lol just lol @ all the people ITT getting legit mad and posting these massive walls of text
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08-20-2014, 04:59 AM #631
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08-20-2014, 04:59 AM #632
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08-20-2014, 05:01 AM #633
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08-20-2014, 05:02 AM #634
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08-20-2014, 05:04 AM #635
just say:
"Now listen here you self entitled muppet, You think I'm a cool dude? Just be friends? Thanks but no thanks, I don't want to pretend to be your little brother Jimmy that you never had. Cook for you? You are 30 years old, would you like me to iron your clothes for you as well? I didn't realise i was auditioning to be a friendly servant.
I understand that your window of opportunity for finding young fit guys is fast running out and all your friends are getting into serious relationships while you get left behind, but rather than think that there is something wrong with the men that you have dated, maybe there is something wrong with your expectations and feelings that every guy owes you something."
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08-20-2014, 05:05 AM #636
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08-20-2014, 05:06 AM #637
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08-20-2014, 05:06 AM #638
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08-20-2014, 05:19 AM #639
just read the last 4 pages. this chit is emabarassing.
that jacked black guy seems to have nailed it. a couple others are on the right page. black jesus seems to be giving terrible advice and just giving that loser of a broad more power than she already has over this ******* op.
brb walks away after date
brb op still persues her
brb making that ******* op cook for her after she walks away
brb misc giving terrible advice (as usual)
brb op not listening to the few posters with sound advice ITT
in conclusion: op/the misc are the reason that women have the power they do. congrats.-Shrugs are my best friend-
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08-20-2014, 05:21 AM #640
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08-20-2014, 06:09 AM #641
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08-20-2014, 06:18 AM #642
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08-20-2014, 06:20 AM #643
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08-20-2014, 06:28 AM #644
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08-20-2014, 06:33 AM #645
I think you need to look in the mirror man, some of these long ass replies are even more pathetic. Stop taking this so seriously. I was never asking for advice when I created this thread you dip****, I think you need to take some reading lessons. I just wanted to tell the misc the story. Then BJ came along and told me to hit her with his copypasta, so I did just to see how she'd respond. This thread would have ended after about 3 pages if I had just gone NC. Was I going to actually spend a bunch of money and cook her a fancy dinner? Fuk no. Would I have let her come over after work for a movie? Maybe.
I have zero self esteem issues. I'm not a player by any means but I'm very confident and can approach in public no problem. I really don't know why I'm trying to defend myself to a bunch of random people online but like I said, your responses are beyond fukking pathetic at this point. Maybe you're the one that needs to get a damn life instead of worrying about some guy texting a bish copypasta.
For those wondering, she has not responded back. Do I care in the slightest? No.
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08-20-2014, 06:37 AM #646
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08-20-2014, 06:39 AM #647
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i don't think the walls of text have anything to do with op at this point. i think ppl have stopped trying to give you advice/feedback for the most part. it just took a really beta guy and bad advice from black jesus to trigger some very edifying thoughts from self-respecting miscers.
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08-20-2014, 06:42 AM #648
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08-20-2014, 06:44 AM #649
As ****ed up as it sounds, she just wanted to have the tables turned around. She wanted to trade her power for a sign of fortitude and integrity on your side. All you had to do was tell her that you felt disrespected by what she did and that you don't buy people's respect. That's what she did in the end, she disrespected you as a person because you didn't spend money on her. If she had any interest then she would've tried to make it up to you somehow. But you let your "Self-respect vs Getting some" mind conflict get in the way and she sensed it. Women are good at this.
What she did was really immature, and at 30, it's a huge red flag. But you struggled with it way too much (Self-respect vs Getting some mind conflict), so you should work on that.
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08-20-2014, 06:44 AM #650
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08-20-2014, 06:50 AM #651
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Hub, I like you, but sometimes, you get in this, "greater than thou" mode man. And by that, I mean, any advice you deem bad, is. I think you're forgetting that there's more than one way to come to a resolution on things. It's almost as if you're taking this personal instead of situational. You've done that to me before. It's not a big deal, but I see that's how you are. If we're going to remain friends, then that's something I'll keep in the back of my mind and try to overlook.
That being said, I think the one key word we're forgetting here is TINDER. They met on Tinder. It wasn't Christian Mingle, some work function or some event to where a SOLID RELATIONSHIP was set out to be formed, they met on an app for fukcin'. Plain and simple.
You keep saying my advice is horrible, but no, it's not. I have yet to give this guy bad advice. Just because you don't agree with it doesn't make it bad. I've said from the beginning that it's not a shot to his ego because this wasn't something they came into to be some long term sh**. He never came out of pocket and was slighted. He never simped this broad. He made her laugh from the jump, she and he decided to finally meet for drinks, they had a good time and one momentary slip made her get salty. To me, that's a win because I'm not your dude. I'm not holding your hand and you're not bound to stay there. Bitch, leave. If you think me not paying for drinks is that big of a deal, that's your beef.....cook it and eat it. Either talk to me about it, or don't. She chose the latter and now we're here.
Is that one thing enough to never talk to a person again? My opinion, absolutely not. Especially if you and that person can speak as adults and say, "You know, blippty bloppity, I thought this, you thought that, we're cool." and dead it. As previously stated, we can still talk, but I'm gonna tell myself, "Mental note #1". Unless you've done something so bad, so detrimental, so outlandish it's just beyond words, I have two choices: Leave you alone for good or let it slide and make a mental note and continue to talk to you on a short leash.
If she wasn't still interested, then she would not have responded. Her laughing in texts shows that what they did to originally set up that date is still there because they're conversing.
And this cooking thing has gone a bit too far. I never told him to personally prepare a meal for her. Why you guys are harping on this like that's gonna happen is beyond me. I told her to ask her to cook him a meal and watch Netfix. She responded with a cheeky "I don't know how", just to fukc with him and I told him to have them do it together...while making conversation to set up the scene for later that night. This is a TWO PARTY thing, not one. So I think we can put that to rest.
If she comes over his house, after this "minute" thing, then she's definitely down to fukc. You don't go over a dude's house, cook dinner with him and watch Netflix and tell yourself, "That's it". She knows wassup, he knows wassup. It's a just a matter of when the sh** is going to happen.
Like I said, it's not a big deal. You make issues of things that ARE issues, not some silly misunderstanding over a paid drink and you leaving.
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08-20-2014, 06:55 AM #652
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08-20-2014, 06:56 AM #653
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08-20-2014, 07:02 AM #654
Read only the OP and a few different versions of the cliffs.
From what I gather, and not sure if this has been stated yet, but it seems like she had her friend planted there. Kind of like those cheesy sitcom situations where someone has their "aunt" call and pretend to be "sick" as a rescue from a date or other awkward situation.
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08-20-2014, 07:09 AM #655
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08-20-2014, 07:15 AM #656
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08-20-2014, 07:24 AM #657
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08-20-2014, 07:33 AM #658
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08-20-2014, 07:36 AM #659
I have literally created an account to express my astonishment at the lamest, ****giest advice that the poor poor OP has received from this clown dubbed 'black jesus'. even forgetting his absolutely cringe worthy texts, 'black jesus' seems incapable of analyzing the situation beyond the most superficial level.
let me simplify the situation using the famous Benjamin Franklin quote:
'Those who would give up essential Liberty, to purchase a little temporary Safety, deserve neither Liberty nor Safety.'
Benjamin Franklin
adapting that to the situation here:
Those who would give up essential self respect, to purchase a little temporary pussy, deserve neither (self) respect nor pussy.
it's mind boggling how this 'black jesus' clown claims to be a pickup artist when he has demonstrated no ability to understand this concept, which is THE MOST FUNDAMENTAL CONCEPT if you wish to have any success whatsoever with women.
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08-20-2014, 07:40 AM #660
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