MANSERS-from a WOMAN...ask and you shall receive!

[gobstpr]

question: whats the best way to tell if a friend wants to be more than that?? backround: me and this friend have been hanging out alot in the past month or more and lately weve been going to dinner's one on one and all that and her best friend randomly asked me (over fb) if i liked her and i told her i did, but as of the past week or 2 she hasnt spoken to other than an occasional comment. prior to this she asked me to lunch one random ass day.. anyway am i just deep ass friend zoned or does she want to be something more??

[HabitualHealth]

Hey guys....check it out! I made wallpaper of the week!

http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/wallpaperoftheweek.htm

[Punisher1012]

Hey guys....check it out! I made wallpaper of the week!

http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/wallpaperoftheweek.htm

keep being a model and all just make sure you let me know when you decide to pose for playboy lol (no white knight)

[HabitualHealth]

keep being a model and all just make sure you let me know when you decide to pose for playboy lol (no white knight)

haha you'll be the first to know.

[dabluzman]

alright fellers, if you want a look inside women I advise you start with this:

http://www.amazon.com/Female-Brain-L...0121422&sr=8-1

I own the book, just picked it up on a whim at the bookstore one day. I learned alot from it, not only about women but also alot of the reasons the two genders have such a hard time understanding each other. the only major difference we are taught in school is in the reproductive system, yet it goes way beyond just that. basically, all of our problems start when we apply how we think to what the other sex does, says, or thinks. women are very open, and emotional creatures, and when they give themselves to a man they do so SO completely. thereby making themselves vulnerable, the onus is on the man to recognize that, and appreciate it. however do not make the mistake of thinking they are these delicate lil flowers. women are alot stronger than you may think, they are very cunning, and aware of almost everything going on around them. good luck out there, it's a jungle lol

[riversiderookie]

LOL, too funny

[KennyK]

i'm not really into painting.

What about drinking martinis and watching reruns of the Electric Company

[marcodeniro]

Wow transformation of the week wallpaper of the week. Habitual for PRESIDENT. lol congradulations

[jglickfield]

If you want to learn to interact with women, you have to know what your goals are. If you are looking for a way to get girls in bed or involve them in brief, minimally committed relationships, reading e-books or listening to lectures by David D'Angelo will help MUCH more than asking women on the internet. Because men and women communicate so differently, men don't even understand what women tell them. You need a man to explain it to you.

Here is a great example. Ask a woman what type of man she wants. She will probably say "someone who is strong, but sensitive." Analyze this carefully because she told you exactly what she wants. She wants someone who is strong- meaning independent and in control of his own life. How is the best way to demonstrate this trait? By showing her you don't need her. You don't need anyone. You are in control, my friend. This ought to answer anyone still wondering why girls go for the jerks- because jerks seem like they are capable adults, and guys who are very doting and compliment them all the time seem like soppy, pathetic little children.

But wait! Didn't she say that she wanted sensitive too! How can she go for a guy who lies to her, cheats on her, gets drunk all the time, never says thank you (maybe hits her?)?? That isn't sensitive!

Buddy, she told you. She wants someone who is "strong, but (sometimes does something here and there which indicates that their might be some tiny shred of) sensitive." So, if the jerk apologizes after, gets her a really sweet and thoughtful gift every few months, etc she feels like he is sufficiently sensitive, and that she will just have to "work on him" to teach him how to be better. She believes that she can somehow turn him into a romantic, monogamous dream-guy while still maintaining all of his alluring bad-boy traits.

So if you act like you are the greatest thing that ever happened, TELL HER STRAIGHT OUT THAT YOU ARE, and make a lot of clever jokes (typically making fun of her) this will win over most women in bar/club settings. Pamela Anderson says that Tommy Lee's pickup line was "I am very charming and very well endowed." Confidence and independence are what works.

I should note that if you are looking for something more serious (as in, to find someone whom you would eventually marry) this is a bad idea, because it starts relationships based on the fact that she thinks you are exciting and you thought she was hot enough to start up with.

[City4ever1]

how can i approach girls on my own in clubs? ive never had to before, i usually just get drunk with my mates, 2night im gonna try getting with a few.

what should i say/do?

also what shoul u do/say when u see a girl upset on her own in town?

[HabitualHealth]

women are very open, and emotional creatures, and when they give themselves to a man they do so SO completely. thereby making themselves vulnerable, the onus is on the man to recognize that, and appreciate it. however do not make the mistake of thinking they are these delicate lil flowers. women are alot stronger than you may think, they are very cunning, and aware of almost everything going on around them. good luck out there, it's a jungle lol

awesome post!

Wow transformation of the week wallpaper of the week. Habitual for PRESIDENT. lol congradulations

lol thank you! pretty awesome christmas presents!

[HabitualHealth]

How can I definitely tell if a girl is into me? I got two extremely hot sisters to join my gym [we're going tomorrow] and I will take either one of them.

what makes you think either of them are interested? (no sarcasm) curious what signs either of them have given you.

lol nah nothing bad. I kinda fudged when she gave me the opotunity to get on her by sleeping in my bed, but i didnt want some 1night ****(not my style) so didnt do anything, so showed her some intrest to show i was keen so she didnt get the worng idea.

Will see how it goes.

You think im right in waiting for her to get in touch with me next? And if in a week or so she hasn't then get in touch myself?

aight, i KNOW this is gonna go against what the other dudes might think but i think you made the right choice by NOT making the move on her that night. you prob gained more respect and actual opportunity for a relationship (if that's what you're wanting from it) because of that. here me out...regardless of how hot i think a guy is and/or sexually attracted we are i want a guy to respect me first. let's face it, if you guys dont respect a chic...it's not going to go very far.

something to think about...if you think a girl is hot/attractive/etc its highly likely there are 500 other guys who think the same. most of those guys are saying/doing/thinkng the same thing to her in hopes of getting her attention/in the bed. like dabluz said, women are very cunning. (we're also retarded half the time but still)

i'm looking for the dude who shows interest in something other than what he sees.

You are clear to land. She is showing int in you. she slept with you. u did not make move. she didn't either . thats her testing boundries she is wandering if u r gay by comment and not sleepin with her esp when u were tanked. My opinon not trying to step on toes here is u have a green light buddy~~clear to land~~if u haven't been pushed into the hanging buddy friendzone.

you're not stepping on toes...glad you posted this cuz here's where diff perspectives come in hand. because she's sarcastic calling him gay joking or whatever you think she's trying to figure out if he's gay....i say she's flirting with him. i STILL do this. i'm the chic who was throwing rocks at the boy on the merrygoround to get his attn.

there's no way she'd spend that much time with him if she REALLY thought he was gay. not in the manner she has. i do agree with you that she's giving him the green light. BUUUTTT let's define green light....

green light doesn't necessarily mean yank my pants down around my ankles on our next date. green light means she's opened the door for him to persue her. (imo)

What's a good costume for a guy to wear to a new-years fancy dress party? (serious)

depends on your personal style...what type of stuff do you typically wear?

Could you reply to my most recent? It's on the first page.

sorry i missed it hun...what's the post #?

Anyway, I got a question, when youre interested in a girl, is it a better idea to get to know her and ask her out after youve known her for a while, or to be obvious that you like her before you start getting to know her.

i dont think you have to be googley mushy gushy obvious about liking her in order to get to know her. a guy will get further with me if i feel his intentions are right which typically comes from the "get to know" process.

i'm an old fart i know but really seems like the courtship is gone completely these days with dating. (which sux)

Why is it nessecery to "go out" with her. Why can you not just "chill" with her, for coffee, go for a walk etc and get to know here, there is no real need for a "date" in the formal sense as such. IMO though.

i agree completely. i think things get complicated when you start adding that kind of pressure.

on the same note...if you're just chillin' with a chic...you have maintain control of your hormones, ya know?

[cjh156]

aight, i KNOW this is gonna go against what the other dudes might think but i think you made the right choice by NOT making the move on her that night. you prob gained more respect and actual opportunity for a relationship (if that's what you're wanting from it) because of that. here me out...regardless of how hot i think a guy is and/or sexually attracted we are i want a guy to respect me first. let's face it, if you guys dont respect a chic...it's not going to go very far.

I'd generally agree if experience hadn't taught me otherwise. In my youth I was in this same situation. The girl got into bed with me in nothing but a tbar and tshirt. I thought respect and didn't make the move, never got the chance again. She told my brother she took it as me not being interested and was embarrassed at having been so forward and me not doing anything.

In the end it's a crap shoot.

[HabitualHealth]

I'd generally agree if experience hadn't taught me otherwise. In my youth I was in this same situation. The girl got into bed with me in nothing but a tbar and tshirt. I thought respect and didn't make the move, never got the chance again. She told my brother she took it as me not being interested and was embarrassed at having been so forward and me not doing anything.

In the end it's a crap shoot.

that true...i guess that's where intuition and ability to read a chic comes in handy.

[cjh156]

that true...i guess that's where intuition and ability to read a chic comes in handy.

Reading women can be an exercise in futility at times.

[deseee]

Reading women is an exercise in futility at all times.

fixed that for you

[TheWhiteKnight]

Habitualhealth is a godess in the bodybuilding community
no matter what you do wrong
I would give you immunity
you have changed our community
for the better
I have read this whole thread
write down to the very last letter
I congradulate you
on your 105 lbs weight loss
whos hotter ?you or jessica alba?
to me ,its a coin toss
Although new to this board
I would freely admit
without you here to cheer
I would leave it
in and instant
your beauty inspires the poet in me
and your outside beauty
finally
the world can see.

[KennyK]

Habitualhealth is a godess in the bodybuilding community
no matter what you do wrong
I would give you immunity
you have changed our community
for the better
I have read this whole thread
write down to the very last letter
I congradulate you
on your 105 lbs weight loss
whos hotter ?you or jessica alba?
to me ,its a coin toss
Although new to this board
I would freely admit
without you here to cheer
I would leave it
in and instant
your beauty inspires the poet in me
and your outside beauty
finally
the world can see.

- TheWhiteKnight

[TheWhiteKnight]

- TheWhiteKnight

yes thats my name and occupation
and finally the board is free
of that mchenrycruiser infestation
he is forever banned from the board
I have slayed him with my sword
And no longer will habitual health
have to post in here stealth
but she can freely post
because she is the member who we will forever cherish the most

[KennyK]

yes thats my name and occupation
and finally the board is free
of that mchenrycruiser infestation
he is forever banned from the board
I have slayed him with my sword
And no longer will habitual health
have to post in here stealth
but she can freely post
because she is the member who we will forever cherish the most

hai mchenrycruiser

[Brother Steel]

HabitualHealth & Mchenrycruiser

Sometimes people that seem at odds can become friends once they can find some sort of common denominator.
Seeing how I like BOTH of you I want to help.

With each of you, the common denominator is the word: "BUSTED"

In HabitualHealth's case, she "busted" her butt in making something out of herself.

In Mchenrycruiser's case, he made something out of himself after his father's condom "busted".

Aaaah..... It's truly poetic! See, you guys have more in common than you thought!
I love this time of year. Helping friends always makes me feel better.
No need to thank me, it is my Christmas gift to both of you!


Happy Holidays!
B.Steel

Oh My, I am sorry to learn Mchenrycruiser is now in Banned-Camp. Hang in there Son!
You will be missed by some, but sadly not by all.

[JV@Gaspari]

Is it wrong to ask for free samples on a first date?

[Juggernaut90]

ok..so a question for the lady.

Guy starts at a new school and goes to a football game where he sees a girl they smile at eachother but nothing more.

Next day he sees her around and they start talking and become friends.
Both have feelings for eachother but neither one really does anything about it.

A few months later he asks her out and gets shot down but they still continue to be friends. Awhile after theyre are a party together and the girl is drunk and starts to get "feely" with the guy, but guy stops because he figures shes just drunk and doesnt want to take advantage.
The next morning she tells him that she wanted him to....


Time goes on and it kinda plays like this off and on. Girl decides that she isnt really interested in guy and so they just stay friends.
Guy decides to move for a job and has one last party with the friends, guy and girl are in the hot tub and girl gets "handsy". Then tell guy she likes him and all that good stuff.


Whats up with that?

Is she just nuts or what???

[user23960508710788]

LOL I got negged by like 10 idiots for stating the obvious truth that a big percentage of the misc. and 4chan are basically steve urkel look alikes who pretend to be "alpha" on the internet. funny enough it knocked me down by one freakin rep point. even funnier enough, I DON"T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT REPS, they are useless...... good one though internet warriors!

[HabitualHealth]

yes thats my name and occupation
and finally the board is free
of that mchenrycruiser infestation
he is forever banned from the board
I have slayed him with my sword
And no longer will habitual health
have to post in here stealth
but she can freely post
because she is the member who we will forever cherish the most

alas, let's rejoice for mchaters been banned
no more tyrades of hatred from the spawn of satan.
for those who acknowledged that he'd crossed the line
i cant thank you enough for bootin' that swine.

i took his insults in stride with a smile on my face
but the struggles i've hurdled i'm able to embrace...
who knows what's at stake or how heavy the heart
everytime you decide to rip someone apart.

regardless of gender, regardless of size
respect is respect...it needs no disguise.

now to my knight who stood so valiant and true
what women really want are more men like you.

[CelticBhoy]

Just stopping in momentarily from Christmas Eve action.

Habitual (and all), I hope you have a safe and wonderful Christmas. Make the best of it and be careful.

That goes for all.

Merry Christmas guise!

[gobstpr]

answer my question >.<

[HabitualHealth]

answer my question >.<

ahhh i can't find it. what's the post #?

[user23960508710788]

You know,out of everyone that negged me youd think at least one would have the balls to argue it out in public (not like it takes much balls to argue on the internet in the first place, but still)... but no, what do i get? A bunch of lame ass negs saying "uhhh yo yo, negged fool, bros before hoes yo!".... i could so picture some 15 year old leaving me that neg while on his laptop taking a **** in the bathroom with porn downloading on the other window and sosuave.com's
"how to be an alpha male" pdf file downloading on the other window. reeeeaaaaal smooth. here's a hint, nobody gives a damn about reps except losers obsessed with the internet.

[HabitualHealth]

You know,out of everyone that negged me youd think at least one would have the balls to argue it out in public (not like it takes much balls to argue on the internet in the first place, but still)... but no, what do i get? A bunch of lame ass negs saying "uhhh yo yo, negged fool, bros before hoes yo!".... i could so picture some 15 year old leaving me that neg while on his laptop taking a **** in the bathroom with porn downloading on the other window and sosuave.com's
"how to be an alpha male" pdf file downloading on the other window. reeeeaaaaal smooth. here's a hint, nobody gives a damn about reps except losers obsessed with the internet.

you should have to send me money for putting that visual in my head. *barf*