I had a bad falling out with a guy, got revenge, now I miss him.

[Lottabody]

I don't know what to do. I really shouldn't be talking to him. He thinks he got away with what he did and I can't tell him otherwise of course (but I know better). And I miss him. What should I do?

[Manoftheyear90]

Ahhh. the old Mind vs. Heart game.

Why are you holding this "info" in? is it so when you get back(which is what it sounds like) with him you have something to hold against him?

SOunds like you know he's bad for you but can't resist, oh so common. When you get to the next level you won't be looking for a guy like that but one who doesn't need to be the "bad boy" to win your heart.

thats my .02

[Autopilot]

wat?

[BIGrob84]

Have some ballz. See sig.

[800]

Ahhh. the old Mind vs. Heart game.

Bunch of silliness.

And this ditz obviously has issues.

He's better off.

[Ecnewyx]

Rape.

Or murder.

[Lottabody]

Why are you holding this "info" in? is it so when you get back(which is what it sounds like) with him you have something to hold against him?

Um no because it was bad what I did and there would be fallout.

[Mad Dog Bodine]

Without knowing anything of what the actual situation is about....how do you expect honest answers?

Sounds like he did something (you found out, you retaliated by doing something) and now you feel bad and miss him.

I say, he cheated (you found out but he doesn't know) you then slept with someone else, and now you and him don't talk and now you miss him. Something like that?

[MrErnieWinkles]

Ahhh. the old Mind vs. Heart game.

Why are you holding this "info" in? is it so when you get back(which is what it sounds like) with him you have something to hold against him?

SOunds like you know he's bad for you but can't resist, oh so common. When you get to the next level you won't be looking for a guy like that but one who doesn't need to be the "bad boy" to win your heart.

thats my .02

this.

[Lottabody]

Without knowing anything of what the actual situation is about....how do you expect honest answers?

Sounds like he did something (you found out, you retaliated by doing something) and now you feel bad and miss him.

I say, he cheated (you found out but he doesn't know) you then slept with someone else, and now you and him don't talk and now you miss him. Something like that?

Nope, not at all. It's much more sinister than that. We weren't in a relationship. I considered him a good friend but not relationship material (I was right). But I could talk to him about anything.

[800]

Yeah a sinister person really makes a good friend.

Real logical.

[DoubtErased]

Nope, not at all. It's much more sinister than that. We weren't in a relationship. I considered him a good friend but not relationship material (I was right). But I could talk to him about anything.

If you did something to get back at him then he is the one who shouldnt be talking to you honestly(no hate)

Takes a weak minded person to get "revenge" on somebody. next time you are tempted to get revenge on somebody tell yourself that just means you are not over the person so don't do it because its going to hurt you in the long run, if you stopped caring or over the person revenge would be the farthest thing in your mind

[Lottabody]

Yeah a sinister person really makes a good friend.

Real logical.

He was really cool to chill with and talk to. Just not to be trusted. Lacked many gentlemanly qualities.

[Lottabody]

If you did something to get back at him then he is the one who shouldnt be talking to you honestly(no hate)

Takes a weak minded person to get "revenge" on somebody. next time you are tempted to get revenge on somebody tell yourself that just means you are not over the person so don't do it because its going to hurt you in the long run, if you stopped caring or over the person revenge would be the farthest thing in your mind

Naw because he knew me well enough to know he would never get away with crossing me like that. It's not about me having feelings for him. It's about him being put in his place and knowing there are consequences for his actions.

[DoubtErased]

He was really cool to chill with and talk to. Just not to be trusted. Lacked many gentlemanly qualities.

aka you two had great sexual chemistry

Naw because he knew me well enough to know he would never get away with crossing me like that. It's not about me having feelings for him. It's about him being put in his place and knowing there are consequences for his actions.

You are the one missing him also now, so what consequences were there? Any girl who got any type of revenge on me was told to get the fuk from around me or I would kill em. I cant stand that

[Mad Dog Bodine]

You aren't making any sense and not telling us anything. Quit being so cryptic, and just tell us. He did something so sinister it made you get revenge. But yet you miss this person and want to talk to him? Give your head a shake. I'm out....good luck being a revenge scheming person....who wants to remain friends with someone who did something so sinister.

[Lottabody]

Naw because he knew me well enough to know he would never get away with crossing me like that. It's not about me having feelings for him. It's about him being put in his place and knowing there are consequences for his actions.

I kinda feel like we're even now but I can't let him know that. but if we were to go back to the way were were he would think he is a boss. But he's not the boss, I'm the f*ckin boss. But like I said, he can't know. And I miss my snugglebug.

[800]

You aren't making any sense and not telling us anything.

Longer this thread goes, the more of a joke it becomes.

[800]

But he's not the boss, I'm the f*ckin boss.

HA HA HA HA.

See what I mean.

[Lottabody]

aka you two had great sexual chemistry



You are the one missing him also now, so what consequences were there? Any girl who got any type of revenge on me was told to get the fuk from around me or I would kill em. I cant stand that

Mmmkay and that's all I'll say about that. There are a million ways to get even. It might just seem like a run of back luck to you but you never know.

And um no not really to the first part. It wasn't really like that.

[DavidRodgers]

aka you two had great sexual chemistry

Sounds like it.

[mgftp]

Rub one out. You wont feel as lonely. srs

[Lottabody]

Anyway he texted me right after the situation unfolded (which shows just how full of himself he really is) but I never answered. He also said positive things about me to other people so I feel the door is open to a reconciliation. but yes he is sinister and I guess I just need you guys to tell me to let sleeping dogs lie.

[DoubtErased]

Mmmkay and that's all I'll say about that. There are a million ways to get even. It might just seem like a run of back luck to you but you never know.

And um no not really to the first part. It wasn't really like that.

Sounds like you are immature, and using this guy as an emotional tampon. You deserve whatever he does to you this day forward

[Lottabody]

Sounds like it.

I thought I told you what happened? Maybe not. But it's that same assh0le.

[Lottabody]

Rub one out. You wont feel as lonely. srs

*throws head back*

Ha!

[800]

......(which shows just how full of himself he really is) but I never answered. He also said positive things about me to other people so I feel the door is open to a reconciliation.

Gotta love the irony.

[Lottabody]

Sounds like you are using this guy as an emotional tampon.

Is that what it's called when a male/female relationship is platonic? Let me know somethin.

[DoubtErased]

Is that what it's called when a male/female relationship is platonic? Let me know somethin.

Yeah pretty much. Like I said if you didnt have feelings for the dude then when he did something you wouldnt have wanted revenge

[Manoftheyear90]

Bunch of silliness.

And this ditz obviously has issues.

He's better off.

What I meant by that was often people's mind (or logic) is at odds with their heart (or emotions) not always but often. Not silliness but nothing is 100 percent. Agreed that OP's thread seems to be going no where.