Just found out brother in law has been cheating on my sister (srs)

[8thgen]

Cliffs

-they have been married for 17 years
-have three boys, oldest going into high school
-we've always suspected it, was confirmed last night
-they are both 50
-kids found out about it, they hate their dad now
-sister has been nothing but a saint to him, she wants to 'win him back' but he wants nothing to do with her
-they both built a multimillion-dollar business together, it will be a messy divorce

How should I approach this misc. Funny comments welcome, but srs comments will be taken seriously. Will asso appreciate PMs.

It's a knife in the gut knowing my sister will do anything for him, and he doesn't care about her.

[TTexasTT]

Your sister probably should have done anal.

[FloydPatterson]

beat him like Sonny beat his brother in law Carlo in the godfather.

Your sister is your blood, BEAT HIS ASS!

[butwhowasfeel]

Kill him

[dhawkeye1980]

How bout you just stay out of it and let them deal with it?

[EpicLevelWizard]

They're ****ing 50, they can deal with it themselves. Be there for your nieces/nephews and sister, but no need to interfere.

[WildBill112]

How do you approach it? You don't approach it. Let them deal with it, its between them.

[FAH_Q]

Gonna need pics of your sister to properly assess the situation.

There really is no special way to approach it. Chit happens. Dude seems like a POS. If she wants to continue to fight for him despite the affair, then thats on her. I wouldn't try too hard to convince her otherwise or you are just going to piss her off. Obviously she needs someone to explain to her the dude is a scum bag, but ultimately your primary concern should be to support her.

And out the lady he was having an affair with as well. Shame that home wrecking bish.

[DDSF1]

How bout you just stay out of it and let them deal with it?

This.

[Mudshovel]

Both 50? When did they have kids at 38?

[8thgen]

How bout you just stay out of it and let them deal with it?

Until anything major happens, this is my plan tbh.

[chickenallday]

Sit your sister down and tell her to have some self respect and to leave him. Yeah its going to suck for their business, but how can you go to work with your husband knowing they cheated on you?

Her kids will also not respect her as they grow up knowing that she was too weak to leave an unfaithful person

[blakhomer]

pepper his angus opie

[lurker9604]

where did he say he was gonna do anything? if anything his "how to approach this" is to comfort his sister who just got fukked over. LOL at ur strong sibling loyalty

[martin545]

I'd stay out of it completely. Just offer support to your sister and nephews. Go NC on bro in law. Maybe find a good divorce lawyer.

[thunderykoala]

Be there for your sister and support her. Outside of that, it seems like a personal affair between them.

[nn586]

I knew they shouldn't have started that escort business. Knew it would turn out this way.

[ronniec02]

Bro, they are both 50. I would have left that how for some new pussy a while ago. Give the man prop for staying with the hoe that long. **** around 40 that **** start looking like a grilled cheese sandwich when she spread her legs. He's my hero

[gwem32170191]

Let time handle this one OP. Sister and kids need to tough it out and wait for this unhappy dude to off himself.

[wesleysh21]

A marriage, children and a business are much more important than where the hubby temporarily sticks his dink. But it does suck that you said he's doing it because he's basically "over" the marriage.

I'd just tell her to make sure to collect all of the evidence she can for the divorce. She's going to win biggly in this one.

[smashedpotato]

That sucks man, sorry to hear. Honestly id just stay out of it. Its not really your place to get involved (though i dont know all the details) just be there for your sister. Thats a difficult situation and im sure she and he kids will need all the suppord they can get. Good luck mane. Hope it all works out well in the end.

[Fuqdatass]

I'd throw him a beating then go nc on him and only provide support for your sister and nephews.

Same thing happened 5 years ago with my brother in law. He suddenly decided after 15 years he was done with my sister and his kids. Was a total dick about it too, massively disrespectful at every turn, stringing my sister along, etc. I stomped him out as he was leaving work one night and haven't seen him since. It took a lot of support to get my sister and niece and nephew through it, but I'd do it again with a time machine.

Before I get called a *******, I am not white trash or poor or an idiot. You don't hurt my little sister. To be honest, I think he knew it was coming.

[420Layers]

Fuk him up.


Push his chit in.

[TMaC828]

Pics of sister.

[Mercworx]

Stay out of it dead srs.


If your sister wants to "win" this scumbag back (as if getting him is winning anything) then she wont appreciate anything you do.



They are 50. Not your problem.

[Fit1NYC]

Invite sis out for drinks then go to the bathroom and I'll walk over and seduce her like jon bernthal in sicario

[Slavbrahh]

Fukc that's rough man.

If it were me, I'd bring that piece of chit within millimetres of death. I'd seriously give him the biggest fukc beating it's not funny.

I have a brother, and if his fiancee decides to fukc him over... I swear I'd be the first to fukc her up (dead srs).

I'm extremely protective of family.

Probably not the best advice/opinion, but that's just me.

Best advice: Support your sister. Be firm with her and express your opinion, but don't come across as being a prick or too hard, show that you care and want the best for her and her children.

Good luck with it all mane.

[Realclout]

chitty situation but don't stress yourself out to much about it your life is completely separate then your sisters sure it can hurt you because you are family and you probably care about her but at the end of the day whats going on is affecting her life not yours just be there for her if she needs you don't stress about it not like you did something to hurt her you know

[lolatyou1]

gather evidence and lawyer up. don't physically assault him, find ways to destroy him financially

[SirFapsAIot]

was going to demand pics of sister, until I read the bolded text below

Cliffs

-they have been married for 17 years
-have three boys, oldest going into high school
-we've always suspected it, was confirmed last night
-they are both 50
-kids found out about it, they hate their dad now
-sister has been nothing but a saint to him, she wants to 'win him back' but he wants nothing to do with her
-they both built a multimillion-dollar business together, it will be a messy divorce

How should I approach this misc. Funny comments welcome, but srs comments will be taken seriously. Will asso appreciate PMs.

It's a knife in the gut knowing my sister will do anything for him, and he doesn't care about her.