Matches have pretty much died ³

[Luc1fer]

Back on the online apps, have got one match and pretty much zero likes LOL. I have good photos too, oh well. Hopefully lucky tonight at the bar and meet someone

girls agree to hang out but dont follow through. Means they like me but have better options. Online dating ruined everything. I coulda had a gf preonline dating easily. It's over for men. I'm going to Thailand.

90/10 rule online. Top 10% of guys getting 90% of dates.

Bottom 90% of guys are competing for scraps.

[NissanskylineN1]

Chick I went on 3 dates with tells me last night she doesn't want to see me anymore because I'm buying a house in the suburbs 30 min away from her. She said she can't see herself dating someone outside of the city. Sounds like a bs excuse but if srs, Lmao bitch have fun dating chit guys who you'll be renting with for the rest of your life then.

[DigDeeper1]

Chick I went on 3 dates with tells me last night she doesn't want to see me anymore because I'm buying a house in the suburbs 30 min away from her. She said she can't see herself dating someone outside of the city. Sounds like a bs excuse but if srs, Lmao bitch have fun dating chit guys who you'll be renting with for the rest of your life then.

she'd rather you be living at home with the parents

[NissanskylineN1]

she'd rather you be living at home with the parents

Haha I live on my own already but I'm not going to keep renting a shoebox condo downtown... makes no financial sense for me. Sloots aren't worth burning $2500 a month for.

[Luc1fer]

Chick I went on 3 dates with tells me last night she doesn't want to see me anymore because I'm buying a house in the suburbs 30 min away from her. She said she can't see herself dating someone outside of the city. Sounds like a bs excuse but if srs, Lmao bitch have fun dating chit guys who you'll be renting with for the rest of your life then.

I'm curious what age this girl is?

[NissanskylineN1]

I'm curious what age this girl is?

24 (same age)
The last text between the two of us is attached. Left her on read after that. Maybe the pipe wasn't good for her but the fact that ppl can't be arsed to drive to see someone - sloots these days lol

[Luc1fer]

24 (same age)
The last text between the two of us is attached. Left her on read after that. Maybe the pipe wasn't good for her but the fact that ppl can't be arsed to drive to see someone - sloots these days lol

24...in the city. Doesn't surprise me one bit.

In 5 years she'll behave differently.

[DustinTheHuss]

24 (same age)
The last text between the two of us is attached. Left her on read after that. Maybe the pipe wasn't good for her but the fact that ppl can't be arsed to drive to see someone - sloots these days lol

Does she have a car to drive out to see you?

If so then she’s a complete idiot. Good riddance.

[Luc1fer]

Does she have a car to drive out to see you?

If so then she’s a complete idiot. Good riddance.

These women have (a perceived) unlimited set of good options w/ dating in the city.

At that age, they often don't recognize most of those options are bad (or are basically guys looking for casual hookups).

By mid-late 20's they usually figure it out.

[NissanskylineN1]

Does she have a car to drive out to see you?

If so then she’s a complete idiot. Good riddance.

Yup, she has a car (and so do I), which makes it even more suspicious as to if she's being honest or not. My friend who's a dating expert says that people in the city are pretty lazy when it comes to dating as well, but this is wild.

These women have (a perceived) unlimited set of good options w/ dating in the city.

At that age, they often don't recognize most of those options are bad (or are basically guys looking for casual hookups).

By mid-late 20's they usually figure it out.

Yeah from what I've seen, there's a lot of chitty guys out there as well (especially in the city). I don't do second chances though. Removed her on Insta and unmatched with her on Hinge. Onto the next one/back to my hustle.

[Maatkarah]

Yup, she has a car (and so do I), which makes it even more suspicious as to if she's being honest or not. My friend who's a dating expert says that people in the city are pretty lazy when it comes to dating as well, but this is wild.



Yeah from what I've seen, there's a lot of chitty guys out there as well (especially in the city). I don't do second chances though. Removed her on Insta and unmatched with her on Hinge. Onto the next one/back to my hustle.

It sounds like an excuse to me.

You've done the right thing.

[xbluexhawkx]

how TF do you beat a shadow ban?

would get 30+ likes the first day now get 1 or 2

[Skezo]

tfw waiting a month to verify a girl isn't pregnant...a month of anxiety.

A bit off topic but on topic, for a 7/10 6'2 fit guy like me picking up women irl is 100x easier than dating aps. My text game sucks but if I get any female to have a drink with me a chat for an hour one on one I am always in.

[Luc1fer]

tfw waiting a month to verify a girl isn't pregnant...a month of anxiety.

It sucks. That’s why I use BC+condoms.

Otherwise every missed period is anxiety for those few days.

[pondus_levo]

24 (same age)
The last text between the two of us is attached. Left her on read after that. Maybe the pipe wasn't good for her but the fact that ppl can't be arsed to drive to see someone - sloots these days lol

Sloots will make up any bull**** to let you down easy. If it seems like BS, it is.

[xbluexhawkx]

sloot I hanged with was suddenly cold and then replied to me a WEEK later(today)

I already got the seggs and she's my type

should I give it a full week to reply and then hit her up?

I'm not the "prideful" type where I walk away all manly and get nothing ever again. All I want from this women is sex at this point

she said we were still cool a week ago if that matters

[NissanskylineN1]

sloot I hanged with was suddenly cold and then replied to me a WEEK later(today)

I already got the seggs and she's my type

should I give it a full week to reply and then hit her up?

I'm not the "prideful" type where I walk away all manly and get nothing ever again. All I want from this women is sex at this point

she said we were still cool a week ago if that matters

Just send a short reply to her now. Something that continues the convo but also gives the slight hint that you're not impressed about the length of time it took her to reply.

[NissanskylineN1]

Sloots will make up any bull**** to let you down easy. If it seems like BS, it is.

Yeah - I don't know what it is about this chick but my ego's taken a decent sized dent after this (yeah, I know its been an entire week). It's actually pretty insulting being told that you're not worth 30 min to meet up with.

I'm starting to think that unless I live downtown in the city, I might legit have no one to socialize/date with. Fuark

[runnerround]

I’m a bit older than some of you guys. 43M.

Giving up online dating. Seeing if I can get a better return on real life dating. Just be my best when I’m out and about. See if I can find some old skool real life internet.

An ex turned up at my house a week ago. Out for validation only. Claims to love me. Spoke to her at the doorstep. Should have just asked her to leave immediately. Exes like that hurt the ego.

[Luc1fer]

Yeah - I don't know what it is about this chick but my ego's taken a decent sized dent after this (yeah, I know its been an entire week). It's actually pretty insulting being told that you're not worth 30 min to meet up with.

I'm starting to think that unless I live downtown in the city, I might legit have no one to socialize/date with. Fuark

You're catastrophizing. And it isn't 30min; it's an hour round trip every time you want to meet?

What's weird though is I date women in the city, and depending on what part they live it can easily take 30-40mins for them to get to my place. I guess she'll only date men in her neighborhood, lmao.

I don't think your ego should take a hit, you should realize this is the modern dating environment. Convenient, casual, self-centered.

[xbluexhawkx]

I’m a bit older than some of you guys. 43M.

Giving up online dating. Seeing if I can get a better return on real life dating. Just be my best when I’m out and about. See if I can find some old skool real life internet.

An ex turned up at my house a week ago. Out for validation only. Claims to love me. Spoke to her at the doorstep. Should have just asked her to leave immediately. Exes like that hurt the ego.

online dating is chit, gotta go out in the real world and get girls that way

got 3 IRL this month alone with minimal effort

[fishnbrah]

You're catastrophizing. And it isn't 30min; it's an hour round trip every time you want to meet?

What's weird though is I date women in the city, and depending on what part they live it can easily take 30-40mins for them to get to my place. I guess she'll only date men in her neighborhood, lmao.

I don't think your ego should take a hit, you should realize this is the modern dating environment. Convenient, casual, self-centered.

do you ever drive to their place? 30 minutes is far as fukk in PHX

[quadfecta]

sloot I hanged with was suddenly cold and then replied to me a WEEK later(today)

I already got the seggs and she's my type

should I give it a full week to reply and then hit her up?

I'm not the "prideful" type where I walk away all manly and get nothing ever again. All I want from this women is sex at this point

she said we were still cool a week ago if that matters

Stay NC and give her the impression you two aren’t “friends”. That’s the only way dudes can command power in the pre-relationship power dynamic when sloots have dozens of potential suitors now

Only give her attention if she’s begging for the D which probably won’t happen since it sounds like she only wants attention from you

[DustinTheHuss]

You're catastrophizing. And it isn't 30min; it's an hour round trip every time you want to meet?

What's weird though is I date women in the city, and depending on what part they live it can easily take 30-40mins for them to get to my place. I guess she'll only date men in her neighborhood, lmao.

I don't think your ego should take a hit, you should realize this is the modern dating environment. Convenient, casual, self-centered.

Jeez it almost takes me that long to get to the city!

[DustinTheHuss]

Back on Bumble after a break for 2 months. Typical requests for sexy pics and the guys over 50 don’t look that great. Sigh. And then of course if it’s a guy under 30 it’s an instant match.

[Luc1fer]

do you ever drive to their place? 30 minutes is far as fukk in PHX

No I don't own a car, and rarely go to their place. I pay high rent for a 1br.

[Luc1fer]

[FemaleWarriorxo]

Lmao is this srs? Not surprised

[TheIronAsylum]

all of those dating apps need to be taken down and sued they are all scamming 90% of the users specially men

[fishnbrah]

No I don't own a car, and rarely go to their place. I pay high rent for a 1br.

and they drive 30 minutes across town to see you ?