Girl won't have sex because I never pay for dates

[WeedWizard420]

the first time we just got coffee. the second time she came over at 2am, slept over in her panties, and shut me down when I went for a kiss. third time coffee again, slept over again, made out, then shut down again. fourth time movie, fingered her, shut down.

her body is nuts but this is not worth it.

who the fuk comes over to sleep at a guys house for a 2nd date then is shocked when the guy tries to fuk them.

See edit. But from this post it seems like she either:
A) Is just ****ing with you/wants you to chase her

or

B) Wants to be taken on a real date.

I'm leaning more towards A just because she came over at 2AM to do nothing but tease you.

EDIT 2: She's ****ing with you, cut your losses.

Edit: Coffee is a first date only. Go mini golfing or bowling, then take her to a cheap restaurant. I always take chicks to McAlister's Deli and pay the $20 tab.

Then guage her response. Is she appreciative of you paying for the date, or does she act like you were just "supposed" to pay? If it's the latter, cut her off. If it's the former, she just wanted to go on an actual date. Dont let the poverty-stricken miscers ITT delude your mind. Just make sure you ignore her words and judge her by her actions.

[HockeyJon]

the first time we just got coffee. the second time she came over at 2am, slept over in her panties, and shut me down when I went for a kiss. third time coffee again, slept over again, made out, then shut down again. fourth time movie, fingered her, shut down.

her body is nuts but this is not worth it.

who the fuk comes over to sleep at a guys house for a 2nd date then is shocked when the guy tries to fuk them.

Sounds like she has serious mental problems.

[usersignup2]

This is misc, so what you do is promise her an extravagant evening at the best restaurant in town. Plow first. Then go NC immediately.

this.


if this bish is not WANTING to have sex with you, then obviously she doesn't enjoy sex.

ask your self this, if she doesn't enjoy sex then WTF would you want to bang her more than once? nothing worse than a limp, uninterested body.

also, as another miscer said above, trading for sex is the stupidest thing a guy can do. it implies that a) she doesn't like sex or b) she does, and she's getting a freebie for 'allowing' you to have sex.


don't be a pussy.

[ReyDelMundo]

Take her to McDonald's (drive thru, not trying to sit on seats poverty people have) buy her 1 McChicken, No Mayo.

Take home, smash.

Problem solved.

But srs, sounds like a dumb bish. Drop her and get back on Tinder.

[WinoCat]

Question OP: do you like this girl?

She's been going dutch thus far, which shows she's not just out for a free meal. She's invested a month with you, and by the sounds of it is confused by your signals. Usually a guy who likes a girl, will take her out for a meal or a date at least once or twice....she feels like your homie, because you aren't making her feel special in any way. Yet you expect to get your dink wet. Just lol at you. Arousal with women starts outside of the bedroom, and very few women get turned on by a guy who's like "soooo your half is $27.99 k?" at the end of your "date". So I'm asking if you like her? If the answer is yes, take her out for dinner and do something because you WANT to (crazy theory I know, but most of the time when someone likes someone else, they actually enjoy being nice to them).....if the answer is no, and you don't really see a future or aren't super invested in dating her, then just let her go.

Not rocket science brahs....

[bootywarrior123]

simple. buy dinner once, bang, then adios. cant imagine being with a kunt like this long term

[WeedWizard420]

Question OP: do you like this girl?

She's been going dutch thus far, which shows she's not just out for a free meal. She's invested a month with you, and by the sounds of it is confused by your signals. Usually a guy who likes a girl, will take her out for a meal or a date at least once or twice....she feels like your homie, because you aren't making her feel special in any way. Yet you expect to get your dink wet. Just lol at you. Arousal with women starts outside of the bedroom, and very few women get turned on by a guy who's like "soooo your half is $27.99 k?" at the end of your "date". So I'm asking if you like her? If the answer is yes, take her out for dinner and do something because you WANT to (crazy theory I know, but most of the time when someone likes someone else, they actually enjoy being nice to them).....if the answer is no, and you don't really see a future or aren't super invested in dating her, then just let her go.

Not rocket science brahs....

This.

[Naix]

Question OP: do you like this girl?

She's been going dutch thus far, which shows she's not just out for a free meal. She's invested a month with you, and by the sounds of it is confused by your signals. Usually a guy who likes a girl, will take her out for a meal or a date at least once or twice....she feels like your homie, because you aren't making her feel special in any way. Yet you expect to get your dink wet. Just lol at you. Arousal with women starts outside of the bedroom, and very few women get turned on by a guy who's like "soooo your half is $27.99 k?" at the end of your "date". So I'm asking if you like her? If the answer is yes, take her out for dinner and do something because you WANT to (crazy theory I know, but most of the time when someone likes someone else, they actually enjoy being nice to them).....if the answer is no, and you don't really see a future or aren't super invested in dating her, then just let her go.

Not rocket science brahs....

we spoke about this and neither one of us want something serious. both agreed it would be a casual thing.

only she shuts me down constantly

[Bishamon]

the first time we just got coffee. the second time she came over at 2am, slept over in her panties, and shut me down when I went for a kiss. third time coffee again, slept over again, made out, then shut down again. fourth time movie, fingered her, shut down.

her body is nuts but this is not worth it.

who the fuk comes over to sleep at a guys house for a 2nd date then is shocked when the guy tries to fuk them.

Come on fam, dont hold out on us with no pics

[malakas1]

dont pay go nc

[Naix]

Come on fam, dont hold out on us with no pics

[therealistwat]

fukken christ bro,, just take her out already

[swagyolo420brah]

why body when its all about the face?

[Devine88]

yes. she directly said this while laying on my chest in her panties.

LMAO, entitled piece of trash. I'd have kicked her out on the spot and called up another chick.

You will of course have the thirsty betas of the misc tell you how cheap you are; how in order to be romantic a man must transfer some of his wealth to the woman.

We all know that is bullchit. The truth is if a woman finds you sexually attractive she'll sleep with you even if you were a bum. Hell, she might even pay for your dinner.

[iloveus]

the first time we just got coffee. the second time she came over at 2am, slept over in her panties, and shut me down when I went for a kiss. third time coffee again, slept over again, made out, then shut down again. fourth time movie, fingered her, shut down.

her body is nuts but this is not worth it.

who the fuk comes over to sleep at a guys house for a 2nd date then is shocked when the guy tries to fuk them.

SOunds like she's making you do one move at a time for each date. lol. 5th date: you get to eat her out. 6th date she gives you a hand job. 7th date: you get a blow job from her. 8th date: You finally get to smash but only missionary. 9th date: You get to do doggystyle. 10th date: Jackhammer: 11th date: sidewinder. So on and so forth.

[Dbowens]

She's teasing you bro 100%.


I paid for a girl 3 times got a bj and fingered but she wouldn't put out so I said fuk this entitled sloot and moved on.


Bish didn't even offer to pay, lol just lol. If she was a 8/10 I would consider but lmfao strong 6/10. Fuking makes
me mad man. Pay for a dinner and wine, try your luck and if no dice then cut the hoe off

[WeedWizard420]

LMAO, entitled piece of trash. I'd have kicked her out on the spot and called up another chick.

You will of course have the thirsty betas of the misc tell you how cheap you are; how in order to be romantic a man must transfer some of his wealth to the woman.

We all know that is bullchit. The truth is if a woman finds you sexually attractive she'll sleep with you even if you were a bum. Hell, she might even pay for your dinner.

Yeah I'm convinced she's just screwing with him at this point.

[therealistwat]

LMAO, entitled piece of trash. I'd have kicked her out on the spot and called up another chick.

You will of course have the thirsty betas of the misc tell you how cheap you are; how in order to be romantic a man must transfer some of his wealth to the woman.

We all know that is bullchit. The truth is if a woman finds you sexually attractive she'll sleep with you even if you were a bum. Hell, she might even pay for your dinner.

This is true, I grew up with Ivy League, Pageant Winner/Model chicks who drive their pothead broke boyfriends around.

This chick kind of reminds me of sloots that lead on guys but tries to hint that shes a lesbian, talks like all men are worthless dogs and not really into dudes. Then you find out that one guy railed her hard in exchange for some weed

[LinuxJon]

the first time we just got coffee. the second time she came over at 2am, slept over in her panties, and shut me down when I went for a kiss. third time coffee again, slept over again, made out, then shut down again. fourth time movie, fingered her, shut down.

her body is nuts but this is not worth it.

who the fuk comes over to sleep at a guys house for a 2nd date then is shocked when the guy tries to fuk them.

She's a pain in the ass who just wants to play games. She either likes you or doesn't. Paying for a date shouldn't matter.

You have two options. Tell her she's a dumb kent and dump or now. Or pay for one date, realize she still won't sleep with you, and dump her then.

[woodbarry]

the first time we just got coffee. the second time she came over at 2am, slept over in her panties, and shut me down when I went for a kiss. third time coffee again, slept over again, made out, then shut down again. fourth time movie, fingered her, shut down.

her body is nuts but this is not worth it.

who the fuk comes over to sleep at a guys house for a 2nd date then is shocked when the guy tries to fuk them.

how is it not worth it to seal the dam deal. You've gone through the crappy first couple of dates why not go on 1 or 2 more then smash? The whole point of her waiting a little bit is to weed out the guys who only want sex and the guys who are patient for sex.

[SRTEvan]

i thought i was in the teen misc for a sec.

[swagyolo420brah]

This is true, I grew up with Ivy League, Pageant Winner/Model chicks who drive their pothead broke boyfriends around.

are their bfs really good looking?

[NotANun21]

Do what that one miscer did at the restaurant

"Oops I left my wallet in the car" and then bail and leave her to pay for both meals

[Wakaaa]

Ask her why you should pay if you're not getting serious with each other.. sounds like she is more agreeing towards a fwb.

Post her response. There's a few variables in this case.

[somekindofdrug]

All right, listen to me. You pull up right where she is, right? You go to get out of the car and you lock both doors. Then get out of the car, and you walk over to her, and bring her over to the car. Take out the key, put it in the lock, open the door for her, and you let her get in. Then you close the door for her. You walk around the back of the car, and you look through the rear window. If she doesn't reach over and lift up that button so you could get in, dump her. Just like that? listen to me kid, if she doesn't reach over and lift up that button, so you could get in, that means she's a selfish broad, and all you've seen is the tip of the iceberg. You dump her, and you dump her fast.

A buddy tried this test on a girl once, he ended up locking his keys in the car, and the girl started panicking because the car was stuck idling in the driveway with the dad due home & she wasn't supposed to be dating (no idea why - weird controlling dad). I don't remember what happened but they didn't end up going on the date or speaking again, lol. My friend was 19 & the girl was like 17 I think, which was legal in FL at the time.

[therealistwat]

are their bfs really good looking?

some are, some are just fukken derpy looking

[juvefan]

Girl doesnt put out until shes serious with a guy ----> bitch, gold digger, whore


Girl puts out on first date ----> Sloot, sloots gon sloot, daughters.gif

[Footzy]

Its a test. Tell her to get lost. She knows exactly what she is doing.

[Naix]

Girl doesnt put out until shes serious with a guy ----> bitch, gold digger, whore


Girl puts out on first date ----> Sloot, sloots gon sloot, daughters.gif

did you read anything i said you retard? the second time i met her, she came over at 2am and slept in her panties. then said no sex

[imbored21]

I don't pay for girls. They pay for me.