Ok so I just got off a four night cruise and on it I met the most amazing two girls. It was me and the two of them who both live together in Boston. We are both sixteen.
Anyways we met on the first night of the vacation and started dancing at the parties. The three of us and a dude we met from south Africa hung out the first night and all said we would do it again at the party tomorrow.
The next night we all danced together and had fun again hung out at the pool skipped our big formal dinners, ate together and stuff. The most crazy part was probably dancing to the Spanish music with the columbians, as the cruise was from miami to the Bahamas. Needless to say we got along well and had a lot in common.
Hung out more the next day ect took pictures skipped dinner again and the same similar thing happened the next two days.
In case your wondering the two of them one blonde the other brunette. Blonde is probably a 9.5/10 and brunette a 6.5/10. I told the brunette that I liked her friend and we kinda talked about it but not much more than that. This was the third night. The last night I said something to her again about trying to kiss her friend and she told me that she actually had a crush on the south african kid, and that she had only saw me as a friend.
We exchanged phone numbers and sent ******** requests. The cruise just ended today and we have already started texting.
Here's the problem I live In Chicago and they live in Boston, it is only a few hours later and feel completely awful. Sad that we may never see each other again. I feel like there is a hole in myself now that we have left.
I have never been in a serious relationship before but I have had sort of girlfriends. Anyways I have never felt like this before. I have already cried twice which is unlike me, and it obviously sucks enough for me to write all of this on my iPod touch in the hotel lobby.
Recently I have started realizing how much I like both of them. We sent txta about much we
were going to miss each other and talked about possibly getting together to hang out some, but unlikely.
I don't know what to do or how I feel I can not stop thinking about them when their not around and now their never going to be around.
Edit: forgot to mention she says I look like ryan sheckler lol
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07-08-2011, 12:02 PM #1
A long sad story, have never felt this awful
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07-08-2011, 12:09 PM #4
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op dont give up on her! you have her on ********, so if you talk to her whenever she comes online in that, or txt her a lot, she'll like you im pretty sure. Then when you're 18 you can go to the same colleges and finally be together
Everyone betrays everyone
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07-08-2011, 12:11 PM #5
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You had your first taste of a bond with a female, and it hurts to lose it. Combine this with the fact that an awesome cruise is over - end-of-vacation-blues. Trust me - they're not super special. There are 100's of girls your age in Chicago you'd have a better bond with. You just need to get out there and find them. Once you do, you won't miss these two girls at all.
I know it doesn't help for me to point this out, but you're 16. I guarantee you'll look back on this in a couple years and laugh about how torn up you were. You'll experience way, way worse heartache than this buddy
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07-08-2011, 12:26 PM #6
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07-08-2011, 12:34 PM #10
You feel that way because your falling in love with her, so don't let go of that feeling.
Forget what people say about long distance relationships, you can make this work! Just keep talking to her (the more you do the better) and you'll eventually win her heart. Try getting her address and sending her suprise gifts; it will be a complete shock to her and she'll love you for it.
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07-08-2011, 12:42 PM #12
Nah bro, I didn't say tell her that you love her; I said tell her that you are falling in love with her. Big difference, she will understand; it won't get awkward.
Are you going to let some other dude stop you from getting with this girl? Think of him as competition and who ever tries the hardest wins. How hard are you going to try to win her love?
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ujMP41Rphzc http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jw7E7G7G8IU
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07-08-2011, 12:55 PM #15
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07-08-2011, 01:14 PM #16
Ok makes since, bur FYI I'm not too worried about losing her to a kid from south Africa, because theyre definitely not going to see each other again.
Edit: and what happens if I tell her that I'm falling in love with her and she mentions the SA kid or an old boy friend ect.
I know she was seeing this one dude at home but they are taking a break
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07-08-2011, 01:38 PM #19
Alright I think I'll tell her tommorow, that way I can say "being without you for a day or something like that has made me realize...." any sugguestions of how to word the txt? I don't want to wait more than a day because she's getting home tonight at like six, and being that we've been without phones for a few days now she's probably anxious to hang out with her friends n stuff
Edit: two different text saying "keep in touch"
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07-08-2011, 02:11 PM #20
I wasn't actually going to write a poem or anything just maybe text for a day or so, but I think we had already established that I am going to give it a shot
Edit: ok so let's make this clear here are the new questions:
Should I tell her I'm falling in love with her? What and how should I say it? When?
What if she hesitates For example say that we don't know each other well enough, or brings up some old boy friend
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07-08-2011, 02:42 PM #21
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Holy crap dude, this is the most pathetic thing I've ever read. And guess what? I'm 16 too.
You dun goofed by not making a move. You did the stupidist thing by telling the girl you like her friend. What the hell does that accomplish? It just makes you look needy and pathetic, which you are.
Read the New Formula for Picking up chicks at the top of this forum.
Oh and man up.
Edit: The guys here are screwing with you dude. Telling her your falling in love with her will do NOTHING. Just confirm your needy. You don't have a chance with these girls, move on. Even if you did your too far away for it to matter.
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