I personally never have, always started by talking online then arranging to hangout..
My problem is I am kinda a awkward introvert and overthinker so wouldn't know how to do it in a non-weird way to break the ice.
Say you are at the store and see an attractive woman without a wedding ring, how do you approach her?
Just walk up and say "My names bigbtree can I get your number?" Or maybe she is looking at flowers do you think of something clever like "That flower is pretty but not as beautiful as you." Or if she is looking at cereal maybe try to make a comment about cereal "With all the food tech technology youd think they could make a healthy cereal that still tastes really good." then if she agrees maybe follow with "So, I know what you are having for breakfast but how about me and you for dinner?"
Do I got the right idea?
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05-19-2024, 07:54 AM #1
Have you ever picked up a woman in public?
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05-19-2024, 08:17 AM #2
Wasn't sure by the title it meant literal or figuratively. But yes to both.
I never have done lame pickup lines or anything like that though. I just find something to strike up a (not creepy) conversation about and I quickly try and judge her reception. If positive, escalate. If not, just go about my day and not gaf (never take it personal). Learn to read people. I think that this is what a lot of people can't do well. Nothing worse than the guy who thinks that someone is into them, when its obvious that they aren't.
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of course. In my day that was the only method available other than maybe meeting at work or through someone else.
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05-19-2024, 09:19 AM #8
Yes, I have, many times
So am I, you can do this. You just have to do it and keep doing until you get good at it.
Remember when you was a baby right and you were learning to walk. Did you just suddenly work out how to walk and then just strut about everywhere? No. You were fcking hopeless at it and you fell over and over and over until finally you started to work some chit out and bit by bit you put it together.
You are on the right track, you will find what works for you. Trust the process and become the poosay slayer you dream to be.
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05-20-2024, 05:54 AM #10
That's where practice makes perfect. Her being able to hold conversations is a must, so it's partially an interview of her as well.
When women are really interested it's obvious while talking. I won't pursue someone unless they are enthusiastic, I'm not ever going to waste my time trying to convince or win someone over. That is pathetic PUA crap (tricking a girl into liking you). That isn't real and won't last.
Maybe even practice just talking to women that you aren't attracted to, just to get used to banter and how women talk.
And since I'm older, that used to be the only way.
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I've done it many times and always get the girls number. It's better if you just start out by small talking(how's your day going? ) and go from there. Chances are she will just say I'm good how are you which gives you a chance to literally talk about whatever you're doing. It's not nearly as rocket science as people make it out out to be NOR do you have to be extremely good looking to pull it off
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You gotta build state first, I think that's the most important part
And by that I mean like lets say you're with your boys and their hyping you up and you feel alpha it makes it so much easier because then you dont take her as serious
Also, because everybody messages through social media the fact that you're doing it in person already shows that youre different
It's a numbers game, even if you don't land the first approach it's a matter of time and as you continue to do it the better you get
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