Unless you're a braindead zombie with no dreams, no lust for adventures and for life and wish for nothing else than the tranquil life of an ordinary pleb wageslave.
So many adventures to go on, so many experiences to live and new people to meet.
I want to sail, I want to face my fears in the nature : deserts, desolated icelands,toundras. I want to ride horses till the end of world. Preferably on my own.
How can I do all when I have a nagging needy wife at home calling me every 5 minutes to know where I am and what I'm doing ?
How can I do that with a toddler waiting for his daddy to return everyday ?
No boyos, you've got to live your life to the fullest whilst you're still young before considering any kind of long-term relationship or engagement.
Once you're 50 and the kids finally left the house, it will be too late: you'll be old, tired with the same old hag that you haven't touched in years and disillusioned to death.
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01-26-2022, 06:51 AM #1
Getting married before 35 is pure cope
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01-26-2022, 06:58 AM #2
Like anything it depends on circumstance - but yes, most MEN should wait until at least after 30 to even consider marriage and commitment like family. I usually tell guys focus on career and enjoying life up until 30, and then if you decide you want a family it's a good time to start looking around. Guys over 35 can easily land and wife up a girl 5-10 years younger.
Problem is the opposite is true for women. If they aren't married by 35 then they are basically seen as damaged and useless.
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01-26-2022, 07:01 AM #3
Who the hell would wife up a 35 yo unmarried chick ?
The other day I saw the before/after pics of a female fried between age 18 to age 29 (today) : it was absolutely brutal, I dare not imagine what she'll look like in 5 years.
It's always the same profile : Career-focused, entitled and uppity with a lot of expectations. They'll end up alone or with a desperate loser.Last edited by CityJaeger; 01-26-2022 at 07:06 AM.
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01-26-2022, 07:06 AM #10
I can tell that you've settled down and now regret your freedom.
It's over for you.
Imagine not being able to purchase your dream car because you have to accommodate a woman which know nothing about cars and will probably abuse the components with her poor driving skills just to go around town and comuting.
I will never trade my 911 goal for a mediocre SUV.
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01-26-2022, 07:13 AM #20
just like everything in life, "it depends".
i'd say if are in your 20's and you find a girl who's attractive, has a good head on her shoulders, solid values, loyal, and has a low body-count, then i would never fault anyone for locking that down. modern women are mostly slampigs (at least the ones still on the dating market in your 30's). most modern men aren't much better either (**** job, low-test, pussy, out of shape, etc.)
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01-26-2022, 07:13 AM #21
My wife and I got married when we were both 30 and it's been good. I don't disagree that men could wait until their mid 30s, but marrying a woman who is over 30 is questionable at best if you plan on having kids. You need some time to be married before you have a kid. We had our daughter when my wife was 33 and it worked out fine. We only wanted one. We probably could have had a second and it would have been okay too, as long as we got that done within a couple years. But now that my wife is 40, having another kid would be really rough on her and the odds of birth defects go up considerably.
All this applies to brahs wanting kids. If you don't want kids, don't get married unless you're willing to risk everything you value most for companionship. No matter how perfect she seems, there are going to be things you hate about her, and marriage takes a lot of work if it's going to be tolerable, much less mutually beneficial.
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01-26-2022, 07:17 AM #26
That sounds like a you problem if all you can attract are toxic social media addicted clowns.
Don't get me wrong, I don't think getting married young is wise, but guys who.act like there are no good women out there, expose their own lack of ability to attract quality women.
I think more important than one's age, is how long they've known their potential wife. 5+ years imo. Including having lived together for at least 2.Ol' 71st street. The devil that birthed me.
606 G0D.
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depends, i know a brah who is married with a kid. like 2-3x a year he takes random vacations to places like Venezuela, Columbia, Turkey, Switzerland, etc and does stuff like hiking, sky-diving, bungee jumping.
I don't think it is necessarily mutually exclusive. although I do think getting married early for many is a bad idea without first getting their chit together.positivity brah crew
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