still **** her? How many times have you watched a girl contradict herself? How can a guy logically risk so much? I am not saying run your relationships like that **** donald trump but, you have to think business wise and girls will take you to the cleaners. My buddy is in deep and while he gave the world, for this bitch, it still was not enough. I am not saying he was a saint but, this bitch was a complete slob, never worked a day in her life but, she intends to take him to the cleaners. Its sick. Sword, I can vouch for the good women too. Such a thing does exist. Its not ever going to be perfect but, you got to be safe, and be open to new possibilities. Like Ascendant said, you are the only constant in your life. Nicely said.
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09-02-2011, 05:59 AM #20Banned
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brb this thread has turned me off from mid-30's marriage. Just gonna do what my boss does; date girls much younger than himself (he's 45, happiest man I've ever met). Told me to never marry.
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09-02-2011, 05:59 AM #21A Quest for Aesthetics!
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Unlike most of you I actually WANT to get married eventually.
Of course, it's probably because I'm stupid and naive and hold out hope i'll find a great girl and have one of those few and rare great marriages.
I still hold fast that marriage CAN be a great thing, but unfortunately nearly all women in this country are deceitful, entitled, attention whores. The women of our generation are nothing like the women of our parents or grandparents generations.
I hope to get married in my early 30's but since I'm already almost 26 and I'm well known for not rushing into things I don't know if that will happen.
Ideally, marriage around 32 and kids around 36 or so.
Of course, to find the type of woman I want I either have to get VERY lucky here in America or find some fresh off the boat chick from Asia that hadn't been corrupted by westernized media and feminism.
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09-02-2011, 06:10 AM #22bonerfart
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Planning when you're going to marry is gayer than a big of dicks. Just live life as it comes.
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09-02-2011, 06:23 AM #23bonerfart
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you'll learn as you get older, contracts mean a lot. Think about it: if someone just said to you "oh yea, I'll pay you $4g for watching my dog for a week," would you believe them or would you want it in writing?Originally Posted by Atlas_Army
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09-02-2011, 06:31 AM #24Banned
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Ouch, you're in for a difficult time finding a wife here brah. Also, technically our parents generation is where it all went wrong as it was THOSE women who skyrocketed the divorce rate when the divorce act allowed for 'no-fault divorce'.Originally Posted by DTRrex
For those unaware, 'no-fault divorce' allows one party to instigate the divorce - essentially, you can cheat on your spouse then divorce them and take them to the cleaners. Hence why 75%+ of divorces are initiated by women.
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09-02-2011, 06:31 AM #25Registered User
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Been married for over 20 years and looking back, it was one of the better marriages. we had soem tought times bout we got through them together, she was and is a good woman, no cheating, no shady bahaviour, had the kids, we just ran out of steam and we decided to end it.
would I do it again?
No, last ex asked me to marry her, but looking back on her previous relationships, she had cheated on two occassions, one with her (then husband) so no way thank you!
in my eyes, these days, Marriage = ok, see all my stuf and money? well half of it is now yours regardless if you screw a football team a month after we get married!
fortunately as Ive said, my ex wife wasa good woman and we settled amicably, out of court and fairly. I dont think there are many like her any more
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09-02-2011, 06:35 AM #26Banned
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Your ex-wife seems like a good woman, why did you decide to end it if she was so honourable? Are you still friends? Do you guys still keep in contact (re: sex) or has she re-married? What woud you advise any men under 30 about marriage?Originally Posted by goodthings
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09-02-2011, 06:41 AM #27Banned
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Brb just having gf's....Originally Posted by ManVsIron
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09-02-2011, 07:05 AM #28Banned
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Your uncle sounds smart.Originally Posted by ManVsIron
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09-02-2011, 07:08 AM #29Registered User
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the marriage got stale, and to be honest, she became pretty boring, she looks forward to being a gran, I want to run a mile, in my eyes, we were free to do stuff together, she lost any sense of adventure she had, guess we both changed but in opposite ways.Originally Posted by Thy_Kingdom
we have had sex a few times since, we do still talk now and again, obviously having had kids together we cant really avoid each other.
she hasnt re married, has had a couple of dates but thats it.
my advice for guys under 30 or anyone feeling like they have to get married is;
examine why you feel the urge, dont conform to what others feel you should do or expect you to do, its your life, not theirs, getting married carries a high probablility of having your life f ucked up for a long time!
if its for the sake of having kids, choose extremely wisely, look at the girls family and background, if that is al stable and good, then thats a green light, also how does she handle conflict? tough times? if she can handle these appropriately, not balmng others, playing the victim, then thats good, if she has vindictive or nasty selfish streak, forget it.
make a good assessment of her personality, you cant eradicate the risks, you can only minimise them and in worse case scanrio, you want to be able to have contact with your kids and retain some of the things you value so much, and still be able to live your life, these are the things you stand to lose.
of course the stories of women changing once that ring is on the finger are common and in a lot of cases true, ive never had that hapen to me thank god but that is something that also makes marriage a bit of a minefield.
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Don't get married.Ever.
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