He's making a decision... any females experienced this if so how'd you deal?

[cookiefiend]

I don't know what your talking about I don't control anything it's more like I give direction towards things because if I don't things will go no where and nothing will make sense since i'm dealing with a guy that doesn't know what he wants and can't commit to one decision.

Referring to things like this "But I don't allow that with him I always ask the deeper intrusive questions I don't let him try to cover up the deeper stuff with humor like he likes to do"

Though if he can't commit to one decision does it even matter if he chooses you, how long till he changes his mind?

[HayZues Christi]

Op is a butterface.

Butterfaces don't get kissed on lips and certainly are never upgraded to bottom bitch.

Get your teeth fixed and wax the stache homegirl.

[missalexx]

Yeah he doesn't think that and also he didn't say and I am not asking for a date since I don't think this is something you give a person a date and they'll just be ready to decide and know on that date as I said i'm just chilling and doing me while he's deciding.

sometimes its hard to follow what you're saying because your writing skills are absolutely horrendous.

[silverwildcat]

Referring to things like this "But I don't allow that with him I always ask the deeper intrusive questions I don't let him try to cover up the deeper stuff with humor like he likes to do"

How does that insinuate i'm crazy or that he thinks i'm crazy? I want to know the person I like on a deeper level that is not superficial. I like to know that full extent of who they are as a person and he knows that I want to know that extent of him. Which is why I always push him a little to open up to me. He has no problems with me asking him intrusive questions now him answering all of them is a different thing.

[headhunterzz]

this thread is gold

[cookiefiend]

How does that insinuate i'm crazy or that he thinks i'm crazy? I want to know the person I like on a deeper level that is not superficial. I like to know that full extent of who they are as a person and he knows that I want to know that extent of him. Which is why I always push him a little to open up to me. He has no problems with me asking him intrusive questions now him answering all of them is a different thing.

It doesn't insinuate that, I accidentally quoted the wrong post. See my edit.

[missalexx]

this thread is gold

it definitely went from frustrating to entertaining

[dipatel13]

I don't know what your talking about I don't control anything it's more like I give direction towards things because if I don't things will go no where and nothing will make sense since i'm dealing with a guy that doesn't know what he wants and can't commit to one decision.

Whether you want to believe it or not, he knows what he wants. He just doesn't know how to break the bad news to you yet.

[JustMoved24]

Why'd OP delete her picture?

[missalexx]

Whether you want to believe it or not, he knows what he wants. He just doesn't know how to break the bad news to you yet.

thissss

[silverwildcat]

Whether you want to believe it or not, he knows what he wants. He just doesn't know how to break the bad news to you yet.

Well that would be out of character for him since he's had no trouble being direct and honest with me since the beginning of our friendship to something more. In fact we started liking each other because we admired that both of us can be direct and honest with people because most people are the types to let others have an affect on what they want to say. He has expressed to me that he thinks I deserve better and that he can't give me the relationship I want. But I have also expressed to him that he's the only one I want.

[Lightsoft]

Nobody gives a Jesus's effin hairy arse who you like in your threads or not. This is not your site, you don't workout, and you don't get to say who posts here or not...or what they post.
Who da fukk would ever choose you anyway, you have a horrible, mean personality? Unfortunately, guys don't mind it when they wanna fukk someone, apparently.

oh chit. IN!

[silverwildcat]

Why'd OP delete her picture?

That wasn't me I don't know what happened there.

[cookiefiend]

Well that would be out of character for him since he's had no trouble being direct and honest with me since the beginning of our friendship to something more. In fact we started liking each other because we admired that both of us can be direct and honest with people because most people are the types to let others have an affect on what they want to say. He has expressed to me that he thinks I deserve better and that he can't give me the relationship I want. But I have also expressed to him that he's the only one I want.

Do you think he's being direct and honest with his gf?

[BigPoppaPumpin]

U G L Y

You ain't got no alibi

[FriendOfFrank]

That wasn't me I don't know what happened there.

you sure it didn't have something to do with this post a little while ago?

Op is a butterface.

Butterfaces don't get kissed on lips and certainly are never upgraded to bottom bitch.

Get your teeth fixed and wax the stache homegirl.

[dipatel13]

Well that would be out of character for him since he's had no trouble being direct and honest with me since the beginning of our friendship to something more. In fact we started liking each other because we admired that both of us can be direct and honest with people because most people are the types to let others have an affect on what they want to say. He has expressed to me that he thinks I deserve better and that he can't give me the relationship I want. But I have also expressed to him that he's the only one I want.

as I said he is very predictable to me but he has proven me wrong a certain number of times in the past and for that I don't mind the risk.

Interdasting...

[silverwildcat]

Do you think he's being direct and honest with his gf?

Idk he won't tell me anything about her and I honestly don't really care to know the details of his relationship like that it has nothing to do with me. But I can bet he hasn't because as I said she is like him regarding relationships so I think cheating and lying would have a big negative affect on her. But i'm not like most girls I always want to hear the truth no matter how possibly painful it could be. Where as most girls would rather the truth hit them in the face then truly investigate or ask questions and he never really admits anything to me unless I ask him directly. So chances are it's an ignorance is bliss situation for her.

[silverwildcat]

Interdasting...

When I said proven me wrong I meant I would expect him to do something that would disappoint me but he does the opposite

[silverwildcat]

you sure it didn't have something to do with this post a little while ago?

No there is no way he saw my face because I don't open mouth smile in my pictures and I don't have a mustache.

[missalexx]

. But i'm not like most girls I always want to hear the truth no matter how possibly painful it could be.

lolololol

[cookiefiend]

Idk he won't tell me anything about her and I honestly don't really care to know the details of his relationship like that it has nothing to do with me. But I can bet he hasn't because as I said she is like him regarding relationships so I think cheating and lying would have a big negative affect on her. But i'm not like most girls I always want to hear the truth no matter how possibly painful it could be. Where as most girls would rather the truth hit them in the face then truly investigate or ask questions and he never really admits anything to me unless I ask him directly. So chances are it's an ignorance is bliss situation for her.

So if you could bet he isn't being honest and direct with her despite the fact that you know he is direct and honest with people that means he is either already behaving out of character, or you don't know his character as well as you think.
Either of those means you don't really know if he's being honest and direct with you also.

[dp51134]

I wouldn't want to be 20 either! In college, broke, stress of keeping up with classes while playing tennis on the road for the university, fiance out of college and making money with evenings and weekends off while I'm studying, Age 22 started working full time and made mistakes looking back.

I get called an old hag on here all of the time. Meh......ridiculous, ignore.

Age is a mindset, not a number. I know 70 year olds who are climbing Everest and biking across the USA.

Happy New year you old hag. hehe

[FriendOfFrank]

No there is no way he saw my face because I don't open mouth smile in my pictures and I don't have a mustache.

oh, so you just happened to have your avi disappear, through no action of your own, after someone made a rude comment about your appearance?

everything that comes out of your mouth...

[silverwildcat]

So if you could bet he isn't being honest and direct with her despite the fact that you know he is direct and honest with people that means he is either already behaving out of character, or you don't know his character as well as you think.
Either of those means you don't really know if he's being honest and direct with you also.

No I never said with people but with me. He's honest and direct in an odd way towards people. He goes by a don't ask don't tell manner and if he doesn't want to lie he just won't answer the question.

[silverwildcat]

oh, so you just happened to have your avi disappear, through no action of your own, after someone made a rude comment about your appearance?

Yup what do you want me to reupload a new picture?

[FriendOfFrank]

Yup what do you want me to reupload a new picture?

No. I want you to stop lying to yourself and everyone else here.

[missalexx]

..

haha i love that gif.

[BigPoppaPumpin]

OP looks like squidward's sister. Ain't nobody wanna see that.

[Lightsoft]

lol. Eventually if a thread goes long enough it turns into miscers attacking each other.