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Thread: How do you deal with one-i-tis?
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05-13-2024, 04:58 AM #31"It's hard to be yourself in a world filled with haters" - WiseOldApe.
"Why be anything when you can be an influencer?" - WiseOldApe.
"It's not about what is said - it's about who it is said by" - WiseOldApe.
"People strive for equality, once they attain it, they fight for superiority" - WiseOldApe.
"Nobody hates authority more than one who themselves lusts after that exact authority" - WiseOldApe.
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05-13-2024, 04:58 AM #32
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05-13-2024, 05:00 AM #33"It's hard to be yourself in a world filled with haters" - WiseOldApe.
"Why be anything when you can be an influencer?" - WiseOldApe.
"It's not about what is said - it's about who it is said by" - WiseOldApe.
"People strive for equality, once they attain it, they fight for superiority" - WiseOldApe.
"Nobody hates authority more than one who themselves lusts after that exact authority" - WiseOldApe.
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05-13-2024, 05:03 AM #34
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05-13-2024, 05:04 AM #35
poor OP
"It's hard to be yourself in a world filled with haters" - WiseOldApe.
"Why be anything when you can be an influencer?" - WiseOldApe.
"It's not about what is said - it's about who it is said by" - WiseOldApe.
"People strive for equality, once they attain it, they fight for superiority" - WiseOldApe.
"Nobody hates authority more than one who themselves lusts after that exact authority" - WiseOldApe.
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05-13-2024, 05:06 AM #36
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05-13-2024, 05:12 AM #37
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05-13-2024, 05:28 AM #38
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05-13-2024, 05:48 AM #39
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05-13-2024, 10:37 AM #40
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05-13-2024, 11:12 AM #41
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05-13-2024, 11:38 AM #42
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05-14-2024, 12:25 AM #43
I think so, it feels less a week later. However it's because I can't even remember fully what she looks like and I'm not letting my mind go there. I'm not letting myself look at the picture of us together, because if I do and my memory is refreshed the oneitis could come back. It seems the only way to beat this mental illness called oneitis is to block the train of thought of them.
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05-14-2024, 06:23 AM #44
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05-14-2024, 06:31 AM #45
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05-14-2024, 06:55 PM #46
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05-14-2024, 07:05 PM #47
Fuuuuuuark brutal ngl if there ever was a sliver of a chance you killed it with that text brah
Let me put you on. When you sleep with a girl especially like from a first date or bar hookup there’s two ways it can go. She will either want more of you, or that was it. You cannot be the one to initiate the first text. To you it was nothing - you do this regularly and are not needy. If she’s fukin with you she’ll hit you up for sure within 1-5 days.
You need to lay it down good especially the very first time. This is imperative. Take it as a learning lesson, also this is not oneitis this is just extreme attachment
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05-14-2024, 07:39 PM #48
Bro
You need to get it together. You also need to understand females.
You do not show a morsel of neediness with a girl. You do not show a morsel of vulnerability with a girl. Especially not some random sloot you met a hooked up with at a club. I'd bet this girl has no shortage of issues. She might be in a relationship, she might've had a fight with her husband, , what do you know about her?
I just can't wrap my head around acting like this.
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05-15-2024, 03:03 AM #49
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05-15-2024, 03:16 AM #50
To make it even worse, I'm currently temporarily in between moving and in the tiniest apartment right now. I'm talking not even big enough for a couch or table. Just a single twin mattress on the ground, a workout bench, a chair, and half the room stacked with boxes. And I hadn't vacuumed in a while. So my living situation definitely didn't impress her.
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05-15-2024, 03:17 AM #51
poor op
"It's hard to be yourself in a world filled with haters" - WiseOldApe.
"Why be anything when you can be an influencer?" - WiseOldApe.
"It's not about what is said - it's about who it is said by" - WiseOldApe.
"People strive for equality, once they attain it, they fight for superiority" - WiseOldApe.
"Nobody hates authority more than one who themselves lusts after that exact authority" - WiseOldApe.
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05-15-2024, 06:38 AM #52
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