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12-01-2017, 02:17 PM #31
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12-01-2017, 02:25 PM #32
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12-01-2017, 11:05 PM #33
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12-04-2017, 12:43 AM #34
Beginning to question whether NC actually works with a girlfriend as compared to a girl your trying to pick up.
Been over a week and still not getting anywhere with this girl. Starting to think if I should break it off with her, the head **** is wracking my brain. Really like this girl too, could have been something long term there.
How's the best way to let her down??
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12-04-2017, 12:47 AM #35
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12-04-2017, 03:51 AM #36
She wouldn't be doing this if she cared about your relationship, it's that simple. All those excuses she's giving you are BS
Have some self respect and start moving on bro, it sucks but there is nothing you can say or do to save it. Starting today, right now, move on. Focus on improving yourself, find your balls, and start talking to new girls"The Mind is the Battleground"
"I will not stop until I have an armor plated chest, boulder shoulders, castle back, pillar quads and a set of rock solid abs for the ladies"
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12-04-2017, 04:07 AM #37
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12-04-2017, 04:34 AM #38
If you respect yourself, yes
99.100% chance this is happening because there's another dude involved, in one way or another. Like I said, it simply comes down to this, if she cared about your relationship she wouldn't be behaving like this, even if she was "depressed"
But do it like a man. No emotional or unnecessary bullsh*t. Keep it short and sweet. It'll suck for a bit, but how bad it'll suck will be up to you and your attitude about it. Focus on improving yourself, it'll help you move on
Good luck bro"The Mind is the Battleground"
"I will not stop until I have an armor plated chest, boulder shoulders, castle back, pillar quads and a set of rock solid abs for the ladies"
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12-04-2017, 05:33 AM #39
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12-04-2017, 09:54 AM #40
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12-04-2017, 10:13 AM #41
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12-04-2017, 03:39 PM #42
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12-04-2017, 04:02 PM #43
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12-04-2017, 04:05 PM #44
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12-04-2017, 05:32 PM #45
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12-04-2017, 05:37 PM #46
Think about it this way. This entire time she figured she could do or treat you any way she wants and that you will not have the balls to do anything about it. Doesn't that piss you off? You did what needed to be done and you should be proud of it, you should be proud of respecting yourself and taking control of your life, that is what being a man is about
"The Mind is the Battleground"
"I will not stop until I have an armor plated chest, boulder shoulders, castle back, pillar quads and a set of rock solid abs for the ladies"
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12-04-2017, 05:43 PM #47
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12-05-2017, 10:20 AM #48
Thanks for the "pick me ups"!! Last night was tough a won't lie, I hardly slept. I've got a strong sense of guilt at the moment, part of me think she has serious depression problems, in hindsight she did display a lost of the symptoms. The other side of my thinks like the above posts I did the right thing getting out as she didn't display any regard for my feelings with the way she was behaving.
Contact has been very little since yesterday. I replied to her last message by saying she needs no talk to me, to which the reply was 'what's the point anymore'
Going to keep myself and my mind busy. Off to the gym shortly.
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12-05-2017, 12:54 PM #49
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12-05-2017, 10:00 PM #50
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12-06-2017, 11:39 AM #51
I'm coming into this late but it is super clear you guys were both in a rebound relationship. I had a similar experience and i'm telling you, you were both trying to fill a void left by your ex's cheating on you by rushing into a relationship with the first person you hit it off. She could have been distant because she realized how fast you guys were moving after a marriage. There could have been another guy but probably not. You guys needed to be alone and learn about yourself all over again. I've been there, married, cheated on, no self esteem no confidence. Relayed heavily on the next girl to boost my confidence and replace the emotional damaged my ex caused and rushed into a relationship that I knew was a dead end and kept trying to keep it alive until it finally died.
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12-06-2017, 01:18 PM #52
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12-09-2017, 03:04 AM #53
Ok she finally come clean with me. She's in a bad way financially. 20k in debt!! Cards, loan and overdraft. Basically more money going out than coming in every month. Single parent living with her own home and a ex who is not pulling his weight.
She said she was pushing me because she didnt want to drag me down with her.
Meeting up for lunch later. Not sure how to play this one.
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12-09-2017, 03:25 AM #54
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12-09-2017, 04:53 AM #55
lmaoooooooo OP if you give her a single penny I will neg you to infinity and beyond. Shes not your problem anymore and if shes in debt because her ex husband wouldnt pull his weight then thats on them. Dont let them drag you down too. I wouldnt even go on lunch with her but if thats what you need for closure then make this the last time and end it on your terms. Dont let her get in your head and feed you bs
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12-09-2017, 05:16 AM #56
God damn, man. You really fukked this one up severely. You were basically rewarding her for her sh!t behavior in the neediest ways possible. Which caused her to detest you. She's dryer than a desert in a drought, bro. It's a turn off for most women when a guy is a push-over.
You can put the cards on the table without being a total b!tch about it. Where's your balls, man? Holy fuk. Must be a troll. "Sorry bab."
EDIT: Just saw how she "came clean" about her 20k in debt, and living with her ex. If you don't mind essentially renting her, go for it. But that there is just hiring a whore. Who lives with her ex. Does he watch you fuk her from the corner in his bathrobe?
Last edited by CrimsonSteel; 12-09-2017 at 05:31 AM.
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12-09-2017, 05:26 AM #57
exact same **** happend to me..
she would text to me all day everyday
say sht like : " I missssss youuuuu <3, can I come over after work!?"
then one day she didnt for the whole day and I said whats going on? and she responded super late "im just tired"
all day?
then she would say weird sht to me like "I am tired of being used by guys, like I just am there to suck their dicks"
and I said "what? you dont think about me like that right"? and I told her all the reasons I like her and how I like her smile and appreciate the things shes done for me etc and?.. no response.
fukn weird but my instincts are always right..
its veryyyy simple to spot a difference in pattern with just texting..
we textd all day every day.
then one day she just disappears
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12-09-2017, 06:55 AM #58
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12-09-2017, 08:07 AM #59
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12-09-2017, 08:15 AM #60
unless the ex is basically jobless it takes very little these days for a woman to fill out a piece of paper, get a court date and have the ex's wages garnished for child support.
trust me on this.
If there is one thing the court system does expediently it's getting single mother's with no real jobs off the government dole by ass-raping the father financially.
run Forrest run.
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