Bro there is a million stories of athletes sick/hurt having their best games. Wounded soldiers accomplishing amazing feats. It's everywhere. The only way that flatline is gonna affect whatever it is you got going on this weekend is if YOU let it. Cheesy old commercial but to quote, " There's two kinds of men, man that believes he can, man that believes he can't, both are right." Good luck in your endeavors.
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09-17-2013, 09:58 PM #361
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09-17-2013, 10:08 PM #362
The quote "the more one enjoys in youth, the more one suffers in old age" has never been more true for us brahs.
I'm at day 16 and I feel my social dynamics are for sure increasing, i'm nore like "yeah whatever I said that. what you gonna do?" if I say something awkward. It's not getting me like it does when I fap on the reg. When I fap on the reg (to porn) I have no self-respect. I think this is a major psychological problem, but also fysiological aswell.
There is something that changes in the brain when you don't fap for sure. My meditations goes smoother and I get a deeper focus into my meditations because my mind is generally more calm. This creates a synergy effect! (Meditation calms down the genitals and calms down the nervous system, whilst no-fap gives that crystal clear mind of peace). Together they make you serene and a really cool guy to hang around with. This in turn increases your confidence and you get a snowball effect that affects all parts of your life.
Also what I find helps when i'm really horny is to just change focus. Try to imagine that you are drawing up all that sexual energy through your spine and upto your head.
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09-17-2013, 10:29 PM #363
I've become very moody. Whatever I hear that I disagree with, even the smallest things make me mad and I can't stop arguing.
I don't feel like doing so, I feel bad when I do it but I can't help it.
Hope it goes soon or at least manage to channel it towards something useful
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09-17-2013, 10:53 PM #364
In
Gonna use this to stay on track, aiming for a year. Started last Thursday. Libido is nonexistent haha
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09-17-2013, 10:55 PM #365You can, and need to find a ground that you know you are suppose to stand on.. hence, stand your ground, this is the place where you know everything is as it should be for you. If you stand in a place where you know in your heart things are wrong, most things around you will never be right.
Rule number one, never work at being what another man defines as being "honorable", Honorable is is being true to what you know and and doing what you know is right for you..
Nagalfar
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09-17-2013, 11:20 PM #366
mntbikedude 9/4/13
MickyBoii
motorvation
Barteh
Tax843
JeromeWeinberg
benmcmc1
Adrogeus
JoshisFresh
Skeeeeet
Steadywayfarer
Nowitsmyturn
Thunderquip
Torien89
JonnyStead
gloria7
Silkysmoothe
nick_990
Feverdr
Achieving
Huskertwood
Pioteq
bpaura
Iceman321 9/11/13
Trekhan
Ice32
blunose
Sundawgm
Thelostbrah64
bigdeadlift
Malfurion
Lifeisgood12
Vinniewalker
PatHead
xCody
I'll put up my chain soon.
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09-18-2013, 01:36 AM #367
Time flies by so fast when you're with your gf. I even forgot all about this thread. Anyway I believe it's day 7 now. Monday she left again and will be back on Friday. The days she's away are the hardest I swear. BTW, you will actually last LONGER at sex, if you don't look at porn. When I do look at porn, I am often times like "no, i don't wanna cum right now, no no not when they are showing the guy's face" and then I fuking cum. This **** carries over to sex which results to premature ejaculation. The way u are supposeds to have sex, is that you actually feel like you WANT to cum, but the more you want, the less likely you are to cum, so you will last longer... and when in fact u do cum, u cum together with your girl when she's at her peak and that's the best fuking experience ever i tell you.
++Positive Crew++
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09-18-2013, 02:40 AM #368
Day 7! Woo!
Didn't want to post until I had a streak going. Have been tempted a few times, but I thought 'nah, if I do this now I'll always be how I am'. The need to change has kept me strong. I'm just going to take it week by week. Will post again in a weeks time.
I am making big efforts to sleep well, i.e to get into bed early and do whatever I can to sleep deeply (wearing earplugs, ensure room is dark, take melatonin, zma etc) I have also started taking vitamin D, royal jelly, lecithin, yeast extract on top of the zma and a few other things that may help with test production.
Workouts are going well, I am making gains and pushing myself harder.
I like that feeling you get when you haven't fapped for a while, it's hard to explain, but you feel more manly and healthy, and frankly you don't feel drained. I think fapping really does drain a lot out of us, vitamins, hormones etc etc. When you wake up on nofap you definitely feel a little more pumped full of the good hormones. I also like looking down at my d*ck when I take a piss and seeing it looking full, rather then shrivelled and drained. Starting to feel a little more confident and upbeat. Nothing amazing, but just a little less drained of life...
I saw this video and think it is relevant to nofap and goal setting in general. Motivating as phuck..
Last edited by Thunderquip; 09-18-2013 at 02:46 AM.
"If you correct the mind, the rest of your life will fall into place..." - Lao Tzu
Doing something mediocre is a thousand times better than not doing scientific magical sh*t - Elliot Hulse
We are either the masters or the victims of our attitudes. It is a matter of personal choice. Who we are today is the result of the choices we made yesterday. Tomorrow, we will become what we choose today. To change means to choose to change. -John Maxwell.
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09-18-2013, 03:16 AM #369
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09-18-2013, 03:34 AM #370
had a very good 'last fap' yesterday, to start my no fap journey.
i thought having that very awesome and strong 'last fap' would help. but now.. just on my day 1, i'm fighting the urges like crazy
i can't tell you how many times i've gotten up to attempt closing the curtains on my window to start my fap session, only to sit down again and telling myself i need to fight this. fukkk
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09-18-2013, 04:09 AM #371
Day 10....Feeling fantastic.
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09-18-2013, 04:58 AM #372
CK,
A last session is one of the dumbest things I've ever heard. It is like an alcoholic saying he is going to get blitzed one more time before he decides he actually is going to quit. Seriously. Freaking stupid.
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09-18-2013, 05:14 AM #373
- Join Date: Jul 2013
- Location: New York, United States
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Day 3.
After Day 18, I had a relapse. Woke up Monday morning after spending all weekend railing the Oneitis, had the urge to browse the ******** of the chesty college girl who cuts my hair, and, well, it just happened. Felt like it was an irresistible impulse, but haven't felt the need since.
Sex drive is strong, still have that generally energetic and motivated feeling.Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
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09-18-2013, 05:29 AM #374
well for me it was more like a bachelor party before getting married.
i felt like having an awesome last fap could help me go through with this with no regrets.
it doesn't matter now anyway, i've managed to suppress the urges i felt earlier. it went on for hours. im fine now, im aware that the next days would be harder but my body is ready
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09-18-2013, 05:50 AM #375
Day 4 brahs.
*"I don't give a chit Lisa" CREW*
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09-18-2013, 12:03 PM #376
mntbikedude 9/4/13
MickyBoii
motorvation
Barteh
Tax843
JeromeWeinberg
benmcmc1
Adrogeus
JoshisFresh
Skeeeeet
Steadywayfarer
Nowitsmyturn
Torien89
JonnyStead
gloria7
Silkysmoothe
nick_990
Feverdr
Achieving
Huskertwood
Pioteq
bpaura
Trekhan
Ice32
blunose
Sundawgm
Thelostbrah64
bigdeadlift
Malfurion
Lifeisgood12
Vinniewalker
PatHead
xCody
I'll put up my chain soon.Last edited by mntbikedude; 09-18-2013 at 12:31 PM.
You can, and need to find a ground that you know you are suppose to stand on.. hence, stand your ground, this is the place where you know everything is as it should be for you. If you stand in a place where you know in your heart things are wrong, most things around you will never be right.
Rule number one, never work at being what another man defines as being "honorable", Honorable is is being true to what you know and and doing what you know is right for you..
Nagalfar
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09-18-2013, 01:22 PM #377
Getting pussy makes this so much easier, and it's so encouraging. Sex is feeling was less disconnected again. I lose myself in it for a little while.
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09-18-2013, 01:33 PM #378
Relapsed on day 84
................un****INGbelievable.
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09-18-2013, 01:33 PM #379
srs feel like i'm gonna have a panic attack - can't believe I've lapsed.
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09-18-2013, 01:53 PM #380
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09-18-2013, 01:55 PM #381
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09-18-2013, 01:57 PM #382
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09-18-2013, 02:07 PM #383
What's the current opinion of the community here?
Can fap without porn, or no fapping is acceptable?
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09-18-2013, 02:12 PM #384
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09-18-2013, 02:13 PM #385
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09-18-2013, 02:20 PM #386
My longest no porn/no fap streak was somewhere in the neighborhood of 5 months. I lost count sometime after 100 days. With no phucking sex. Not even a wet dream.
Pretty much gave up on it. Considered bloweing my barains out. Relapsed, went a few weeks, relapsed again, went another week, repeated for a month or two, relapsed four times in a week....
I'm in 17 days toward a goal of 180. Today, I felt more "in my skin" than I ever have in my adult life.
What did I do? Fapped. No porn, but fapped. A little irritated with myself. I'm done. I'm phucking done.
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09-18-2013, 02:49 PM #387
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09-18-2013, 03:03 PM #388
Day 10. Feels great so far. Stay strong brahs.
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09-18-2013, 03:19 PM #389
Day 62 Nofap
This is my longest streak and i'm very happy with it.. but last night the sex was horrible...
I couldn't get hard at all , and finnished in 10 pumps. My ED is still there, i will continue NoPorn and Nofap. Hopefully it will get betterCutting till september - Wedding - @ 198 lbs / 20% bodyfat
mission: 10/12 % bodyfat :D
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09-18-2013, 04:24 PM #390
Sucks bro but it happens, don't dwell on it though or it will only get worse. I actually did have ED problems back when, that is why i decided to start taking on this challenge. It has helped 10 fold, I have never felt the urge to just straight up **** women as I do now. Don't over think sex and it will get better for you.
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