OFFICIAL 50 Day Cold Approach Challenge

[lisamona]

Tried my first today. Made a thread. It was bad but it'll get better

[neverquit2012]

UPDATE:

Not cute lifeguards last night. Went to sonic afterwards with a buddy and saw 3 girls sitting in there car, one of whom was cute as hell.

COLD APPROACH #17

Walked over to the car and motioned them to roll down their windows. I introduced myself and started flirting. Ended up getting all 3 numbers. Texted the cute one this morning.

Texted the girl from nutrition about hanging tonight yesterday and no response still. She's been on instagram so I know she's up. Looks like another dumb b*tch might be about to flake. Oh well I kinda expected it with this one.

Texted cold approach #16(the Latina) and got good responsiveness. Asked her if she wanted to grab lunch after class Tuesday. Still waiting for response

Texted the Brazilian and got no reply lol.

Texted a girl from my past just for the hell of it since I haven't seen her in 2 months. If the girl from nutrition flakes, I might set up a date with this one for tonight.

Lesson I've learned this week: when a bish flakes, leave it. Pursuing will almost never get you anywhere. If a girl is interested, she WILL make time.


Things seem to be slowing down a bit. Feeling a little discouraged by all the flakiness, but sloots gon sloot.

[Weaver14]

Mirin OP srs. Inspiring me to get back into cold approaches. Couple things tho, for two and three sets just get the number of the girl you're most interested in or ask can I grab one of your numbers and the one who's most interested will give hers, cause as you've seen getting multiple at once puts you in a tricky situation. Also maybe try and build more rappor with them before asking them out, it might reduce the flaking a bit. Good work tho man

[neverquit2012]

Mirin OP srs. Inspiring me to get back into cold approaches. Couple things tho, for two and three sets just get the number of the girl you're most interested in or ask can I grab one of your numbers and the one who's most interested will give hers, cause as you've seen getting multiple at once puts you in a tricky situation. Also maybe try and build more rappor with them before asking them out, it might reduce the flaking a bit. Good work tho man

Good point mate. Definitely gonna try building a little more connection in future approaches. I think I may be coming on a little to blunt/strong

[neverquit2012]

UPDATE:

Still texting the Latina(approach #16). She's an awful texter lol. She takes hours to respond but it looks like we are gonna maybe hang out Tuesday after class.

So I finally gave up on that flaky Latina who I talked to on the phone yesterday. She wasn't responding to texts still. Tonight i sent this final text, "this obviously isn't going to work. It was fun chilling. Take care." She texted back surprisingly quickly, "What? I been to busy with college." I waited a few hikes and sent back, "look I'm interested, but you gotta help me out here. If you wanna talk I'll be up for a while." Get a text a few hours later, "I'm confused." I called her and basically told her I'm interested in dating but if she wasn't I didn't wanna waste my time and that I needed to know right then. She said, "no yea. We can grab something soon. I like you. You're really nice. You are a good friend."

I'm not sure what she said next, but I zoned out after the part about "you're a good friend." Not sure WTF that means since we barely know each other. Not on a text her. If she's interested she'll let me know. Moving on. Can't believe I've wasted so much time on this sloot.

I was supposed to see the girl from
nutrition tonight at the gym, but she didn't show. Said she's sorry and she promised her mom she'd "hang out with her for Mother's Day weekend". I asked her what night next week she's free and she said she wasn't sure and would let me know. Not gonna give up yet but it looks like this one is about done.

COLD APPROACH #18

Went to sonic with a buddy tonight. Saw two gorgeous Indian girls pull up in a car. Went up and started flirting only to find out their boyfriends were in the car next to them. The boyfriend's were pissed but didn't do anything lol. They were both small. Didn't get a number but whatever.

Got a date tomorrow with a girl I met last week. Looking forward to it. She's been very responsive and has initiated contact and seems pretty interested. Will report back.

[Weaver14]

Just one other thing, you don't have to try and date/phuck all of these girls. Become friends with some of them cause hot chicks have lots of hot friends, keep hustling tho bro

[EGN123]

Do you guys have a different mothers day in america or something?

[neverquit2012]

Just one other thing, you don't have to try and date/phuck all of these girls. Become friends with some of them cause hot chicks have lots of hot friends, keep hustling tho bro

Yea for sure man. There are several girls on campus who I have approached and who turned me down cuz they have a bf but who come up to me now and say hi and wave and are really friendly. Even if you can't always get girls via cold approach it definitely has potential for making friends.

[arlo235]

UPDATE:

Not cute lifeguards last night. Went to sonic afterwards with a buddy and saw 3 girls sitting in there car, one of whom was cute as hell.

COLD APPROACH #17

Walked over to the car and motioned them to roll down their windows. I introduced myself and started flirting. Ended up getting all 3 numbers. Texted the cute one this morning.

Texted the girl from nutrition about hanging tonight yesterday and no response still. She's been on instagram so I know she's up. Looks like another dumb b*tch might be about to flake. Oh well I kinda expected it with this one.

Texted cold approach #16(the Latina) and got good responsiveness. Asked her if she wanted to grab lunch after class Tuesday. Still waiting for response

Texted the Brazilian and got no reply lol.

Texted a girl from my past just for the hell of it since I haven't seen her in 2 months. If the girl from nutrition flakes, I might set up a date with this one for tonight.

Lesson I've learned this week: when a bish flakes, leave it. Pursuing will almost never get you anywhere. If a girl is interested, she WILL make time.


Things seem to be slowing down a bit. Feeling a little discouraged by all the flakiness, but sloots gon sloot.

My advice is to not spend so much money on the dates. Why don't you hang out on campus? All these random dates will add up.

[neverquit2012]

My advice is to not spend so much money on the dates. Why don't you hang out on campus? All these random dates will add up.

Yea I'm just going to the mall with the one I'm chilling with tonight. A lot of times though on the first date/hangout I let the girl cover her own food/expenses and I pay mine.

[neverquit2012]

UPDATE

So the two girls from work who I thought were weirded out are actually pretty into me. The instructor told me they kept asking him questions about me and how they thought I'm hot. Later on, one of the girls told me they drew on the back of my car. Sure enough, got off work and each one had drawn their name on the back of my car along with a smiley face and some hearts and one of them wrote "HOT". Might hit one of them up next time my luck slows down.

Went out with cold approach #12 tonight. This was the chick I originally cancelled on because i wasn't that interested. Was pleasantly surprised tonight though. She's actually pretty damn cool. Not gonna lie, wouldn't mind continuing to date this girl and seeing where things go. She was super sweet, really conversational, and she's into lifting! She started using terms like "bro science" and "IIFYM" and "OP" lol. She started telling me about her favorite supplements. She's a big cellucor fan and buys all her stuff on bodybuilding.com. Anyways...liked what I saw. Definitely gonna take this one out again.

Got a text from a gorgeous Latina I approached Thursday. "Hey neverquit2012! Do you have ******** or instagram?" She sent another text joking about a "background check". I have her my instagram. 5 minutes later I get this text, "you lift!!! just for the record, points for you!" Looks like I'm about to get a date with this one.

Tomorrow is Sunday. Taking the day off from anything girl related lol. I have to read a 230 page book by Monday and write a 2 page paper on it. Gonna be a long weekend...

[JoocyDrake]

Probably the best thread on TMisc

[neverquit2012]

UPDATE:

A girl I dated earlier this spring texted me this morning. We're going to the gym Tuesday night.

Latina I've been texting agreed to grab coffee Tuesday. Found out she's 22. Kinda proud of myself for pulling a girl 4 years older than me Not gonna tell her I'm 18 lol

Texted one of the girls from work just for giggles. Seemed very responsive and flirty. Told her I'm going bowling later this week and invited her to come. She was at work when I texted but said she's interested and would get back with me. Really hope I pull this one. All the other guys at work are drooling over her and so far I've gotten farther than any of them.


Fawk finals.. Just 2 weeks until it's over. Can't wait for summer

[JoocyDrake]

Fuark I keep making excuses not to approach

[lisamona]

Fuark I keep making excuses not to approach

Try it brah. It'll get better each and every time

[JoocyDrake]

I need to step up my game and just do it...Probably won't even get rejected, and even if-who cares.

[lisamona]

I need to step up my game and just do it...Probably won't even get rejected, and even if-who cares.

exactly

[neverquit2012]

UPDATE:

Today is the final day of classes, and a bunch of kids aren't even showing up. Probably not going to get any approaches

After class, I've got a date with the 22 year old latina chick. Gonna be interesting...

Tomorrow night i'm going to the gym with a girl i used to date. I think i can get it in with this one to be honest. She's pretty easy going, and(as i found out after we stopped dating) pretty slutty apparently.

Last night I got a call from the girl from my nutrition class asking if i was coming to the gym. I told her I'd be going tomorrow night and she said she will be to and looks forward to seeing me. Fawk, gonna have two different girls i want to get it in with at the gym tomorrow night. Not sure how this is gonna work yet... I'll think of something.

Girl from work texted me and she and i are going bowling friday.


My fawking parents are going pretty hardcore on this internet security sh*t. Originally they just set up a computer filter. Yesterday though, I stumbled across some papers on my mom's desk. Apparently they have set up a router log that tracks ALL internet history. They went in their room last night and talked for several hours and took the papers and some computers with them. Looks like they stumbled across some of my sh*t. I'm not sure when they set it up. Hopefully it was Monday and no earlier. If they did it on Sunday, i'm screwed. Watched some pron that day lol. I have an internet proxy app on my iphone. That won't show up in the router history will it?

If they end up finding all my internet sh*t, things are going to absolutely blow up. Me and them have not been on good terms for several years, but we've managed to make things work. If this blows up though, it'll be the straw that breaks the camel's back and I'm gonna just move out. I'll be going to college in a month and a half anyways. Until then, I have several friends who will let me stay with them. Don't even really give a damn what they find.

After thursday, i won't have access to an unmonitored computer or iphone until i go to summer school in June. I'll keep approaching but I won't be able to log any of it for a while except on occassion if I borrow a friend's computer. Keep approaching brahs. We all gonna make it.

[Shysty021]

UPDATE

So the two girls from work who I thought were weirded out are actually pretty into me. The instructor told me they kept asking him questions about me and how they thought I'm hot. Later on, one of the girls told me they drew on the back of my car. Sure enough, got off work and each one had drawn their name on the back of my car along with a smiley face and some hearts and one of them wrote "HOT". Might hit one of them up next time my luck slows down.

Went out with cold approach #12 tonight. This was the chick I originally cancelled on because i wasn't that interested. Was pleasantly surprised tonight though. She's actually pretty damn cool. Not gonna lie, wouldn't mind continuing to date this girl and seeing where things go. She was super sweet, really conversational, and she's into lifting! She started using terms like "bro science" and "IIFYM" and "OP" lol. She started telling me about her favorite supplements. She's a big cellucor fan and buys all her stuff on bodybuilding.com. Anyways...liked what I saw. Definitely gonna take this one out again.

Got a text from a gorgeous Latina I approached Thursday. "Hey neverquit2012! Do you have ******** or instagram?" She sent another text joking about a "background check". I have her my instagram. 5 minutes later I get this text, "you lift!!! just for the record, points for you!" Looks like I'm about to get a date with this one.

Tomorrow is Sunday. Taking the day off from anything girl related lol. I have to read a 230 page book by Monday and write a 2 page paper on it. Gonna be a long weekend...

Dude shes aware brah..in b4 a random female tmiscer appears.

5*thread btw keep it up, but dont burn urself out man. Jugglin too much can get exhausting.

[neverquit2012]

Dude shes aware brah..in b4 a random female tmiscer appears.

5*thread btw keep it up, but dont burn urself out man. Jugglin too much can get exhausting.

Lol I actually asked her if she misced. She said no though.

Thanks for the kinda words mate. It's definitely a lot to juggle but IMO it's worth it. I think multiple girls is what every guy needs. It helps you to not be clingy because your attention is divided. When one girl flakes it's a bit of a bummer, but I just move on to the next one waiting

[rynnp]

repped. kinda motivating, keep it up

[neverquit2012]

UPDATE:

Cold Approach #19

Saw a gorgeous latina(me and latinas lol) sitting by herself on her phone. She looked kinda bi*tchy but i thought "fawk it" and approached anyways. Should've listened to my gut, she eneded up being a total b*tch. Asked for her number and she said she couldn't give it to me since it was her work phone. Asked for her fb and she said she she never uses it. Walked off and left lol

Cold Approach #20

Did this immediately after the latina. 7.5/10 sitting by herself near the cafe. Walked up and introduced myself and we had a good short talk. She was really friendly and responsive and gave me her number. Texted her Tuesday and she never responded.

Cold Approach #21

Was at the gym last night and there was a sh*t ton of cute girls. There's a kiddy area in the back which is always staffed by girls. Saw a cute redhead who looked like she was about 17/18. Walked up to her and told her I had come to pick up my kid named Joey. She looked at the list and started getting super scared. "uhh...i'm sorry but...we don't have a joey". I messed with her for a minute and then told her i just wanted to come introduce myself cuz i thought she was cute. She laughed and was really relieved. Gave me her number on a sticky note and i texted her last night. Suggested we hang out saturday and she was up for it. Seemed kinda slutty when i was talking to her. Hopefully i'll get it in



I was supposed to work out with a girl I used to date last night. She texted me at the last minute and said she was feeling sick. Didn't even respond because i'm pretty sure she was BSing me .

Girl from nutrition class was supposed to show up and didn't.

Was supposed to have a date on tuesday after class, but the chick gave some BS excuse about studying for a test that she forgot about.


On the bright side, I'm hanging out with a really cool girl from work tomorrow and her friend. They both think i'm "cute" and she keeps texting me.

Also might be chiling on saturday with that flaky latina who i gave up on a week ago. Seems like her interest has been rekindled...idk


Going through a bit of a dry period right now with all these girls flaking. Probably need to make some adjustments in my approaches and try some new stuff. I need to smile more too.

[jumpman18]

GOAT thread. OP. What do you usually say to the girls when you approach them? Can you gives us some basic dialogue?


Also...

Inb4 3some with girls from work

[neverquit2012]

Hey guys sorry its been so long. My dumba*s parents set up a sh*t ton of Internet restrictions and I haven't been able to access anything for almost a month. Currently posting from a friend's phone lol.

UPDATE

Lots been happening but ill try and keep it brief.

1) Leaving for college in one week to begin football training. So fuarking excited to get out of my house.
2) All the dates I was going on started taking a toll on my wallet lol so I eventually dropped all of the girls except for one whom I just recently got into a relationship with. Definitely was not expecting or planning this considering I'm leaving for college so soon. We'll only be 2 hours apart though and I'll be able to see her once a week so it should work fine. Still doing occasional cold approaches here and there just to maintain my confidence and work on my game a little but nothing like what I was previously doing.

Hope all is going well with everyone. Within a week I'll be moved out and be back on here pretty regularly

[cowboyhaze]

das it mane aware us on how to not go blank in mind at the end of every convo

[neverquit2012]

Been a while brahs. College and football were great, but I ended up getting injured and I'm home for surgery now. Still got a scholarship to come back to in January 2015. Taking this semester off to work and rehab.

COLD APPROACH UPDATES

Not gonna record anymore really lol. It's become a part of my every day life. I see a cute girl I like, I talk to her. I would highly encourage anyone who hasn't tried cold approaching to do it. In the last 5 months, I lost my virginity, got laid multiple times, met a ton of girls(1 of whom I'm currently dating and is pure wife material) and gained a bunch of confidence. It's drastically improved my life not only with women, but in other areas. Get out there and do it brahs. You won't regret it

[Krolczyk]

What was your injury and where are you playing at

[Veezu]

awkward beta checking in

oh how does this work do i approach a girl everyday for 50 days?

[7Abz7]

Ive done about 50 cold approaches in a month, then i stopped and fell off. good luck with ur **** man i subbed. keep postin ur updates and gl. how old are you btw? and when you say "flirt" what exactly do you say lol, just curious

[neverquit2012]

What was your injury and where are you playing at

I tore my right hip labrum(cartilage). My dad played college and NFL and has the same injury and both hips. I feel like and old man lol. And I'm currently playing at Trinity Valley Junior College in Athens Tx. My grades are high enough to get into any university, but I never played highschool football and a junior college was my best bet. We're ranked 5'th in the nation. Besides, 90% of our players get D1 offers. Aiming to play at Texas A&M like my dad and grandpa.